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Children like to cry, parents look at the heart, then what should the child do when he cries? In fact, behind the child's crying, parents must know why in order to solve the fundamental problem.
"Old ancestors, the children are still young, I hope you only laugh, not cry!" Watching her mother-in-law burn up the sacrificial paper, chanting words, instead of usual, Xiao Min will feel superstitious. But today, she had to listen.
Because this is the first time to take the 2-month-old baby back to his hometown, but the baby is always noisy, crying as soon as he puts it on the bed, and the body does not show abnormalities, which makes people anxious.
Originally, Xiao Min was reluctant to return to her hometown, because she was in the cold of spring and was afraid of the child's cold. But the husband was worried about the epidemic or insisted on coming back, watching the child wow wow crying, Xiao Min could not help but blame her husband. When the chicken flew and the dog jumped, the mother-in-law wondered if the "old man" was at work, so there was the beginning of the scene.
However, to no avail. Everyone is ready to take the baby to the county hospital for examination, considering the cold outside, Xiaomin wrapped the bag she usually uses for the child, and the magic is that the baby is quiet.
When the mother-in-law thanked the old ancestor, Xiao Min suddenly thought, "Will it be a new bed and quilt, which is strange to the baby, so I am afraid." But the quilt was familiar to him, so he stopped crying. With doubts, Xiao Min took the bag off, and the child cried again. Hurry up and wrap it up again and calm again.
The mystery was solved, so Xiao Min directly wrapped the baby in a bag and slept in her arms, and sure enough, the baby slept peacefully.
The panicked family finally calmed down.
Such a scene of chickens flying and dogs jumping is not unfamiliar to people with small babies at home. The arrival of the baby is extremely happy, but when the little one cries, everyone's heart hangs. Especially the abnormal crying, adults are anxious and worried, and the baby is distressed and helpless, it is simply a mess.
In fact, when the baby first arrived, there was a lot of information hidden in the wah-wah cry. Caregivers need to quickly judge behind the cry, and the expressed needs can be effectively soothed.
First check the most basic thirst, hunger, urine, pulling, sleepy, and then see if there is obvious physical discomfort, such as fever and spitting up milk, etc. (if it is obviously unwell, please send it to the hospital for examination in time), if not, you can analyze from some common situations.
Behind the child's crying, in addition to the physiological needs, it may also be these reasons
▼ Insecure, very scared
From the familiar womb to the outside world, the little baby is very sensitive, and strange smells, sounds, environmental changes, etc. may make him uneasy. Sometimes, relatives and friends come to visit, but after that the baby will cry, and someone will say, "This is bringing unclean things to the house." "It's not, it's that these relatives and friends are very strange to the baby, and the baby feels scared."
In the face of the baby's trepidation, we have to be patient and coax. Try to find something familiar to increase your sense of security, sleep directly with you, or sleep in a hug.
▼ Colic, very uncomfortable
Newborns are prone to inhaling a lot of air when they feed and cry, and this gas accumulates in the intestine, causing colic. Babies with colic tend to cry sharply and have a bloated stomach that is relieved after farting.
At this time, parents can use airplane hugging (that is, try to let the baby's stomach touch our arms, stomachs and other places to stimulate intestinal peristalsis), gentle massage, gentle hot compresses, etc. to promote gas discharge.
▼ I began to recognize milk and wanted to resist
The sucking response of the baby in the first 3 months is instinctive, and after 3 months, many mixed-feeding babies may have "milk recognition" behavior. You can only eat breast milk or only formula, otherwise you will cry. At this time, parents can only follow the child's choice first, let him try not to be hungry, and then think of other ways.
▼ Surrounded by foreign bodies, uncomfortable
Your baby's skin is very delicate, and if foreign bodies (such as lines and labels) irritate or pull, it will be very uncomfortable. Especially if it is hair, leather bands and other things, it is likely to be wrapped around the baby's fleshy places, causing injury, so parents must carefully check.
▼ Toothing reaction, uncomfortable
When the small deciduous teeth germinate, not only will the tooth flesh feel itchy, but some babies will also have physical fever, which will make the baby irritable. If it is an abnormal crying in the teething period, you can use a teething stick to soothe your baby.
▼ I was vaccinated and did not adapt
When the vaccine enters the body, some babies experience mild discomfort. For example, non-allergic reactions such as difficulty sleeping, thirst, and the pain of vaccination will make the baby feel uneasy, and the combination of the two will cause crying. At this time, parents need to be patient and reassured.
Tips: If you have obvious symptoms such as fever, allergies, vomiting and so on after vaccination, please go to the hospital immediately.
▼ Eat more accumulated food, do not transport
The baby's spleen and stomach are relatively weak, and adults hope that the baby will eat as much as possible, and inadvertently exceed the standard, forming a food accumulation. In turn, it causes discomfort such as fire and constipation, and the baby will naturally feel uncomfortable crying, and even night crying. If you find that your baby's stomach is bloated, the tongue is thick, there is breath, it is difficult to defecate, and you like to sleep on your knees, you must eliminate the accumulation of stagnation for the baby.
Before the baby can't speak, they use crying to express their needs, so they usually learn more parenting knowledge, summarize the characteristics of their own dolls, and let the dolls suffer less at key moments, and adults also toss less.
What other situations have you encountered that may make your baby cry? Communicate it out and let more parents cope with it easily!