Maugham says:
"Love needs to have a feeling of weakness, it needs to have a requirement of love and thoughtfulness, it needs to be helpful and to please others."
It is true that love is never a lip service, but is manifested in practical action.
A person who loves you may not have many rhetoric, and may not say much sea oaths, but every word and deed will make you feel full of warm affection.
Take the most ordinary chat, the person who can chat with you in this way must love you very much.
Take the initiative to chat with you
The Constellation Story says:
"I'm a person who's afraid to contact people, and if I take the initiative to find you, it's because you're important in my heart."
Although, in the relationship, most of the time, men are the active party, but that is also for the woman they like.
If a man doesn't have the slightest love for a woman, then don't take the initiative, even if you look for him, he will be too lazy to take care of you.
In a relationship, initiative is not a talent, and no one is born with the desire to be proactive. A man will take the initiative to find you, which in itself represents your important position in his mind.
I once watched a video like this:
A man sent three messages to a girl in one day, during which he also received several messages from another girl.
But the girl who took the initiative to send it to him, he did not reply to a single one.
Every time he picked up the phone, he looked at whether the girl he had taken the initiative to message had replied.
The moment the other person replied to the message, his face was full of smiles.
That's right, that's the reality.
Men and women are treated the same with feelings.
Only for the people they like, a person will take the initiative to contact, even if the other party is very cold, but as long as they receive a reply, they will immediately smile.
And the treatment of people who do not like, can never take the initiative, even if the other party takes the initiative to find him, he will be indifferent to turn a blind eye.
In this fast-paced age, everyone is busy and has a lot to do.
When a man can always take the initiative to chat with you, then you must know that it is not because he is extroverted, not because he is very idle, but just because he is sincere with you.
Respond carefully to your every message
Writer Liu Ting said:
"The most beautiful love letter in the world is the chat record, do not believe to read your chat history, the most worthy of your deep love, the chat information must be warm and full, but also the person who has gone the longest." 」
When you talk to people, you may feel differently.
Some people will make you feel very relaxed, all the stems you throw can be picked up, and he will seriously reply to everything you say;
Some people will drive you crazy, either you say ten sentences and he replies to you, or it is "um", "oh" perfunctory.
In fact, the reason for this difference is not because of the difference in whether they will chat, but because of the difference between caring and not caring.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
A boy, when chatting with a girl, no matter how interesting the story the girl tells; how funny the passage is thrown, the boy is not interested.
The reply was just, "Okay," "Got it," "Is there anything else?", and in less than five sentences, the chat ended.
But when the girl he liked sent him a message, he completely changed into a different look, and even if the other party was just an expression, it could trigger his response of tens or hundreds of words.
I like a love quote from a novel:
"I have the greatest patience in the world for you."
Love or not love, it is really difficult to hide.
For people who do not love, a man will not have any patience to cater to, nor will he be willing to pander, because the other party is dispensable to him.
Only when a man really loves you, then he will have the warmest sincerity, the greatest patience, deep affection, and never tire.
Always the last ending
What is deep love?
I really like the answer that:
"You start with an ordinary greeting, he ends with a warm word of care, this is deep love." 」
In the feelings, although the matter at the end of the chat looks very small, it is not a big deal.
But when a man can notice even these small things and doesn't want you to be uncomfortable.
Then it only shows that he really put a lot of thought into you.
As the saying goes:
"At the end of the chat, it is not an external form, but the deepest care for the other party born from the heart."
Friends laugh, falling in love is really quite sudden, and the reason for falling in love is even more surprising.
In the words of a smile:
"Because he's the one who ends every chat."
At first, XiaoXiao fell for this reason, and people had to worry about her reckless decision.
But in the end, it turned out that Xiaoxiao was right, the two people had been married for five years, and Xiaoxiao had been pampered by him in the palm of his hand.
Chapman said:
"Eros is the second sun of all things, and wherever he shines, spring will flourish."
Truly loving someone will really become nuanced, and even the slightest discomfort of the other party will not be willing to let the person they love bear.
In life, if a man will accommodate and tolerate you, and every time he chats, he will let himself be the person who ends, then the mind contained in it is really fine.
And such a man must be a person who cares about you very much.
The writer Seven Years said:
"In this world, people who are really good to you will have one less person when they meet one." Don't lose someone who treats you well; don't live up to a heart that treats you sincerely. ”
A man is like a car, he can run tirelessly, he can bear the weight of the way forward, he can send you to the poetry and distance you want, and he can exchange all his sincerity for your comfort.
However, you must not live up to this sincerity, but know how to respond sincerely.
So as to give him a steady stream of strength!
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.