Yu Mingjia is an actress at the Beijing People's Art Theatre and one of the best actresses in China.
Her representative works include "Mobile Phone", "Legend of Chu Han", "Mendi", "Peach Blossom Luck", "Wife is Post-80s" and other wonderful works.
Yu Mingjia's career has been smooth sailing, but the emotional life has worried his parents.
Nearly thirty years old, she did not have stable feelings, and her parents began to worry about her marriage and let her start the road of blind dates.
Yu Mingjia did not want to go on a blind date, and this kind of thing could not come in a hurry. But at the strong request of her parents, she could only agree.
What people did not expect was that blind dates can also meet happiness and have a happy marriage.
Yu Mingjia and her husband Hu Jun's married life is enviable!
Yu Mingjia was born in 1982 in Changchun to a family of cadres. His father was a policeman and his mother was from Shuxiang Mendi.
As the only child in the family, Yu Mingjia is deeply loved by his parents. Although parents cannot accompany their daughters, they will give their daughters the best life.
They uphold the concept of rich daughters, and they are pampered by Yu Ming and have low self-care ability.
When she went to school, she had a driver to pick her up at three o'clock every day, go to buy KFC, and then send it to her home to make up lessons.
In such an environment, Yu Mingjia learns very well and is often praised by teachers, which parents do not have to worry about at all. But parents did this and did not care whether the child liked it or not.
In high school, Yu Mingjia did not have time to hang out with her classmates, and listening to her classmates talk about rollerblading, she was very curious and wanted to try.
One day, she plucked up the courage to rollerblad after school and came home late. When I got home, my brother ran over to her and told her: You are dead. She was confused.
It turned out that the parents called the teacher, and the principal had been looking for Yu Mingjia. She called her father and said, "I'm home." Father asked why did he go?
She said it one by one, and her father had nothing to say. After returning home, his father slapped Yu Mingjia's body. It was the first time her father had beaten her, making her more and more aggressive.
In his third year of high school, Yu Mingjia was escorted to the Diplomatic Academy because of his excellent grades. And she wants to study acting, and wants to enter the Central Academy of Drama.
Her parents told her in a serious tone: In the future, you will be a diplomat like your sister-in-law, have a stable job, and then find someone to marry, how good it is to protect you.
Yu Mingjia couldn't listen to it at all, and insisted on taking the exam, so he had a big fight with his parents.
In the end, the parents felt sorry for their daughter and agreed to learn to perform in Mingjia.
After entering the Central Academy of Drama, compared with his classmates, Yu Mingjia belonged to the half-hanging.
As a person who does not understand acting, Yu Mingjia can only seriously learn from the teacher. In her spare time, she also studies acting, and her ability is further improved.
Unfortunately, she is still one step behind her classmates, and before graduation, her classmates went out to shoot movies, and she was still studying in school.
Yu Mingjia was not envious, and the teacher also told her that there was no need to rush to shoot, and improving her acting ability was the most important. She has been studying at the school for 4 years in college.
When he graduated, Yu Mingjia faced two choices, one was to enter the society to shoot dramas, and the other was to enter the Beijing Renyi. She consulted with her teacher about the latter.
Here, although she has very few opportunities on stage and cannot go out to shoot, her ability is recognized. In 2007, a director threw an olive branch to her, so she entered the show business circle.
Yu Mingjia's career is getting better and better, but he has not had time to worry about emotional problems. She is not in a hurry, waiting for her career to stabilize and then find it.
However, she is 27 years old, and her parents hope that she can get married and have children as soon as possible, so that she can rest assured.
Yu Mingjia told his parents that there were many people like himself, and that some people were not married at the age of forty. Her parents didn't listen to her and told her she had to find someone.
She used work as an excuse not to have time to get to know people. Parents will find friends and relatives to introduce their daughters.
Yu Mingjia saw that his parents had come to really come, but he heard that the man was from Shanghai, and there was definitely no time to meet each other between the two places.
As a result, the man came to Beijing on a business trip and made an appointment with Yu Mingjia to meet. It had reached such a point that she had to deal with it and didn't hold out hope.
The boy is Hu Jun, a rich man from Shanghai, 7 years older than Yu Ming.
On that day, Yu Mingjia simply cleaned up, put on a long skirt, and went to the agreed place.
When Hu Jun greeted her, she was stunned, a boy in his thirties, wearing ripped pants, a little out of tune, not serious.
