Most people who like water margin are more advocating brotherhood.
There is such a person, accompany you a word, a lifetime, of course, is a cherished thing in life, but once the golden friendship encounters the feelings of husband and wife, and there is a contradiction between the two, how will you weigh this name?
Girls' love, married, men are all about themselves, no matter where you are, I will follow all the way, and the love of boys, but only a symbol, a symbol, a difficult chase is over, I should focus on other things.
In fact, a girl will never know which is more important to her, to her friends, or to her career, because sometimes men themselves will be confused and confused, and it seems that things are not right has become an attitude of men's lives. This is where the charm of men lies, but it is also the opening of marriage contradictions, once doubt, jealousy invades, it is easy to have family conflicts, and even run things...
It's not the woman's fault, and it's not the man's fault.
Some people say that men only exist when they are in love, in fact, this is not unreasonable, because compared to husband and wife, there may be more words between friends, Liu Bei in the Three Kingdoms period once said: "Friends are like brothers and sisters, wives are like clothes", Song Jiang in the Water Margin is to the point of exerting this psychology to the fullest.
On closer analysis, Yan Boxi's betrayal seems excusable. "Oshi, after I married you, did you know that you were all I had in my life?" Oshi, what have I gained in front of your jianghu friends? Do you know? When you are not there, I think day and night, but you will not give me a little spiritual comfort, I know that you are busy with official business, I know that you have your own career, but Oshi, this spring supper moment, can you wholeheartedly give up those things that have nothing to do with us.
But you didn't, you were in Cao Ying's heart as usual, what did I mean to you? Maybe I really don't count anything, I'm just a dust in your life, destined to use my life to fulfill your righteousness, I am looking for a little white face, but without you my life has no landing, my soul has not landed, I grabbed Zhang Wenyuan like a life-saving straw, just so that when I am lonely, when I am lonely, I can have someone by my side, accompany me, and let my heart have a sense of belonging. Oshi, you know what? You know how many tears I shed when I was alone in an empty room, do you know? How scared I am at night alone...
In the end I fell under your sword, and I don't deny that I fell under your sword because of my betrayal, because of my jealousy and unreasonable trouble, but Oshi, are you really not at all wrong? You see your friends too heavily and too heavily, and you look at me too lightly and too lightly, you know? Sooner or later, when a bowl of water is uneven, sooner or later, my life will come to an end, your official fortune will end here, this unrequited relationship will eventually end in tragedy, Oshi, if you treat me well, I will really be loyal forever, accompany you to old age, but you will never know it...
The girls after the nineties are delicate and sensitive to love, like drawing a knife and breaking water, and like holding a handful of sand and dust hard, we have worked hard and paid, but we always fail to empty their dreams because they do not know the method, like Yan Po Regret.
People who play Song Jiang in life are not a minority, they are heavy on love and righteousness, stick knives in the ribs of friends, and be righteous to friends, but they forget how to distribute their feelings, in fact, sometimes, the harmony of the family also requires our careful management.
There are countless people who play Yan Po Xie in their lives, and they are selfishly unwilling to have others to share their men, even if they are their own men's brothers, buddies. They have a strong possessiveness for love, and they are not tolerant of life.
In fact, once such two kinds of people walk together, it is a tragedy. It's not my fault, it's not your fault, it's just the two personalities created by fate, which are calm and quiet on the surface, but in fact, the dark waves are turbulent, and the suppressed anger is more powerful when it erupts, domestic violence, or one shot and two scatters...
We should not go to extremes in life, we are serious about righteousness, whether it is family affection or friendship or love. If your man is a jianghu boy like Song Jiang, you should learn to deal with this relationship, or one day she will suddenly understand, "Oh, how important you are to me in life." If your wife is like Yan PoXi, especially a post-90s girl, you should give her more care and love, because her heart is very fragile, very afraid of loneliness, insecure, afraid of a person facing a lonely night...
In fact, men are more considerate, women are more tolerant, life allows us to operate with our hearts, love, friendship, we can really handle better, yesterday, today, tomorrow, can really be peaceful and bright... The love of the post-90s generation will also be very sweet.