After watching "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu, played by Tong Yao, how do you feel? Is it also like Jack Liu, thinking that she will always be smooth sailing and everything is good?
As if it really is! Successful career, talent and appearance, the only obstacle is the little boy wearing a white shirt and black-rimmed glasses in his youth, but with Shi Yuan's unexpected appearance, their decisive marriage seems to be more complete.
It seems that it is really as Feng Xiaoqin said, Gu Qingyu stole all the nutrients from Gu Lei, so she will always have a smooth ride, from the beginning of the mother's womb, she has the blessing of two people.
But the middle of the day will move, and the full moon will lose! When good luck is finally exhausted, the love with Shi Yuan does seem beautiful at present, but in the end it is still the underwater moon, the flower in the mirror, it is difficult to last! Everything is already doomed.
The disparity
The first thing worth mentioning is the huge gap between them, which naturally creates an insurmountable gap between them.
A workplace gold collar, a strong woman in the financial world calling for wind and rain; a low-level small tour guide, often scolded by tourists for being a dog bloody head. A house with free wealth, tens of millions, easy, tens of millions, is also said to buy and buy; a busy and busy person, earning a meager salary, and a mother who is seriously ill at home.
How can this huge gap be easily bridged? Can a true balance be achieved through hard work alone?
It is undeniable that Shi Yuan's self-esteem and self-love, he has been doing his best to make himself worthy of Gu Qingyu, but this gap is too much. Even if you don't sleep every day and stay up late to earn extra money, you have no improvement in reality.
Disappearing self-esteem
In fact, although Shi Yuan is now down, under the careful education and companionship of his mother, he is still a little proud, but many times, he has to compromise with reality.
The marriage between the two, in order to avoid others saying that he coveted Gu Qingyu's money, the only appeal he put forward was that his self-esteem and self-love were undoubtedly admirable for his premarital property notarization, but at the same time, it also laid the foundation for the two to get along.
It is precisely because of his strong self-esteem that he always keeps his own small circle, does not want to let the woman he loves get involved, does not want her to see his mess.
But the two are already married after all! Gu Qingyu, a strong woman, is not like a master who can carefully care for a man's self-esteem, in the short term, she may be able to pay attention to protecting his self-esteem, and in the long run, it will inevitably touch his sensitive nerves.
The barriers of life
No matter what kind of person he is in his bones, living in a world of one side, it is inevitable to be contaminated with the corresponding social habits, Shi Yuan cannot live forever like his sick mother, living in the illusion he has created, he needs to live, he has to face the people and things in life.
After so many years of crawling in the small alleys of poverty, he has become accustomed to mingling with these ordinary and ordinary working people who are struggling at the bottom of society. Nothing to drink, brag, play cards, small restaurants, chess and card rooms are his side of the world.
But with Gu Qingyu came together, he is also a weak party, life inevitably needs to revolve around Gu Qingyu, high-end restaurants, business negotiations, suits and shoes, and his previous life, completely two forms.
Love can be impulsive, but life, after all, still has to return to peace, the gap between these living habits, in a short period of time, can be compromised by one party, for a long time, what to do?
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