Her heart likes boys in suit pants. After a brief exchange, the two separated.
After the separation, Yu Mingjia called his father and said: The two of us will become particularly good friends, and we will definitely not become boyfriend and girlfriend.
As everyone knows, Hu Jun was moved at the first sight of her and felt that this girl was very well-behaved.
And the aunt who introduced you said to Hu Jun: This girl thinks you are particularly good. He felt like he was going to succeed.
The aunt also told Yu Mingjia's father that this young man had a good impression of her.
It was just that his father knew what his daughter was thinking, so he said, "The girl is standing there, and whoever catches up counts." Feel so brave to chase."
Yu Mingjia asked: Dad, then there is something else very good. He said: Universal training focuses on promotion.
This sentence gave Hu Jun great confidence.
In order to pursue Yu Mingjia, he went to Beijing every week. And Hu Jun resigned from Shanghai to work and live in Beijing, which was convenient for taking care of her, she did not expect it at all.
Usually, Hu Jun will meet with Mingjia, eat together, go shopping together, and always pay attention to her emotions.
When she was filming, Hu Jun would also go to the crew to visit the class, with a lot of good food, and the crew members were very envious of her having such a good friend.
At the initiative of Hu Jun, Yu Mingjia's heart was opened, and the two were together, and the parents of the two families were very happy.
After falling in love, Hu Jun is better for Mingjia, everything is based on her, and she will never say one thing or the other.
Because in Hu Jun's concept, to love a person is to put into action and take care of all her things.
And Yu Mingjia is also centered on Hu Jun, a little bird dependent, what to do will tell him, the feelings quickly warmed up.
It didn't take long to fall in love, and yu Mingjia's birthday was ushered in. This is her first birthday after being with Hu Jun, and Hu Jun will definitely make her very memorable.
Very early on, Hu Jun began to think about how to celebrate his birthday and what kind of surprises to prepare.
Yu Mingjia told him: I don't need to do anything, I am already very happy when you spend your birthday with me.
Hu Jun listened to his girlfriend very much, on his birthday, he did not prepare anything, Yu Mingjia wanted to do something, he accompanied it.
But he secretly prepared a ring.
At the time of dinner, Hu Jun took out the ring and proposed to Yu Mingjia and said, I want to marry you quickly at the first sight, are you willing to marry me?
Yu Mingjia was very shocked, but she was still quite calm, because the two people had known each other for too short a time, and they did not fully understand, afraid that the man would propose marriage with one brain and have problems in the future.
She said calmly: I can't cook, you can think about it.
Hu Jun said firmly: If you can't cook, you can find a chef later.
As soon as Yu Mingjia heard this, he was relieved, and the trouble in his heart was gone, and he nodded his head in agreement.
Hu Jun jumped up excitedly. After finishing the matter, I quickly told the parents of both sides, and they were also very happy.
After knowing each other for more than two months, Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun went to get a license to get married.
After that, Yu Mingjia's parents told her: We must combine our career and family, be a good wife and mother at home, and be low-key and modest outside, which is the perfect life. You and Hu Jun are good children, if you need mom and dad, we will always come to you. People's time and life are limited, be brave enough to do what you love. Parents will always be your strong backing.
Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun are very touched, they will certainly not fail their parents, and their in-laws are also very good to her.
Before getting married, Yu Mingjia's father told his family: My child is quite willful and cannot do housework.
Hu Jun's parents said they didn't mind and would treat her like their own daughter.
At home, Hu Jun's parents took the initiative to give her good food, and they were reluctant to tire Yu Mingjia, knowing that she was tired of filming and would not let her do housework.
Once, the two families ate together, and after eating, Hu Jun's parents took the initiative to clean up the dishes, and Yu Mingjia wanted to show a piece of tidying up.
As a result, my father came and said, Yu Mingjia you don't pretend, don't do housework at home. It made her a little embarrassed.
The in-laws already knew and didn't mind. The two families get along happily.
Not long after, Yu Mingjia became pregnant, and her in-laws and husbands were even more reluctant to tire her and took good care of her.
Hu Jun was afraid that the meals cooked by outsiders would not be appetizing, and took the initiative to make nutritious meals for his wife.
Under the care of the whole family, Yu Mingjia gave birth to two daughters before and after, and they were very happy.
And the care of children is all in the in-laws and husbands, Yu Mingjia enjoys a beautiful confinement life.
