More than once I have heard male friends around me say that middle-aged women are too difficult to engage, have rich experience, and often can see through men's routines at a glance, and those routines that are useful in little girls are ineffective in middle-aged women, so it is particularly difficult to pursue a middle-aged woman.
Indeed, middle-aged women are older than young girls, and their experience will be relatively higher, and often men have nothing to hide in front of them, because they can penetrate men's hearts and understand the purpose of men's every move.
In addition, after experiencing the ups and downs of society, the wealth accumulation of middle-aged women will be higher, and they will understand the importance of money more, and those men with low income levels rarely have her to see.
However, all this does not mean that middle-aged women cannot be approached, but that men cannot hope to exist. In fact, no matter what age a woman is, she has the same desire for love in her heart. Even if she was once hurt by love, shouting that the men in the world did not have a good thing, and announcing singleness to the world, when true love came, she would still be moved.
Because in the final analysis, love is spiritual food, and like family affection and friendship, it is something we cannot lack. In fact, it is not a big difficulty to pursue a middle-aged woman, as long as you learn these 3 small skills that make her "heartbroken", the development of feelings will be smooth.
1, give her a sense of security
Security is what a woman needs to get most in her relationship, in fact, most of the feelings are established because of security.
Women are different from men, they are more likely to be insecure, which also means that they are more likely to rely on security, if a man can give a woman enough security to make a woman feel at ease in him, she is easily attracted to men.
Especially for middle-aged women, age brings them not only experience, but also anxiety, because their opportunities are getting less and less, there is no way to experience a failed relationship, therefore, when choosing a life partner, they will choose men who can bring them a sense of security.
2. Talk about meat and hemp
Most men think that only young girls like to listen to meat and hemp love words, because they are full of fantasies about love, love words are often easier to open the door of young girls' hearts, and middle-aged women have developed immunity to love words, how can they like a man full of meat and numb love words?
In fact, this is a man into a kind of ideological misunderstanding, think that women have rich experience, do not love fantasy, in fact, middle-aged women and young girls, are like to listen to love words, but young girls when they hear meat and hemp love words, will be very active, very excited, and middle-aged women will be more calm on the surface, the heart will still be moved.
After all, men rely on watching, women rely on listening, and at any age, love words are loved by women.
3. Provide help
People are not all-powerful, no matter how powerful the middle-aged woman, there will be places that are not good at, there will also be places that need help, and her weakness is the breakthrough point of men's attack.
For example, women's cooking skills are not good, men make delicious food for her, such as women's computer problems, men help her solve them in time, and so on, it is easy to pry open women's hearts.
When women need help, lend a helping hand in time, women will be grateful to men, invisibly narrowing the distance between two people.
Why should people fall in love? Why find someone to live with? It's nothing more than to make life better, and it's clear that a man who can help women will undoubtedly make life move for the better.
epilogue:
The road to the pursuit of love, said simple and simple, easy to say is also easy, if the beginning of the two people to love each other, the development of feelings is naturally a horse Flat River, straight to the end, but if you want to pursue the woman, has not yet fallen in love with you, then you have to spend more effort.
All in all, the pursuit of women, we must first understand women, can make women satisfied, two people may come together, into the palace of marriage.