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The upbringing of men is often the most attractive and attractive part.
But in fact, it is often overlooked by many men.
Or rather, most men feel that either they are handsome enough or they are gold enough.
If it is both handsome and golden, then there must be a lot of women around.
This is not the case.
For women, no matter how handsome and golden a man is, he is no better than a cultured and connotative man.
Because of the cultured man, he can truly understand and respect women.
Men's upbringing is often reflected in the details.
However, it is also the most impressive.
In this world, people tend to think of Italian men as gentlemen.
This is because Italian etiquette makes Italian men a cultured man in everyone's eyes.
But the really cultured man is not really about how much etiquette he receives, but about the values he has in his heart.
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A cultured man who always knows how to respect women.
In the hearts of such men, it is often believed that women should be protected and respected.
For a while, there were several incidents of women's rights defense.
Open the report of the relevant video, and the bullet screen is filled with a few comments that make people uncomfortable to read.
For example, "It's not because they wear less" or "It's not because they don't respect themselves."
But among them, many men have also stood up and spoken out.
They said, "As men, I feel guilty to see such comments. ”
In fact, from their expressions, we can see their upbringing.
Men who respect women, whether in front of or behind people, know how to protect women and respect women in words.
They neither arbitrarily belittle women, nor insult women.
Instead, they know how to stand in the woman's perspective and think about problems.
From such a small detail, it is enough to see the gentleness that should be expected as a cultured man.
In the TV series "Hurry That Year", there is such a scene: after Chen Xun and Shen Xiaotang lived together, Fang Fei was very sad in her heart.
Therefore, he chose to use it as a way to abuse himself to retaliate against Chen Xun.
However, the man who was related to Fang Fei was openly talking in the dormitory, and Chen Xun was very angry after hearing it, telling him to shut up.
It can be seen that in addition to Chen Xun's love for the other party, it is also that his upbringing makes him willing to protect a girl.
In real life, there are also many cultured men.
Last year, a heart-warming Microblog was on top of the hot search.
A girl came home from work late at night and took the elevator alone.
At this time, there were three men who also had to get on the elevator.
After entering the elevator, the girl was more or less afraid.
One of the three men, sensing the girl's strange appearance, dragged the other two off the elevator.
Although the details are small, you can still see the man's upbringing.
He could understand the fear and panic in a woman's heart.
Therefore, he used his own subtle and introverted way to protect the other party.
Therefore, in many details, you can see the upbringing of men.
And the embodiment of these upbringings is where the real charm of men lies.
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In addition to being able to see a man's upbringing from words and behavior, in fact, from the details of his habits, it can also be seen at a glance.
Cultured man, very rule-conscious.
In the social environment, everyone is relatively free and bound by rules.
If the man is always going his own way and doesn't follow the rules, then his upbringing is lacking.
Girlfriend once talked about a boyfriend, the big problem is not, but the small habit is always insufficient.
For example, on a sidewalk where there is no one, he always likes to run red lights.
The girlfriend said it once or twice, and the boyfriend still didn't care.
And this can be seen that his upbringing is still insufficient.
This also leads to the fact that later in the love life, the boyfriend promised the girlfriend's promise, which is always impossible.
In the end, the girlfriend also couldn't bear it and chose to break up.
So, the rules, the consciousness is the small details that can be seen in the upbringing of men.
A truly cultured man who is able to consciously conform to the rules.
Cultured men also have a sense of time.
A lot of men procrastinate and develop bad habits.
Even, when dating women, they are always late and leave early.
This is not only not to take the other party's affairs to heart, but also to lack the concept of time and lack of certain education.
In fact, in the end, parenting is still related to the environment in which the individual grew up.
If he really wants to be with each other, but his upbringing is insufficient, it means that his family environment is not good enough.
In other words, two people together, ostensibly two people married, but in fact it is the fusion of two families.
Marrying a cultured man may be more relaxed.
All in all, a man's upbringing can be found in many details.
The upbringing not only reflects the character of this man, but also reflects the man's growth environment and ideological concepts.
If your own upbringing is not bad, then why should you seek perfection?
Choosing a cultured man, the two people have similar views, and naturally they are more compatible.
If he is always lacking in education, it will be difficult to overcome and resolve conflicts together in the future.
Therefore, looking at the upbringing of men from the details can make you more choices.
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