Jia Mu in the dream of the Red Chamber is an old lady full of youthful atmosphere in her heart, who likes to be lively, often drinking and eating tea with her grandchildren, watching jokes, where lively and where there is her. Therefore, Wang Xifeng, who can speak the Tao and loves to talk and laugh, is deeply liked by her. The cheerful Shi Xiangyun is also one of her pistachios.
Although she likes girls, Jia Yingchun, who is silent and has no youthful vitality, has not entered Jia Mu's heart, watching her marry the "Zhongshan Wolf", Jia Mu did not stop Jia Yu from making this decision. Mrs. Wang, who eats and prays to the Buddha on weekdays and does not participate in any collective activities, describes her as a "wooden man" in her mouth, and we look at this wooden person that she does not look up to, who is more shrewd than her?
In fact, Jia Mu is still quite confident in herself, indeed Jia Mu has self-confident capital, in her own words, "when she was young, she was more than Wang Xifeng", what should be managed must be managed, and what should be said must also be said. It seems that every day except eating wine, drinking tea, drawing cards, watching plays, nothing else, but when I heard the private lifelong opera books, I said something
"I never say these books, even the servants do not understand these words, these years I am old, their sisters live far away, I accidentally bored, say a few words to listen, as soon as they come, they are busy stopping." 」
Explain that the old lady is still in charge, the tube must be managed, the talk must be spoken, and the one that should be put is put. Jia Lian and Bao Er's family played, Wang Xifeng asked Jia Mu for help, but Jia Mu said on the side of the net, "Young people, hungry cats, where to keep, from childhood everyone has beaten so much." He did not grasp jia lian's shortcomings, but only asked Jia Lian to apologize to Wang Xifeng, Wang Xifeng had face, Jia Lian had Lizi, so the world was at peace. If the embroidery spring sac incident is handled by the old lady, is it not also pressed with "everyone has lived like this since childhood"?
This old lady, from being a granddaughter-in-law to having a granddaughter-in-law, has also seen a wide range of knowledge and shrewd world affairs. She did not look at Madame Wang, saying that she "did not speak much, and like wood, she was not very good in front of her in-laws", and when Jia Yuqiang married Mandarin Duck, she would also be angry with Madame Wang. But is Madame Wang, whom she does not look up to, really like wood? Not necessarily, Madame Wang is shrewd, and her degree of shrewdness is even higher than that of Jia Mu.
It seems that she is not obvious, she has done nothing, that is just the appearance, she gave the brilliance of the front and back to Jia Mu, and gave the limelight to Wang Xifeng, which is where she is the smartest. Give them the opportunity to show their faces, the old man and the child are to coax, let them feel that they are most needed, especially the old man, happy that the world is too peaceful.
We see, in the dream of the Red Chamber, she entrusted all the household chores that the housewife had to face to Wang Xifeng to do, it seems that Wang Xifeng has unlimited scenery, but managing a large family is to offend people, to take a brain, to move the tongue. Wang Xifeng also destroyed her body in managing her daily household chores. But the financial power, the personnel management power, she had to report everything to Madame Wang, and obey Madame Wang's arrangement.
Far from saying, not long after the opening lin daiyu entered the Jia Mansion, Lady Wang asked", "Feng Yatou, has the monthly money been distributed", Liu Grandma's first entry into the RongGuo Mansion is also the words of Lady Wang of the Zhou Rui family, let Wang Xifeng decide for herself, these two things are enough to show that the power is still in the hands of Lady Wang, Wang Xifeng is only contributing to specific things, and those tricky things that offend people are also done by Wang Xifeng.
Grasping power and not holding power is Madame Wang's shrewdness, and what went wrong here is Wang Xifeng's, and she does not have to bear any consequences and retreats completely. When Jia Fu was raided, Jia Fu was facing disaster, she still ate and prayed to the Buddha, no review, no responsibility, and everyone had nothing to say. Wang Xifeng became an unlucky egg, condemned, and it was difficult to look up from then on.
Madame Wang easily ignored things, did not shoot, and made a fatal move. The first shot, Jin Ju jumped into the well, the second shot, Qingwen was frustrated and ashes, the third shot, Fang Guan and others became nuns. Biting dogs are more difficult to prevent without barking, which is the real power.
In the contest between Lady Wang and Jia Mu, in small matters, Lady Wang is all for Jia Mu, only Jia Mu's orders are subordinate, but when it comes to Jia Baoyu, the people she cares about, she does not give in.
Qingwen was originally a person around Jia Mu, and was optimistic about Jia Baoyu in the future, but because Qingwen was lively and agile, there was a bit of Lin Daiyu's wind bone, Lady Wang did not like it very much, and casually drove Qingwen out for spurious reasons, and cut jia mu first and then played it, and only reported it to Jia Mu after driving away, and even told a big lie with red mouth and white teeth, saying that Qingwen had her daughter's tuberculosis before she had no choice but to drive her out, but Jia Mu was shrewd and could only accept the established facts.
The raider was originally also a person close to Jia Mu, but Lady Wang successfully bribed the raider and took a part of it from her own case to subsidize the attacker, laying the foundation for the identity of the attacker's aunt-in-law. This matter, Jia Mu did not know, even Jia Zheng did not know, to say that Jia Baoyu to determine the people around, must not be discussed between the two people? However, Madame Wang ate Jia Zheng and thought that he was a sharp introvert, a fake appearance, and could not consider his opinion.
Lady Wang also offered jia zheng, and the leading children and slaves were respectful to him, and let him hold the shelf and not get off the stage. The men in Jia Mansion all love to pick flowers and stir up grass, and only Jia Zheng guards his wife and concubines, without any non-divided thoughts. To get Jia Mu and Jia Zheng, Madame Wang used the same routine.
In the confrontation between Jin Yu Liangyuan and Mushi Qianmeng, although Jia Zheng and Jia Mu's mother and son united fronts, they all leaned toward Lin Daiyu, but soon after Lin Daiyu entered Jia Province, Xue Baochao came, which cannot but be said to be Lady Wang's intention. Then there was Jia Yuanchun's marriage later, which was all the result of Lady Wang's secret manipulation and grasping the situation, not to mention such a big thing as jinyu liangyuan, even the Daguanyuan sub-house, it was also Lady Wang who was making the main arrangement, Jun did not see, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao were in the two largest houses in the Grand View Garden, and Shi Xiangyun, a relative of Jia's mother's mother," did not have a place, so he had to move east and west.
Who is more shrewd and who has more skill, Madame Wang and Jia Mu?