No painless, 6 hours of super detailed vaginal delivery experience

What is it like to have a normal birth?

Let's listen to the story of Lilac Mother Planet's Baby Mom @ Favorite Mommy.

Who am I?

I am a post-90s mother, still a child in my heart, and I want one more baby to grow up with me. At the age of 27, at the age of 26, he seriously prepared to conceive a baby, and then went all the way through the obstetric examination and finally gave birth to the next cute girl.

Preparation for normal delivery

The reason why I am serious about preparing for pregnancy is because I have had the experience of accidental pregnancy and then accidental spontaneous abortion (I will continue to share this experience after the opportunity), which is too painful, so this time I must be prepared well to minimize the risk of childbirth. During pregnancy, I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes, so I paid special attention to diet during this time, chose food carefully, and listened to the doctor's request to walk 10,000 steps a day, not daring to be lazy.

The experience of smooth delivery

I don't dare to talk about it in front of me, but briefly explain the basic situation, and we start to talk about the right topic and the experience of smooth production. During a routine 38-week maternity check-up, I had contractions in fetal heart monitoring and the chief doctor said , "You should have a baby this week." I was so surprised that I said, "Doctor, huh?" I don't feel anything." The doctor said, "Go back and pack your bags." I was particularly surprised that I was going to give birth? After the doctor pointed out that my conditions for vaginal delivery were sufficient, the fetus had entered the basin, and said some indicators, but I did not understand, so I did not remember.

38 weeks + 3 afternoons, I felt wet under my lower body, went to the toilet and found that my underwear had a faint red color, I expected to see red, but there was no contraction pain, but for insurance, I decided to go to the hospital.

My mother accompanied me to the hospital at night and went directly to the inpatient department to do fetal heart rate monitoring. There is already a feeling of contractions, but the regular contractions required by the doctor have not been formed.

After doing fetal heart rate monitoring, the doctor asked me to go home and wait, but she said, it is estimated that you will come over tonight after work, first go back to sleep well, after all, in the hospital is not home, rest at home better.

After going home, I went to the park near my home and took a 7,000-step walk, and I was fierce enough to thank this sport for making me shrink in advance. Rest quietly, irregular contractions are always present, stomach contractions are in flurrys, pain but bearable. Can't sleep, can only use the App to record their own contractions.

At 5 a.m., the contractions are within 5 minutes, and the husband is woken up and taken to the hospital by taxi with his suitcase. Came to the hospital, and it was fetal heart rate monitoring, the doctor asked if the contractions were not very regular, you were sure to be admitted to the hospital, I said yes, I don't want to run, I will be at ease in the hospital. During the day, contractions are present, but irregular.

B ultrasound, showing less amniotic fluid, the doctor said that today can not give birth, tomorrow will be induced. I think the baby must have wanted to come out, took the yoga ball, and then worked harder, sat on top of the yoga ball, and slowly tossed the ball. In the morning, the contractions quiet down, and in the afternoon, the contractions begin to have obvious pains, but they can still survive by biting their teeth. My husband's nucleic acid test passed at 6 p.m., with the results, and came into the inpatient department at night to accompany me, and I was relieved a lot.

At 10 o'clock in the evening, I was very sleepy, but I couldn't sleep at all with irregular contractions, so I had to go to the doctor, who prescribed a durandin painkiller. Magical painkillers, confused sleep.

At 12 o'clock in the evening, I heard a loud "meow"! Immediately frightened to wake up, the water began to rush underneath, immediately jumped up, got out of bed, afraid of wetting the bed. Tell my husband that I seem to have broken water and quickly call the doctor. Then I went to the intensive care unit for fetal heart rate monitoring, and this time I felt what real contractions were. Every inch of flesh in the stomach hurts like someone twisting a rope. Heavens, the pain is so bad that the whole person loses his soul.

After the nurse pointed out the examination, she said that she had not opened her finger and continued to wait. I know, you have to open to 3 fingers to hit painlessly. As a result, you can only endure contraction pain in bed.

At first, the sensation of pain was transferred by pulling on the quilt, but later the nurse saw it and said I would tear the quilt and take it away. Only the sheets can be pulled, to the back, the bed sheets can not relieve the pain, kneeling on the bed with closed eyes and tears, kneeling on the ground to pound the floor, calling the nurse over and over again, the nurse said, "You have hit Durandine, this is already the highest level of painkillers, not yet opened to 3 fingers, there is no other way, everyone has a child this way."

When the contractions came, the whole person lost itself in pain, no matter what posture there was no way to relieve the pain, the pain that was out of control, and the body seemed to be handed over to nature. When the contractions go away, the sleepy tired can fall asleep instantly, wait until the next contractions, quickly wake up, and then come again, the heart can only say "MD, come again."

It seems that at 4 o'clock, the nurse came to the examination again, said open five fingers, directly into the delivery room, still no pain, I said beat. The nurse said, "You open your fingers so fast, there is no need to hit it painlessly, and you will be able to give birth soon." I said, "I don't care, I'm going to fight painlessly." Then I was sent to the delivery room in a daze, and my husband helped me take off my shoes, and I had lost my soul, like a walking corpse, and I didn't know how to think.

Inside the delivery room, I thought I would be beaten painlessly, but I didn't wait, I had to endure the contractions that were getting more and more painful over and over again. I wasn't called Dole, because I was the only one in my life at that time, so the nurses and midwives in the entire delivery room surrounded me, and two very young intern doctors kept comforting me. They gave me a massage, gave me a lot of verbal encouragement, the pain was irreplaceable, but gave a lot of support mentally. At this time, the doctor also asked me to sign something, I especially wanted to refuse, I was not in pain myself, but also wanted me to sign, angry. Twisted and squeezed casually signed.

At 5 o'clock, ten fingers were fully opened, and the doctor came, ready to start raw. Doctors will give instructions to "work hard, rest," and doctors will give a lot of encouragement to "awesome, really good, use hard." The raw doll really relies on the praise of the doctor to have the courage to inhale hard.

When I am born hard, I can feel the feeling of the flesh tearing underneath, but helpless, at this time, the strength of the contraction has been torn or not, the power of this contraction is given by nature, you feel yourself pulling the baby out with force. On the delivery bed, strain to pull out the urine. The nurse helped me change the mat one by one.

Under the guidance of the doctor, after the last force, the baby's head came out, and the doll's body slid out.

At 6 o'clock, wow, heard the baby's crying, not too much touch, just felt that it was finally over. After the baby comes out, there is another hard push of the placenta out. Finally the doctor said he needed two stitches and asked me if I wanted to take anesthesia? If you take anesthesia, you will have to get another injection. I think, anyway, it is only two stitches, no need for one more stitch, the pain of the baby is endured, are you still afraid of the pain of this stitch? The pain of the needle is fine, and the pain of pulling the thread immediately makes the whole person cry out in pain.

The baby washed white, weighed, 5.4 pounds, checked and sent to me. To be honest, at this time, I didn't feel like a mother.

At 8 o'clock, after giving birth, you need to observe in the delivery room for two hours, and after observation, you can leave the delivery room. The baby was placed between my legs, and the adults and children lay in the hospital bed and were pushed out by the nurse.

And finally

The above is my experience of vaginal delivery, from the beginning of severe contractions from the water break to the completion of childbirth a total of 6 hours, the time will be less than other normal mothers, but because I am a pain sensitive person, I suffer no less than other mothers.

Speaking of more journals, I want to say more records, to more mothers who want to know the normal birth process to know how the normal birth process is. At least before I was born, I didn't understand the whole process, I just took it one step at a time.