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preface
In his acting career, Yu Mingjia is lucky.
Yu Mingjia, who just debuted, got the role of Tong Duoduo in "Golden Wedding", which left a deep impression on the audience.
In the hit TV series "Spring Warm Sun", she played an agent with mature female charm, Nanshan, and had countless fans.
In "The Legend of Chu and Han", even if he plays with the old drama bone Chen Daoming, he is not afraid of the scene, and the fierceness and directness of the Cao family are vividly interpreted.
And at the urging of her parents, Yu Mingjia had a wonderful fate on a blind date, and rubbed a spark of love with Hu Jun, an outsider seven years older than her.
In 2010, Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun entered the palace of marriage under the witness of their closest relatives.
Yu Mingjia told Hu Jun that after he got married, he would not cook, do housework, and did not want to learn.
And Hu Jun also pampered her, and immediately agreed, promising not to use her to do housework, and ask someone to do it or do it herself.
After marriage, Hu Junguo really did what he said, and after eleven years of marriage, Yu Mingjia did not cook a meal.
For Hu Jun, Yu Mingjia is his 100% girl, and they have their own love code.
Yu Minga experience
In 1982, Mingjia was born in Nanguan District, Changchun City, Jilin Province, and came from a family of cadres.
His father worked in the police force and his mother was highly educated.
Yu Mingjia's aunt was a diplomat, and her brother-in-law also settled abroad.
My mother once told Yu Mingjia that she would learn from your aunt and become a good diplomat.
Growing up in such an environment, Yu Mingjia's academic performance is very good, but with it, it is a huge pressure. Her mother had high requirements for her, and if her grades fell out of the top three, her mother would accuse her.
The young Yu Mingjia only knows that he must do his best to satisfy his mother.
In addition, she has to learn a lot of specialties, learn etiquette, painting, piano... Live as a child of what we call someone else's family.
In Yu Mingjia's childhood, he may have learned a lot of songs, learned a lot of etiquette, and received countless praises.
But what she lost was the joy and freedom of childhood.
Yu Mingjia lived as his mother expected, but did not live as he loved the most.
Therefore, Yuminga yearned for freedom even more.
So, when Yu Mingjia applied for school, she ignored her parents' wishes and signed up for Chinese opera, which was also the beginning of her pursuit of freedom. When her father found out, he was furious, and even beat her with his hands, trying to stop her from going to Chinese drama and let her go to diplomat school.
The father's incomprehension made Yu Mingjia very sad, and the parents only wanted their daughter to become the best person in their ideals, but did not take into account their daughter's feelings and did not ask her if she liked it.
The mother saw the sadness of Mingjia crying, and she couldn't bear it, and discussed with her father, this time listening to her daughter, let her try.
Yu Mingjia, who has longed for freedom since childhood, finally chose his love at this moment and got rid of the shackles of his parents.
But what Yu Mingjia doesn't know is that the path of an actor is destined to be a difficult road.
After entering the school, Yu Mingjia studied performing arts in depth, and although the classmates around her joined the crew and filmed works, she has always focused on her own studies.
At this moment, Yu Mingjia has not yet realized the importance of practice for actors.
After graduation, many of the classmates around me have already entered the crew, or have already established themselves in the entertainment industry.
And Yu Mingjia is still looking for opportunities and interviewing everywhere.
In the entertainment industry, without resources and hard background, this road to acting is destined to be bumpy.
So every interview with Yu Mingjia was almost fruitless. Even if she passed the interview, she was frustrated by the fact that she was only given humble roles.
But Yu Mingjia did not give up, relying on tenacious perseverance and love for acting to constantly improve his acting skills.
Until Tong Duoduo in "Golden Wedding", he successfully showed his acting talent and talent.
It has attracted the attention of producers and directors in the entertainment industry, gained recognition from the audience, and won more opportunities and resources.
After countless rejections, Yu Mingjia's path as an actor finally opened a new beginning.
As her acting career got on track, her parents also worried about her marriage problems.
