With the gradual end of the school season, the teaching of new students across the country has entered the right track. But for the children who leave their parents for the first time to go to kindergarten to study, most of them will cry because they are reluctant to their parents on the first day of entering the kindergarten, and even some parents will quietly cry because they are reluctant to have children.
Deng Chao is a model husband and model father in the entertainment industry. Although he and actress Sun Li have been broken up and divorced many times since their marriage, the feelings of the two people have been strong and very loving.
Moreover, after marriage, Deng Chao and Sun Li also gave birth to a son, a daughter and two children, the son is called and so on, and the younger sister is called Xiaohua. Although the daily work of Deng Chao and Sun Li is very busy, both of them will try their best to set aside time to accompany their children and give them the greatest love.
And through the daily development of Deng Chao and Sun Li, they and the majority of parents attach great importance to every step of their children's growth, and do not want to miss every detail of the child's growth process.
Not long ago, Deng Chao and Sun Li's son and daughter reached the time of entering the kindergarten. On the day of entering the park, Deng Chao just happened to be on a business trip. Because he did not want to miss the start of his child's school, Deng Chao decided to send his child and then travel on business.
Therefore, early in the morning on the day of school, Deng Chao came to the kindergarten with waiting and xiaohua, and along the way he kept asking his son and daughter's father if they would miss their father.
At the school gate, Deng Chao refused to let go of the small hands of his son and daughter, reluctant to let them leave him. It wasn't until the kindergarten was about to start classes that Deng Chao let his son and daughter into the kindergarten.
However, Deng Chao was still not at ease. So, as he was about to leave, he turned around and turned back to the kindergarten and came to the door of the child's classroom. Only to see Deng Chao leaning against the wall, silently looking at the children in the classroom, unwilling to leave.
But the working hours are already very tense, and Deng Chao, who had to leave, looked back at the kindergarten step by step, and secretly shed tears, which was completely different from the witty and funny image left for everyone on the screen.
Sun Li saw Deng Chao, who was in love, took out his mobile phone and took a photo of him, shared it on Weibo, and accompanied it with copywriting: "The two babies are stronger than their fathers." Dad is also going to go to kindergarten to learn how to relieve separation anxiety. ”
In fact, Deng Chao's reluctance to let his children enter the kindergarten is very common in the majority of parents in life. Because the child stays by the side of the parents for a long time, once the child wants to leave the parents and enter the collective life, the parents will be even more sad than the children, and they will be reluctant to separate.
This is the separation anxiety disorder of parents. Because they are not bold and strong at heart, parents often look sad on their children's school day.
So, how should parents deal with this separation between yourself and your children?
1, adjust their mentality, hint at themselves
The reason why many parents are afraid to face the separation from their children is because they have become accustomed to their children sticking to themselves around them. Once the child leaves, the parent's heart will feel very empty because there is no child around, so the parent becomes lost and sad, and is not used to the child's departure.
At this time, parents should adjust their mentality in time, and tell themselves in their hearts that their children are just going to school, and when school is over, their children will return to their side. The day passes quickly, find something else to do to distract yourself, and soon you will be able to see the child again.
2. Understand the daily arrangements of the school
When a child enters school for the first time, parents often do not trust all the behavior and activities of the child in school, lest the child be unhappy in school, or even bullied. In fact, in this case, parents can do some understanding of the school before the child enters school, and after having a certain understanding of the daily life of the school, the parents of the child who enter the school can have a general understanding.
And many kindergarten teachers will take pictures of some children's daily sending to parents, which can also allow parents to know their children's information in time, which is also very helpful for alleviating parents' separation anxiety.
3. Exercise children's independence
Once a child enters school, he needs to do something on his own, rather than relying on his parents anymore. Therefore, before the child enters the kindergarten, parents should exercise the child's independence as soon as possible, so that the child can independently do what he can. In this way, even if the child enters the kindergarten, the child can take care of himself without the teacher being able to take care of every child.
The child is the flesh that falls from the mother's body, and his every move involves the hearts of the parents. Therefore, many parents will be inseparable from their children when they enter the kindergarten. In order to make the child's entry into the kindergarten more smooth, parents need to face the separation between the child and the child correctly, which is also very beneficial to the child. Moms and Dads, when your children enter the kindergarten, how do you feel?
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning: If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
Colleagues show this book to children, usually children also tutor mathematics, sometimes feel that cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also use what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!