At present, in the mainland, minors are addicted to playing mobile phones is a common phenomenon, in fact, this mood is the same as the mood of watching TV from childhood, secretly lying on the bed to read novels, there is curiosity, there is rebellion.
First of all, children always want to play mobile phones, indicating that the child's addiction is now relatively large, coupled with a lot of courses in schools now, a lot of homework is carried out online.
It is very difficult for children to quickly learn self-control. However, parents can control the time that their children use mobile phones through external supervision, and strictly implement them.
Under normal circumstances, at the beginning of the plan, parents and children will happily agree on how long to have fun, and some children will pledge to turn in when the time comes.
But when it is actually implemented, the child begins to sprinkle, begins to stir up wild entanglements, and begins to coddle you, in short, most parents are either soft-hearted, or irritable and do not love to care, and let the children play.
As everyone knows, you don't just let go of your mobile phone, you also let go of your prestige.
As a parent, when agreeing on something with your child, if you regret it again and again, no matter what the reason is.
In the child's heart, it will leave the words of the parents who are not very reliable, I want to listen to it, and it doesn't matter if I don't want to hear it.
Therefore, as a parent, when educating children, we must be faithful and do what we say!
When the mandatory control of time has become a habit, the "addiction" of children at this time to mobile phones is already very small.
At this time, parents can talk to their children about the harm of some mobile phone radiation to the body, the light of the mobile phone screen, the harm to the child's eyes and so on.
Don't be alarmist, but tell him authentically.
Some parents will say, "You're blind if you play with your eyes!" In fact, many children will not believe this kind of statement at all.
In fact, the probability of blindness is indeed very low, but studies have shown that the mobile phone screen light source will make children form pseudo-myopia.
Tell the child the real consequences, the child agrees with this point of view, and self-control will increase.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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