-01-
I remember seeing a passage: I like a person, I just want to eat many, many meals with him.
Words, beautiful.
However, if a man longs for marrying a wife to come home, cooking for him every day, so that he can say "wife, I love you", and then he can play the game with confidence, then it is estimated that this sentence will become a "complaint" in the female population.
Therefore, true love is never said, but it is managed with heart and "made" with heart.
I once saw a girl's stated love affair.
When she was in college, she had fallen in love with her brother who was two years older than her, and later, the brother graduated, left the city where the school was located, the girl followed the graduate school, and the two people fell in love in a different place for three years, and in these five years, the two people saved a paper box just for the train ticket, and most of them were one-way tickets for men to go back and forth.
In these years of love, they did not use a sentence of "long-distance love, not easy to maintain", they left each other, and finally entered the marriage.
Someone asked a woman if she was "tired" and she said only one word: he really treated me very hard.
Perhaps, very few people care about the word "intention".
Most people, focusing on long-distance relationships, will focus on "when you are lonely, sad, when you are wronged... He is not around you, how uncomfortable", but even these times, he will give you comfort, but not the slightest "heart", just superficial confusion, and even some men, hearing your phone call, after listening to your crying, coax you to say "I love you, don't cry", and then after hanging up the phone impatiently, there will be a complaint: this bit of fart, also look for me.
So do you think he really loves you?
-02-
Love requires "heart".
The so-called intention is not only the "sweetness" in language, but also the "pet" in action.
There is a saying that goes well: don't be proud of how many people you have liked, you should be proud that there is someone who has loved you with heart.
Yes, love, really, is not in quantity, but in quality; love with heart, never lies in words, but in "action."
Therefore, if a person loves you, he may not necessarily talk to you all the time, but he will use the detail of "intention" to tell you: he loves you very much.
Care about your emotions and "make you happy" with your heart
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: The person who is the best for you, in other words, the person who is the best bully.
The person who loves you is the one who can be "bullied" by you at any time. Because he cares about your emotions, you are happy, he is happy, you are lost, he is also in a bad mood, he wants to make you happy, so he will let you "bully", let you "toss".
I remember once seeing a girl's circle of friends: the wind is very strong, the rain is also very large, but I know that he will not come to pick me up, I am in his heart, even worse than his lost dog.
Girls, once immersed in love, seem to have found a hero to worship, but if that hero is always on top, without any regard for your feelings, you long for him to spoil you, but if he treats you as an appendage of himself, it is difficult for you to live happily with him.
Women, always sensitive, and always love to think about things.
It is said that men are straight men, but straight men are not stupid, if he loves you with his heart, he will always care about your small emotions, and he will also lower his body, like a child, soothe your little heart; he will not just talk about it, but when you need him, he will really accompany you and ride through the difficulties with you.
If in a relationship, the woman is always in the inferior position, and always be called by the man as a. When she was wronged, the man only gave a word of comfort, and then turned around and forgot that the girl was still immersed in uneasiness, even if she loved him very much at the moment, before long, she would be filled with inner depression and want to leave him.
So, many times, a woman likes a man, and does not necessarily care how expensive gifts he buys her, how loud a confession he makes, but just one by one when she is emotionally broken, the man gives her comfort, gives her dependence, gives her peace of mind; when they have an argument, he will let her and coax her.
In the heart of a woman, taking care of her emotions is the true love of a man.
Face the trivialities in life and "take care of you" with your heart
Once heard a girl say: The first time I felt in love with him, it was really not the time when he confessed, there was a time, I was menstruating, but my hair was very dirty, he helped me wash my hair, too gentle, and then blew dry for me, that feeling, is as if we are already "old husband and wife".
Love, in fact, is not so complicated.
As soon as a man puts his mind on him, the woman has a heart for him.
The emotions between people, many times, are not experiencing some earth-shattering ups and downs, but a little thing that happens in the trivialities of life, which makes people intoxicated, and whenever they recall it, their hearts are warm, and the corners of their mouths will overflow with smiles.
In fact, when everyone carefully reviews the most memorable love, often, what really moves you is the man's intentions.
You say a word, he can take the next sentence, you are not happy, he desperately finds a topic to tease you; you are tired, he beats your legs and shoulders; when you cook, he will run over to you to give you a hand; his praise for you, never stingy words; accompany you to watch movies, go shopping, eat what you like to eat... Even if it's something he doesn't like, he's still willing to accompany you to do it.
Just because he's loving you with his heart.
Life is long, and it is not so easy to meet a person who cares about you in the trivialities of life.
Many seemingly perfect loves, there are many unspeakable complaints, just because some men will always love you with their mouths and say sweet words to you, but rarely really act for you.
Therefore, a man who can fill the trivialities of life with actions, his intentions are to bring you the most solid sense of security in ordinary days.
A variety of ritual senses are full, and the heart "leaves you with memories"
Perhaps, the sense of ceremony is often the most important for small couples in love.
However, the real sense of ceremony is not that he gives you a gift on your Valentine's Day, your birthday, and so on, but that you give each other a "sense of ceremony" in your daily life.
In the morning, you just open your eyes, he has prepared breakfast, just so that you can sleep a little more; at night, you stay up late under the lamp to make up the plan, he will accompany you and help you analyze; on weekends, you will go hiking together to do public welfare; during the holidays, you will arrange travel again and again... The important point is that whether it is his care for you or the activities you arrange, you will be very tacit and harmonious.
Life is long, the sense of ritual, the most often present, is actually hidden in life.
Because I have you in my heart, so I see a cloud on the side of the road, and I want to take a picture of you; because I have you in my heart, so it is difficult to eat takeaway at noon, I also want to tell you a sound, let you feel sorry for him; because I have you in my heart, so, on your business trip, he goes to catch a bunch of muppets on the doll machine and waits to come back to surprise you; because he reads you in his heart, so, the song you love to listen to, he also began the single loop...
The sense of ceremony, that is, every day has a ritual, every day seems simple, but not simple.
In the circle of friends he sends, there are traces of you; under each of your messages, there will be traces of his likes.
The sense of ceremony in true love is very calm and low-key, but in the extraordinary, it is full of sweetness, and in the extraordinary, it is all transparent to the truth.
-03-
Two people together should have been a happy thing, and the more they were together, the more they adapted to each other's process.
If in a love affair, two people are becoming more and more silent, more and more annoying, more and more lonely, then both of you are taking back the good feelings you once had.
However, you have forgotten that any relationship, any love, whether you are husband and wife or lover, only if you work together can you better manage and precipitate love.
In "The rest of your life, please give more advice", because of Gu Wei's cleanliness, before Lin Zhixue rented a house for him, he cleaned and cleaned the room, the furniture was arranged and arranged, and he was careful to the extreme; also because Gu Wei was jealous of his own cleanliness, never ate soybean milk fritters, never ate heavy oil and spicy hot pot, he also picked up the fritters with his hands and dipped the soy milk, took her to eat the hot pot he did not love.
Love is the intention, the intention of two people working together.
In this world, there has never been a straight man who does not understand the style, only people who do not have the heart to love you. As there is an old saying: what you love, what you think, what you care about, will eventually lose to the one who is good for you.
So, in the end, may every woman meet a person who loves you with her heart, so that you will not be alarmed, you will not be disturbed, you will not be displaced, and you will not have branches to rely on.
May your love be able to cross the chai rice oil and salt, and walk into the look of each other tirelessly; can cross you and me, and go to the white head and the old man.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!