"Heart Residence": Why can Shi Yuan help female neighbors buy underwear, but he can't live honestly with Gu Qingyu?

The pair of Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan in the hit drama "Heart Residence" is obviously too humble for the woman to love.

How humble Zhan Xiang's love is, how humble Gu Qingyu's love is. But the humility of the two is also worthless!

Gu Qingyu was originally a proud strong woman, but in order to marry Shi Yuan. She did not hesitate to put away her sharp edge, pretended to be a small woman, and learned to curry favor with her in-laws in a low voice.

When she got married, she said to Shi Yuan: "Thank you for letting me marry you", which doomed her humble life after marriage.

In order to take care of Shi Yuan's self-esteem, after marriage, he was afraid of the other party's anger even after saying a word, and when he was angry, he had to endure saying that he was not angry; in order to help Shi Yuan's family, he did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to find someone to help his mother-in-law cure the disease, considering Shi Yuan's self-esteem, he did not allow the doctor to tell.

Such Gu Qingyu was both humble and pitiful, and all the feelings and money he had paid were not only not rewarded accordingly, but also met with Shi Yuan's incomprehension and suspicion.

Shi Yuan, as a man who flaunts that he wants to live back to life and refuses to eat soft rice and hard food, while enjoying the convenience brought by Gu Qingyu's aura, he is hurting Gu Qingyu's heart again and again.

After marrying Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan, who only has a secondary school diploma, can not only do tutoring, but also enter the world's top 500 companies.

Shi Mu also naively thought that all this was because her son was good enough and had worked hard enough in return. As everyone knows, it is all stained with the light of his daughter-in-law, and his son can live out as a person!

But before meeting Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan not only did not even have the self-esteem of being a man, but also lost the bottom line of being a man. In order to make quick money, he actually went to the business of fake marriage and dividing the house. For this, he also drove the self-righteous mother crazy.

Shi Yuan, who lived such a terrible life, should have been grateful or paid more love to return after marrying such an excellent woman as Gu Qingyu, but as a result, he paid Gu Qingyu wrongly again and again.

For the sake of his already lost self-esteem, he regarded Gu Qingyu's repeated assistance and help as a harm to him, and even lied to Gu Qingyu.

Gu Qingyu's unbelievable expression when she found out that Shi Yuan was lying was also too painful, not only married, but not even the most basic honesty, this is the most chilling bar.

As a man, why can Shi Yuan help the female neighbor buy underwear, but he can't live honestly with Gu Qingyu?

In the play, when Gu Qingyu went to Shi Yuan's house to find him for the first time, the appearance of the female neighbor Li Li made Gu Qingyu feel shocked by Shi Yuan's personality.

The female neighbor Lily's dress at that time was very eye-catching, making people feel very open when they looked at it. The opening is to ask Shi Yuan to help himself buy underwear when he goes abroad to lead the group, and also says that the size you know, Shi Yuan was killed on the spot.

Although Lily's words are a bit incomprehensible, it can also be seen that her relationship with Shi Yuan is obviously not ordinary.

Shi Yuan can honestly yearn for Lily because they are people of the same class and will not have any worries about getting along.

And Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu are not the same class of people at all, whether it is academic qualifications or qualifications, or patterns, they are not at the same level, and Shi Yuan's edges and corners have long been smoothed out by real life.

In the face of Gu Qingyu, a successful woman dressed and generous in front of her, perhaps a secular woman like Lily is more suitable for a slightly greasy Shi Yuan.

Wearing slippers and smoking a cigarette in the alley, playing mahjong, occasionally joking with female neighbors, this is the real source of shi. And Gu Qingyu's appearance is just to make Shi Yuan want to regain the self-esteem he once lost.

In addition to the difference in class, the more critical thing is that Shi Yuan'ai's Kenben is not Gu Qingyu, two details can be seen.

01 Not enough love

Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu were each other's white moonlight when they were young, and they had to be separated because of family changes, but they had an agreement to reunite at that time. Once Shi Yuan returns to Shanghai, he can go to the agreed place to reunite!

Gu Qingyu waited for more than ten years, and even became an obsession in his heart, and he has been entrusting people to find it, and he is no longer willing to accept the pursuit of any man.

However, Shi Yuan returned to Shanghai tomorrow morning, but he never went to the appointment.

Don't say that because you are not inferior to yourself, you don't dare to go, it's just because you don't love enough excuses. If the two hadn't reunited because of a fake marriage, I don't think Shi Yuan would have gone to Gu Qingyu again in this life.

02 Love is wrong

After having an unpleasant quarrel with Gu Qingyu, why did Shi Yuan see his marriage with Gu Qingyu as "wanting to be a person again". It is because in his bones he only wants to find his dignity as a man from Gu Qingyu!

Gu Qingyu's backward pursuit has become the pressure and motivation of Shi Yuan. Shi Yuan, who originally only wanted to live a lifetime, married Gu Qingyu, making Shi Yuan's desire to regain his dignity even stronger.

For this reason, he would feel that all of Gu Qingyu's relief was disrespectful to him, even including love, which made him feel a burden, because his own strength could not keep up with his desires.

I want to pay off millions of foreign debts, but I find that no matter how hard I work and do part-time work, I can't fill it, let alone my mother's medical treatment money.

Therefore, when the opportunity to enter Aimeng came, in the dilemma between mother and wife, he still chose his mother. It made this already precarious marriage even more unbearable.

The reason is that Shi Yuan's love is wrong, and it is not Gu Qingyu who loves him, but the self-esteem and heart he lost when he was young. Such a man cannot marry!

In fact, both of them are wrong!

Not only was Shi Yuan'ai wrong, but so was Gu Qingyu. The love between the two is the filter of their youth floating in the picture, but life is on the ground, and life is to accept each other's unbearable and embarrassing.

Some people may only be suitable for storing in memory, and when bored, it is suitable to take it out to make tea. After many years, no one knows what they have gone through and what they have experienced, and they are no longer the original self, that he (her). No one is anyone's white moonlight...

One marries obsession, the other marries self-esteem, and when the dream wakes up, it should be the day of their divorce.