Although Yu Mingjia wants to film for a few more years, he believes that the guarantee of career success can support his future life.
But in order not to make her mother angry, she would go on every blind date arranged for her by her mother, although in the end it was fruitless.
But Yu Mingjia did not expect to meet his future husband - Hu Jun in this way.
Then when it was time to rush his career, he quickly got married and had children, and lived a dull life.
First encounter
Hu Jun and Yu Mingjia's encounter originated from a blind date arranged by Yu's mother.
Yu Mingjia's mother felt that Hu Jun was a good man worth entrusting, so she remembered her daughter and maybe she could try to get along.
After Hu Jun found out, he took the initiative to contact Yu Mingjia on a business trip to Beijing. The first time he called Yu Mingjia to dinner, he was rejected by Yu Mingjia on the grounds that he was rehearsing a play.
Out of politeness, Hu Jun spoke to Yu's mother and father. Yu's father knew his daughter's personality, she was hiding, so he insisted on asking his daughter to go to the appointment.
Yu Mingjia finally wore a blue dress and went to Hu Jun's appointment.
The first time Hu Jun saw Yu Mingjia, he was moved by her.
If there is love at first sight in this world, then Hu Jun undoubtedly fell in love with Mingjia at first sight.
And Yu Mingjia's impression of Hu Jun is not very good.
It turned out that Hu Jun was wearing a T-shirt and ripped jeans on the day of the meeting, which gave Yu Mingjia a feeling that he did not pay attention to this meeting.
Seven years older than himself, he really looks like a hanger, Yu Mingjia thinks that he is not mature and stable.
After eating, the two had a brief chat.
When talking about housewives, Hu Jun believes that housewives contribute their time and energy to the family, which is noble.
And Yu Mingjia's pursuit of an acting career will never become such a housewife.
This made Yu Mingjia feel that he and Hu Jun were not suitable. When she got home, she called her mother and said: This is not good, it is too fashionable, and it is too unserious to see me.
Yu Mingjia's parents actually know that Hu Junren is good, but he is too straight.
Although Hu Jun is a straight man, in his heart he has already identified Yu Mingjia.
After the first meeting, Hu Jun plucked up the courage to start his pursuit of Mingjia.
In private, Hu Jun also communicated frequently with Yu Mingjia's father, and after getting along, Yu's father found that Yu Mingjia was very literate and very stable.
Yu's father also encouraged Hu Jun to bravely pursue his daughter.
So, with the help of Yu's father, Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun met for the second time.
But due to the first experience, Yu Mingjia did not want to go to the appointment, so he once again found a reason to shirk.
Fortunately, Yu's father was there, and he told his daughter, "Let's get along with Hu Junduo in Shanghai." “
In this way, Hu Jun successfully met Yu Mingjia.
After the first experience, Hu Jun specially wore a suit this time and dressed up carefully for this.
I want to change Yu Mingjia's previous opinion of myself and leave a good impression.
As it turned out, he succeeded.
The two talked a lot during this meeting, and the conversation was very pleasant.
Although Hu Jun is a science and engineering man, he is very interested in history and culture.
When it comes to history, he talks eloquently, and the talent and insight he inadvertently reveals have surprised Yu Mingjia.
Compared with the first sense of contrast, Yu Mingjia realized that this man had many sides waiting for her to dig.
After eating a meal, Yu Mingjia changed his impression of Hu Jun and doubled his liking for him.
Feelings heat up
After Yu Mingjia returned to Beijing and Hu Jun was in Shanghai, they have been in close contact.
And the relationship between the two can go further because of Hu Jun's words.
In the daily chat between the two, Hu Jun said: "If the two of us are really together, I have to go to Beijing to take care of you", which was such a sentence that moved Yu Mingjia.
You know, Hu Jun is an authentic Shanghai guy, and his parents and career are in Shanghai.
But he was willing to go to Beijing to take care of Yu Mingjia for the sake of Yu Mingjia and to accompany her.
Moved by such sincerity, Yu Mingjia finally decided to be with Hu Jun.
