Many women, when they are angry, quarreling, complaining, will say things like "There is no good man in this world", or will say "The good men in this world are dead", or will ask: Is there a good man in this world?
Today, I saw another article, saying that Mr. Lu Xun had said such a sentence: I am afraid that there are no good men in this world, and good men are all pretended. However, I think that if a man refuses to even pretend, then he is probably not a good man.
Whether this sentence is said by Mr. Lu Xun or not, I always have doubts, but I am also blinded, whether a good man exists or not, this is related to the lifelong happiness of all women.
1. What kind of man is called a good man?
Because most women want good men: having money, having a house, and having a car are already hard conditions, and it is best to have good looks, muscles, taste, and texture. I also hope that he has a career, earn money to support the family, what we want to buy, men are best to buy without blinking their eyes immediately.
Of course, I hope that he will be a domineering president in the workplace, go home and be a well-behaved man, hope that he will share the housework, and it is best to do a good job. When we had a cold, we rushed downstairs to buy medicine at the first time, and when we came to our great aunt, we did not give up, and immediately brewed a cup of brown sugar water.
In his mother's house, I hope that he can offer his affection in front of his mother-in-law, nag with the old man, and it is best to help his brother-in-law solve work problems.
In front of girlfriends, men must behave well to themselves and make others envious, but they cannot have a little heart for girlfriends.
So, the so-called good man in our hearts is the rich man, the housekeeper, the driver, the repairman, the listener, the cook, and occasionally the punching bag. In short, as long as the woman is dumbfounded, the man immediately begins to coax.
Such a good man, everyone wants ah, but the key is, such a good man, where to find ah!
This kind of peerless good man should be Professor Du Minjundu in "You from the Stars", but unfortunately he is not a human, he comes from an alien planet!
So, if you meet such a good man, you must shine your eyes, he is not a robot, or from an alien planet, if he is a living man, it must be a scumbag or a liar, trying to deceive you of feelings or money, so he is so good in disguise.
2, in this world, good men are really extinct?
I guess it should not be, but many women are too demanding of men and hope that he is omnipotent, but how is this possible?
One fact that we have to accept is that every man is flawed because everyone is flawed.
If we die ourselves, how can we ask them to take good care of us?
If our own appearance is not high, how can we ask them to be handsome like Wu Yanzu?
If we ourselves take a few thousand dollars in wages, how can we ask them to be overbearing presidents?
So, in the end, it is still a matter of matching between men and women, the so-called door-to-door pair, the so-called male talent and female appearance, but so. What pot with what lid, as a woman, can be willful, can be done, but first of all have self-knowledge.
3. What kind of man should I look for?
Seeing this, many women are stupid, by your words, I can't even complain, I have to look in the mirror first, what kind of person I am.
That being said, within the scope of ability, you still have to find the most suitable and excellent person, otherwise, how can you be worthy of your proud heart.
Although there are no absolutely good men in the world, there are still many good men who are suitable for themselves.
If you want a career-oriented man, then you let him run around, toss by him, give him time and space to do business, let him realize his dreams and future, and don't complain too much that he can't come to you when you need it. You have to learn to be alone, to learn to survive his busy time, because this is the price you have to pay when you choose a career man.
If you want a man at home, then you have to forgive him for his less enterprising, forgive him for his salary rise too slowly, forgive him for being too slow to promote in the workplace, but he can at least warm your bed every day, carefully select fruits and vegetables for you, and even buy your underwear and underwear.
So, every woman has to have a scale in her heart, know what level she is at, and then use herself as a standard to find the best possible man, but also moderately forgive and understand each other's shortcomings.
There are no good men in this world, but if you are well trained, he will become your good man. But if your heart is broad enough, your heart is strong enough, the one around you who suits you is a good man, except of course, the scumbag.