Source | Fei MoOC (ID: feimooc)
It's not that children don't understand you, it's that they don't live in the same world as you.
We must use real life to educate children
Blind coddling is cruel murder
White-eyed wolves are all hard-working parents
We can almost predict that this child must be a white-eyed wolf when he grows up, because his parents are raised according to the white-eyed wolf!
These habits, please help your child develop as soon as possible!
1. Learn self-control
2. Let the child taste the pain
In order to cope with this situation, Professor Li Meijin said that it is possible to do a setback education for children.
She advises parents to take their children for a swim, walk away on their own, and let the coach come.
No one learns to swim without drinking a few sips of water, sometimes the coach will do training for a group of children, encounter children who dare not go into the water, may push it down, the child will struggle hard, will be choked, and taste to the point of desperate suffocation.
After the child learns to swim home, be sure to take the opportunity to ask the child, what do you feel like when you learn to swim today?
The child must have said that I drank a few sips of water, and at that time I felt like I was going to die, and then I struggled desperately, and it was okay.
At this time, you can say to the child, remember this feeling, firmly remember, when you feel very painful, feel that you are going to die, in fact, there is no despair, as long as you struggle desperately, you will definitely come back to life.
Children who experience this kind of guidance will be stronger in the future life, and they will know that there is no end to the road, only to give up walking!
4. Empathy education, let children become real people!
One of the big differences between humans and animals is that people can develop empathy.
This is the most basic guarantee of a person's good character.
A person without empathy will not be filial, will not be friendly, and will not help others.
The 17th justice of the United States once gave an alternative speech at his son's graduation ceremony, hoping that his son would become an empathetic person.
He wished his son misfortune and pain!
Excerpts from the speech:
I hope that you will encounter injustice from time to time in the years to come, so that you will understand the value of justice.
May you taste betrayal, which will teach you the importance of loyalty.
I'm sorry, but I also hope that you will always feel lonely so that you don't take your best friends for granted.
May you occasionally have bad luck so that you will realize the place of opportunity in life and understand that your success is not predestined, and the failures of others are not natural.
When you occasionally fail, may you be ridiculed by your opponents for their schadenfreude, which will make you understand the importance of sportsmanship.
May you be ignored once in a while so that you can learn to listen.
Only by feeling the pain of the skin can we have a sympathetic understanding of others.
No matter what I think, sooner or later these will come.
Whether you can benefit from it depends on whether you can understand the message of life's suffering.
So, should we tell our children the truth about their lives?
Should!!
The real way the world is, it is there, not if you force a dream for your child, it will disappear.
Depending on age and acceptance, slowly tell them the truth about life.
One day, children will have to connect with life.
How much you have hidden from your child the true appearance of life, how much the child will be hit.
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