Hu Jun really did what he said, and soon after went to Beijing to work, accompanying Yu Mingjia.
Soon after, Hu Jun planned to propose to Yu Mingjia.
However, due to Yu Mingjia's love for his acting career and the rise of his career, Hu Jun was afraid that Yu Mingjia would reject him because of this.
So, with a hesitant and determined heart.
Hesitation is because he is afraid of Yu Mingga's rejection, and firm because he will not give up even if he is rejected.
During a meal, Hu Jun pretended to say something casually.
"What if I propose to you now?"
Yu Mingjia did not take this sentence to heart, which made Hu Jun, who was already nervous, even more uneasy.
It was such a straight man who, when Yu Mingjia returned from the bathroom, found a can pull ring and knelt down on one knee to propose to Yu Mingjia.
Unexpectedly, Yu Mingjia said: "You can think about it, I can't cook, are you sure you want to marry me?"
This surprised and delighted Hu Jun, and he said: "I am sure that after marriage, I will invite someone to cook and do housework, if not, I will do it, and I will be good to you for the rest of my life."
It turned out that he did it, and Hu Jun really spoiled Yu Mingjia into a treasure.
After Yu Mingjia nodded in agreement, Hu Jun put on the can pull ring for him, and took out the ring that had been prepared long ago from his pocket, and put it on Yu Mingjia to give her the sense of ceremony she wanted.
I don't know how long he waited for this day, or how long she waited.
But when that question was answered in the affirmative, they were the two happiest people at the moment.
Although Hu Jun is not a romantic person in his bones, he really touched Yu Mingjia's heart with his sincerity and clumsiness.
Happy life
Shortly after marriage, Yu Mingjia gave birth to a daughter.
In order to take care of his daughter, Yu Mingjia gave up his job and devoted himself to accompanying his daughter at home.
Hu Jun also hired a nanny to take care of the housework, and Yu Mingjia's life was very plain and happy.
As her daughter grew up, Yu Mingjia had the idea of a comeback.
Yu Mingjia said to Hu Jun: "I want to come back to filming, I only shoot one drama a year, the workload is not very much, if I keep staying at home and stopping, I will be unattractive in front of you one day." ”
Although he didn't want her to go out to work and be burdened, as a husband, Hu Jun still respected her ideas.
Not only that, Hu Jun also reduced his work and tried to accompany his daughter at home.
Whenever Yu Mingjia came back from work to play with his daughter, Hu Jun would say, "Children are not all of you."
This made Yu Mingjia cry and laugh, and quickly went to coax Hu Jun.
Yu Mingjia changed Hu Jun too much, so that this straight man began to be jealous and slowly became romantic.
Hu Jun didn't understand why he sent roses on Valentine's Day, but he still gave them, and quipped, "Hurry up, otherwise the thirty-five roses will be wilted."
Hu Jun doesn't understand why love should be expressed in words, but every time Yu Mingjia says I love you, he will reply "I love you too, wife".
Hu Jun didn't understand how he could love this woman so much, probably on the first meeting, she was wearing a long white dress and he was wearing ripped jeans.
Therefore, the straightness of mouth may be Hu Jun's romance, and it is also the romance exclusive to Mingjia.
Now that the two have been married for more than ten years, Hu Jun looks like there is no change, but Yu Mingjia looks younger and younger.
Yu Mingjia can be so beautiful now, Hu Jun's credit should not be small.
epilogue
Looking back at the love experience of Hu Jun and Yu Mingjia, it may not really be appropriate.
But this reminds me of a phrase.
"Not all fish live in the same sea, but I still hope you come over, because the scenery along the way, maybe you will love."
Today, Hu Jun and Yu Jiaming's small family has also become a family of four.
I think, in the face of Minga Jia Shu nagging that he is not romantic.
Hu Jun thought to himself: How can I not give you this love that I carry clumsily?
Therefore, it is more appropriate to run in with each other than to make heaven and earth.
And Hu Jun is also telling Yu Mingjia with actions that companionship itself is the greatest romance.