In the middle of the night, she didn't have to get up at all, Hu Jun took good care of the children, ate and then coaxed them to sleep.
Usually, it is the in-laws who take care of the housework and take care of the children, and Yu Mingjia does not have to worry about anything, just play with the children.
Because of her children, she gave up her job and taught her husband and children at home, and this kind of life made her bored, not the life she wanted to live.
Yu Mingjia rethinked the life he wanted to live. Although there is a family and children, women cannot give up their careers.
When the two children were older, Yu Mingjia was ready to make a comeback filming, and she told her husband Hu Jun about it.
Hu Jun told her that no matter what decision you make, I will support you. Yu Mingjia was more determined to go out to shoot.
And her parents told her to work hard for her dreams.
The in-laws also supported her, and the children were taken care of by them and worked with peace of mind.
Yu Mingjia, who returned to the workplace, although she missed a few years, but she had the strength to have the opportunity to shoot, and many directors threw olive branches to her.
She didn't follow all of them, but chose a few of her favorite works to shoot.
Now she is different from before, before she only had all her energy to shoot and did not have to worry. Now that you have a family, you have to take care of the children.
Yu Mingjia also spent 3 months a year filming, and other times spent at home with his children and husband.
Even friends wondered why she had such a short filming time and what she was doing at other times. She said, "Go home."
Yu Mingjia is inseparable from her husband Hu Jun.
Because she was too well protected by her parents, many things would not be, so she asked others, even online shopping could not understand, or Hu Jun taught her to learn.
Hu Jun likes her to rely on herself and is willing to solve all the troubles in her life.
Yu Mingjia knew his inadequacies and would not treat his daughter like this. From an early age, she told her daughter that you must be independent and learn the basic skills in life before someone can love you.
In life, the things that daughters can accomplish independently, Yu Mingjia never lets help, so that parents and in-laws do not interfere.
And Hu Jun was on his wife's side at all times.
Hu Jun and Yu Mingjia were all moving so fast that she didn't have time to introduce her husband to her friends. And as a public figure, he also helped his husband outside the circle very well.
Once, Hu Jun happened to go to yu Mingjia, and her friend was also there, so he took this opportunity to meet him.
My friend said: I can finally meet your handsome husband. She said, "But my husband would rather be with me, so what if you're here?"
Friends said: There is nothing to chat together. As a result, Hu Jun completely ignored her friend.
Yu Mingjia and her friend were chatting in the house, Hu Jun came in, the friend stood up to say hello, and she introduced each other.
Hu Jun only said once, hello, you go to the house to accompany your daughter. Friends were stunned, did not expect to meet so awkward.
Later, after Hu Jun and his daughter finished chatting, they went to another house, and Yu Mingjia and his friends did not take it seriously and continued to chat.
As a result, the friend heard the bath water and understood that it was letting himself go. She said goodbye to Yu Mingjia.
Hu Jun had the opportunity to get along with Yu Mingjia, he never provoked other girls, even female friends did not want to have contact, and only focused on his wife, which Yu Mingjia was very relieved.
Hu Junduo's love for this person can be seen in his actions, but he does not express it through words, and Yu Mingjia especially wants to hear words like "I love you". She asked her husband to say so.
Later, Hu Jun took the initiative to say sweet words to Mingjia, and she was very happy.
Although the two have known each other for a short time and have been married, Hu Jun truly loves Mingjia and has changed a lot for her, so that the two can always be in love, which is the secret of happiness and longevity.
Now Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun have been married for 12 years, and have always been very happy, and Hu Jun loves Mingjia even more, and loves her with her two children, in this family she will always be the first.
Yu Mingjia's marriage reassured his parents that their daughter had married the right person and did not introduce the wrong person that year.
The fate of Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun began with being forced to go on a blind date. Blind dates can also meet people who spend their lives together, and they can also have a full emotional life.
Yu Mingjia initially rejected blind dates, but Hu Jun looked at her at a glance. Under the initiative of Hu Jun, Yu Mingjia saw his sincerity and sincerity and accepted this love.
After having a child, Hu Jun's love for Mingjia only increased.
Therefore, when you meet someone you like to boldly pursue and show your most sincere heart, you have the opportunity to capture the heart of your beloved.
If you like a person, you must be bold in pursuit, and you don't have to care about the eyes of others. Those who bravely pursue, go through hardships, and finally win the hearts of their sweethearts!