It can be set as a star
Some time ago, on my birthday, a very strange thing happened.
Because I have more friends and received many gifts, I am still quite happy. One of the girls sent me a relatively niche bag, I don't know much about this brand, but I probably know the price, and I am quite surprised.
Because our relationship is not good enough to be that kind of "girlfriend", it is still a little embarrassing. I saw that the other party's birthday was also close, so I gave her a pair of gold jewelry, which was a gift in return.
The value is almost the same, it is a courtesy exchange, and it is only when it is carried out later that it is seen by other friends.
She knocked on the side and asked me when I would buy the new bag, and of course I was with the tray. She knows a lot about bags, and her usual hobby is to buy bags.
She told me this bag was fake.
I'm also a little confused, but there's nothing to disbelieve. My heart became more and more speechless, not because I had done a big wrong, but because I really couldn't understand the behavior of sending fake goods to others.
I have always been non-critical in wearing fake bags, because I can't control it, but what is the psychology of sending others fake bags?
Seeing that I was a little depressed, my girlfriend comforted me and said that my ex-boyfriend also gave me a fake bag.
I probably know about that. Her ex-boyfriend valentine's day gave her a fake bag, commonly known as A goods, which she recognized at a glance.
At first, she thought that the other party was deceived, so she said nicely to her ex-boyfriend, and the other party didn't seem to care very much about saying that she didn't understand, so let her casually back it.
There seemed to be no anger at being deceived, and she felt that something was wrong. Later, I learned that the other party knew that the fake was buying fake, and before buying again, I asked the seller "will not be seen".
The result, of course, is to become an ex-boyfriend.
This kind of thing is actually quite a lot, before the reader told me that his boyfriend ordered shoes on a certain platform, said that it was a gift for her, and also sent a screenshot of the order.
Later, the shoes were sent over and she checked it out, but she didn't expect the result to be fake. Her first reaction was that the platform sold fakes, and her boyfriend did not say clearly, and the result was that the platform official came out to respond, and after verification, the previous order was refunded a moment after placing the order. Dare to love is for screenshots.
In fact, whether it is love or friends getting along, the price of the gift is always not the most important. If you don't have so much surplus, you can send it less often, or change it to something else, but there is really no need to send a fake.
For me, those who send fakes, especially between lovers, represent that they may not have strong abilities, but they have vanity beyond ordinary people, and love face beyond ordinary people, so as to show their "status".
They don't think about it, and most people who receive gifts aren't luxury goods. Most people dream of love not as a sandcastle made of expensive gifts that can't withstand the wind and rain, but a home-like surround that can bring a feeling of thin water and long streams.
But what is even more frightening is that there are some people who are obviously not short of money, but he will still send you fakes.
This act is as if you are clearly telling you that you are not worthy of the real thing.
This kind of chicken thief, who is well versed in the essence of small fights, will reduce his investment in a relationship as much as possible, and sending fakes is a means. If you can't beat it, you can change one, and there is no big loss, and if you fight, you will make a lot of money.
He obviously has the ability to bear more, but he is at ease waiting for you to give everything, and draw you a big pie, if you have an opinion, he will say that you worship gold, say that you do not understand things, and say that you have other plans.
So when you encounter the problem of lovers sending fakes, it is still recommended that you spread out directly, if you are worried that you will hurt each other, you can be euphemistic, only by explaining it clearly, you can understand whether the other party knows, is not the kind of person who is a chicken thief.
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