For women's emotional life, if you do not manage your emotional life well, it is easy to leave two major regrets, I hope you do not.
The first big regret is that I have not met a good person, or I have met someone unladylike, which is something that women do not want to see, people live in the world, have not been loved, have been hurt, and will inevitably feel regret.
The second regret is that when you meet a good person, you don't know how to cherish it, and when you lose it, you don't know that you will play a good hand of cards.
When happiness comes knocking at the door, it is regret that it does not know how to grasp happiness; when happiness enters the door, does not know how to draw cards, and drives happiness away, this is regret; the former, is never happy, the latter, is to get happiness, but because of their own reasons and lose happiness, can you not feel regret and regret for this?
If you don't want to see such a result, don't be stupid in your feelings, do some stupid things, so as not to end up letting yourself have no connection with happiness, write to you who are stupid: Love a man again, don't have these signs, do you know?
1. Feel jealous at will and catch the wind and shadows.
When two people are together, you respect each other, trust each other, because you are optimistic about each other, feel that the other party can give themselves happiness, can become their own dependence, the two people will easily and happily hold hands together.
If one party does not trust the other party, when dealing with each other, it often catches the wind and shadows, randomly doubts each other, worries that the other party will do things that are sorry for themselves, every time the other party has contacts with other members of the opposite sex, or contacts friendship, or there are business contacts, the relationship between the two people is innocent, but they randomly suspect each other, let the other party give an explanation, or be too overbearing, directly ask the other party to cut off contact with other members of the opposite sex, obviously, this is an unwise behavior.
Women in the relationship with men, should understand this, see men and other members of the opposite sex have contact, casually jealous, no basis to randomly doubt men, often make men feel disappointed, men often feel very tired with women in the end, the relationship between the two people will often become more and more tense in the end, women often get results that they do not want, why bother? If a woman does not want to see such a result, she should still have a little more confidence in the man she chooses, and do not randomly overturn the vinegar altar, so as not to upset the man.
2. Self-righteousness, self-righteousness.
When women get along with men, they can stand in the man's point of view and think for men, get along with men in the way that men expect in their hearts, care more about men's lives, and respect men's lifestyles, do not impose their own views on men, and do not kidnap men with their own ideas and concepts, allowing men to live according to their own wishes.
At the same time, take the initiative to understand the men's ideological dynamics and psychological needs, with the way men expect to get along with men, men see women so understanding, naturally will be optimistic about this woman, the relationship between the two people will often develop in the end.
On the contrary, when women interact with men, they are not willing to spend time to understand men, nor do they have the patience to listen to men's opinions, always treat people with themselves, be self-righteous, impose their own ideas on men, arbitrarily intervene in men's lives, interfere in men's affairs, and express opinions on men's affairs, which often leads to men's disgust, making the relationship between two people more and more tense.
3. Give up lightly and evade responsibility.
In the process of two people interacting, women can adhere to the love vows, believe in love, believe in men, and marry love, and the beloved man to stay together, in the process of two people to communicate, women can consciously assume their responsibilities, do their own things, women can naturally get men's attention, get men's approval.
However, some women do not understand this, when dealing with men, always feel that men should be unconditionally good to her, unconditionally tolerate her, women wantonly, to avoid their responsibilities, when men express their opinions, hope that women have some restraint, women doubt men's sincerity to themselves, say some extreme words to men, and even more, will easily mention breakups, so as to force men to compromise and give in to themselves.
Women in the feelings, if you lack a sense of responsibility, but also easily give up the feelings of two people, even if the man has the heart to maintain, in the end it will often be unbearable, the fate is sooner or later, for this, women must not know.
If a woman does not want to see such a result, she must understand that love is a kind of happiness and a responsibility, do not forget the original heart, adhere to the oath, treat the beloved kindly, no matter what kind of twists and turns appear in the feelings of two people, do not give up easily.