In the adult world, no one has how easy it is.
There will be a lot of interpersonal relationships to deal with, and there will be a need to be busy in order to make money.
Often I will suffer some grievances in my heart, I will often need to add various classes, and I often need to say some insincere words and do things that I don't like so much.
Indeed, just to survive, many people often have already done their best.
When we are single, when we are like this, this does not hinder anyone, it is not so related.
But if one day, when we are in love, at that time, we may not only still need this, but even have to work harder to make some long-term plans for ourselves and for each other's future.
We can be busy, but even if we are busy, we had better not snub the person next to us, our object.
Feelings simply cannot withstand the snub.
Think about it, in our lifetime, we have really known a lot of people.
Maybe most people are not so important, but there are also some people who have a good relationship with each other, have a very good time, say that they will always be together, and then they are separated.
And the reason for each other's separation is not necessarily because of anything else, it may just be that as they grow up, they have their own lives, they are not in touch, and then gradually the relationship fades and they walk out of each other's lives.
And many people's relationship, no contact, cold for a period of time, the friendship between each other will become very weak, love, how is not the same, always snub each other, that is completely not OK.
When we snub each other in various ways, the other party looks for us, we are just very perfunctory, special days, we always have no time, when the other party needs, we are always absent, the other party's heart, really will have ideas.
Even if we can often be considerate, but we always can't feel our care, the other party will still suffer from loss and loss, especially uneasy, think that we probably don't love, we change our hearts, we don't take her seriously.
No matter what kind of relationship, only by contacting often and accompanying more, the relationship will be maintained and will get better and better.
On the contrary, once the other party gets used to always not having us, later, she will really feel that we don't have to be there, and being there is also the same as not being there, but only dispensable, and she will no longer dare to have any expectations.
If you can't give the present, you may not have a future.
We may think that we are working so hard, so desperately, so busy, all for the sake of the future of two people.
So that you can live in a better house in the future, you can not worry about life, you can be superior at the material level.
Perhaps, everything we do is indeed motivated by this, but even so, we must understand that if we cannot complete the other party at this moment, and always ignore the other party, the other party cannot trust us at all.
You will feel that we are all so cold at the moment, and we can't count on it in the future.
Moreover, we always say that it is for each other's future, but the world is always so changeable, even if we are together at this moment, we actually have no way to guarantee that we will still be together in the years to come.
It is very likely that as you walk, your feelings will not go on, and you will only part ways with each other.
One day, the other party may not have enjoyed half of our fruits at all, and each other has become strangers and begun to become strangers, and all the results of our struggle are only our own.
The world is unpredictable, in order to live, of course, we have to work hard, but we should not completely ignore our feelings for the sake of our career, ignore our other half, just feel that the other party should understand, and always put the other party in a relatively backward position.
Love each other and cherish the present.
No one knows, tomorrow's accident, which one comes first, what we have is always only this moment.
In life, we should cherish this moment, when we love someone, we should take advantage of the fact that the other party is still around us, treat her well, say what you want to say to her, and do what you want to do with her.
You can be a little busy on weekdays, but no matter how busy you are, you must also take time to send a message to each other, make a phone call, greet each other, communicate with each other about each other's situation, and share each other's lives.
When resting, especially on weekends, it is best not to use the excuse of being busy on weekdays, not even to date each other, not to spend time with each other, and whenever there is time, be sure to plan for each other.
Our object, she may not want much, but it is just our subconscious thoughts, often let her know what we are busy with, but only occasionally spend time together, can feel our presence and care.
Career should be well broken, love should not be delayed, can not be completely balanced, but also as much as possible balance.
Let each other's time together, every moment can be so warm, but also so sparkling.
Only in this way can we be worthy of this feeling, even if we can only be separated in the future, we will not feel regret.
In any case, we should all be responsible for our significant other.
Be as accompanied as possible, care as much as possible, and let the other person feel our love as much as possible.
Talking about love, not to say that you want to chase a person with your heart, you can slack off after catching up, you can ignore each other, really together, love is really beginning, but it should be more careful.
Only if we are hard enough, the other person will always be there, and there will be no other thoughts.
Otherwise, the other party may leave at any time, and after we are done, we will not be able to find each other at all.
Busyness is a part of life, and love is even more so.
We also plan each other inside, rather than saying, always feeling that the other person should make way for busyness.
Text/Tan Meng
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