Love is always worrying, lovers are always making people suffer, everyone needs emotional security, but not everyone can have it.
The so-called sense of security, in the final analysis, is based on emotional preference, and the person you like happens to like you, how lucky you should be.
Because for many people, the person they fall in love with may not love themselves, which is the main reason why even if the two are together in the future, they will also make them feel insecure.
How can unequal emotions from the beginning put people at ease?
At this time, everyone is always worried about whether the other party really loves themselves, whether they are really like themselves, and take this feeling seriously.
In fact, it is not difficult to know the answer, whether the woman is interested in you, send her these three words, and see how she replies.
1, miss you
Missing this thing, sometimes it is really strange, normally, it should appear between two people who have not seen each other for a long time, but obviously they have just separated, and within a few hours, they began to miss it again.
Tracing back to the source, it should all be the curse of love, when you fall in love with a person, you are always reluctant to separate, hate can not become a conjoined baby, sticking together every day.
So if the other person also loves you, when you say "miss you", most likely she will reply to you "I am the same", or other affectionate words.
It is these love words that constitute the sweetness in love, so that you will remember it in the future, you will not be able to help but hook the corners of your mouth, and the mood can't help but be happy.
But if you miss and have not been able to get the other party's response, not only at that time, but even the other party contacted you later, it was directly skipped this sentence, indicating that she did not care about you so much, and even did not want to respond to your emotions, there is only one reason, she does not love you.
2, I love you
Among all the love words, the sentence that can best express the emotions of the parties must be "I love you", simple and straightforward, and all the real emotions that everyone tries to hide are exposed to the sun, leaving them nowhere to hide.
When everyone chooses to express their hearts in this way, it is actually a "big gamble", because at this time you have no way back, or the feelings between each other are on the next level, directly sublimated into love, or retreat to the original point and become more and more familiar strangers.
At the same time, the three words "I love you" also make the other party have nowhere to hide, perhaps earlier they also tried to avoid your emotions and enjoy your good in the name of friends, but after this sentence is asked, it means that they must respond.
As long as the woman doesn't respond the same way, even if nothing happens afterwards, or even seems a little closer than before, it means that she doesn't love you.
Because the person who really loves you will definitely give you a clear answer at this time, so that the relationship between each other is determined, otherwise it is not love.
But the reason why there will be more intimate performances is that they don't want to lose your kindness to themselves, in short, they want to use you as a spare tire.
3, unhappy
In fact, when you send these three words, it may not really be the time when you are unhappy, but you can accurately see the other party's attitude towards you.
Many people want to take comfort from the closest people when they are unhappy, so when you are willing to send these three words to each other, it means that she has an extraordinary position in your heart.
Relatively speaking, if everyone knows that the person you like is in a bad mood at the moment, you will definitely find ways to comfort each other, hate that you can't accompany her directly next to each other, and your mood will also be affected by the other party.
Although there will be times of comfort between friends, most of them are relatively shallow, and after saying one or two words of encouragement, they will lose patience, and they will not put your mood and sorrow in your heart.
And for those who don't take it seriously at all, don't doubt, the other party definitely doesn't love you, otherwise they won't turn a blind eye to your bad mood.
Don't bother people who don't even reply to you with perfunctory, don't bother a person who doesn't want to pay attention to you, it's always yourself who is uncomfortable.
When you take the initiative to send this message to the other party, you don't get the answer you want, don't doubt that this feeling is just your wishful thinking.
It may be a multiple choice question in many things, but love is only a matter of love or no love, so her answer must contain these two meanings.
If you love her, it just happens to love you naturally the best, a beautiful love, can also be opened.
But if you love her, you may not have feelings for you at all, or even have ulterior motives, don't try to make any excuses for yourself, don't love is not love, don't fool yourself.
It is impossible to love only one person in a lifetime, so don't worry, after losing her, you will never be able to meet someone who can make your heart move, these are just a matter of time.