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Remember the phrase, "I love you, not because of who you are, but because I love how I feel when I'm with you." There is no way to measure love by any standard, and those who measure love arbitrarily do not understand what love really is.
In fact, for most people, the person they love does not belong to the type they like at first, but they still fall in love with him, because love does not require any reason.
It is normal to think of marriage in the depths of love, and may live together, do you want to know what women think when they live with men. We interviewed a few passers-by, and let's listen to the answers of the four women.
Ms. Yang, aged 22
I wonder if he will make any excessive demands, and if he does, I should refuse or obey him. I also know that girls, it's always good to be reserved.
However, reticence is also a separation, and he cannot suppress his feelings in front of him at all. I believe he really loves me, so he doesn't do anything too much for me, he respects my decisions at all times and never pushes me.
It turned out I was thinking a bit too much, we just watched TV together, and then he put his arms around me and went to sleep peacefully.
Ms. Zhang, aged 25
We've been together for three years, and both parents are aware of each other's existence, and they've been running to get married to him from the beginning. Although we have a particularly deep emotional foundation.
But living together is equivalent to him seeing all my shortcomings, afraid that he will dislike me, of course, I also have a lot of strengths. Living together is tantamount to showing your truest self in front of him.
He will see all his bad habits and bad problems, so he will still be very nervous at the beginning. However, it turns out that the feelings between us will only become deeper and deeper, and we will not dislike each other for various reasons.
Ms. Tong, aged 28
We have been married for a year, and living together must think not only about love, but also about the troubles of life such as chai rice oil and salt. But I think that's what life really looks like.
We are also long past the age of only thinking about love, and we should plan for our future. Because I love deeply, I am willing to pay for our home and watch our home get better and better, and I am very happy.
As long as I am with him, I am happy to worry about any trivial matter. He works hard to earn money outside, I take good care of my family at home, so that he has no worries, I think this kind of life is very wonderful.
Ms. Wang, aged 24
I want to see him every night before going to bed, and the first thing I see when I open my eyes in the morning is him, in short, I want to live with him all the time and live the most ordinary but happy days.
Want to cook for him every day, do his laundry, and then work hard yourself, to be qualified to stand by his side. In fact, looking at such a perfect him, I will occasionally be glad that he was able to come to my side.
Every day I spend with him is very fulfilling, and he will take the trouble to give me some small surprises to add fun to life. I love every day with him, and I hope I have him every day from now on.