What should I do if children do not like to take the initiative to eat? Adults in one bite? But do you know that after such a phenomenon lasts for a long time, children are prone to develop some bad habits.
"The biggest pomp and dinner" became popular, netizens ridiculed: the baby's noodles are comparable to big stars!
There was a little boy who was on fire, and it wasn't clear whether it was the norm or the occasional snap. In a video, the 5-year-old boy is fed by adults, the child's grandfather holds the mobile phone for the baby, and the child's grandmother serves the baby and delivers food to the baby's mouth. The little boy doesn't need to take a spoon with his hands, as long as he opens his mouth, there are adults to cooperate with the feeding.
But despite this, the little boy still didn't seem to like to eat very much. The mother bought a children's chair for dinner, and the baby was not happy to sit. Only the cartoons played by Grandpa with his mobile phone can make the little one quiet down and barely cooperate with the elders to feed and eat.
Only to see in the video, the little boy's grandmother bent over the whole time, and the grandfather was more like a floor-to-ceiling mobile phone holder, always watching the grandson, and everyone worked together to feed the baby. The hardships of the two old men were obvious.
In this regard, netizens issued comments and ridiculed: "This is the inversion of the end, where is the old man who serves the child so much?" Some netizens felt: "This baby's noodles are comparable to big stars!" "Feeding the baby like this for a long time, the child has developed a habit, then it will be done!" Don't you eat without feeding? "It's all habitual faults!"
In short, netizens say what they say, and everyone's view is that feeding the baby is not good, and the problem of the baby not loving to eat should be solved in another way, rather than sacrificing the time and energy of the elderly to feed the baby. Otherwise, it is only a cure for the symptoms, not the cause, and it is useless. Moreover, this kind of feeding the baby to eat is to drink and quench the thirst, which is more detrimental to the baby.
In fact, in our lives, there are many elders who are accustomed to feeding babies, not only grandparents who especially love to feed babies, but also the parents of some two- and three-year-old babies, who also have the habit of feeding babies to eat. But everyone is likely to only pay attention to how much the child eats, the probability is negligence, feeding the baby to eat, in essence, the child is more harmful than beneficial.
Feed the baby regularly, and the child's appetite may decrease
Being chased by adults for a long time to feed food, children sometimes enjoy it, but sometimes they are disgusted. Children may take eating as a burden, and the more they are chased and fed by adults, the more they hate eating. Over time, the child is prone to loss of appetite and is not willing to eat. Even, seeing the meals they like to eat, children may become less hungry under the nagging of their elders.
Often fed, the baby is prone to a sense of dependence, poor independence
Always open their mouths to eat food, being fed directly into the mouth, children develop a bad habit of being fed, and naturally lose a good opportunity to exercise and eat independently. Such children are highly dependent, and it is easier to seek outside help when encountering things, with poor self-care ability and insufficient independence.
In fact, to sum up, adults like to chase babies to feed, mainly for two reasons, especially critical.
The first is because the child itself is too small, and the subjective initiative is not strong for eating, to put it bluntly, it is not so strong to eat. This is most likely the child's supplementary food added by the mother, and is not interested, and the child does not like to eat complementary food. Therefore, there are adults chasing the baby to feed and begging the child to eat, and the child barely cooperates with the situation.
The second reason is that the elders are too doting on the children, always expecting the children to eat more, hoping that the children will grow strong and good. Therefore, as soon as the meal arrives, the child loves to rub it, and the adults can't wait, and they love to chase the child to feed the food.
Therefore, if you want to completely solve the phenomenon that babies do not like to eat and are always chased and fed, adults and children need to work together.
How to solve the phenomenon of elders feeding and make children fall in love with eating?
If the elders no longer feed the baby regularly, they are willing to adjust and change considering the various disadvantages of feeding the baby. Then this matter may be easier to push forward, and the child will slowly give up the habit of being fed.
If you want your child to take the initiative to fall in love with eating, elders should adjust in these two aspects
▼ Do not spoil children
Elders can not be too doting on children, can not always respectfully help children to feed, but to exercise the child's ability to eat independently, so that children learn to eat by themselves as soon as possible. The benefits to the child are great, and even have a chain reaction, the child will improve independence, and begin to learn things such as dressing and sleeping on their own.
▼ Help children make delicious meals, nutritious complementary foods, so that children fall in love with eating
Some children are always chased by their parents to feed, or it may be because children do not like to eat food prepared by their elders. Some complementary foods are too difficult to eat, the color and flavor are very poor at a glance, can not meet the needs of children's taste buds, children naturally love food and ignore it. Even if adults chase after supplementary foods such as feeding babies, children may still refuse and fight against their elders and not eat.
If you want your child to take the initiative to eat, you must first let your child have a desire for complementary foods, make the food look delicious, and let the child feel that eating such food will be very enjoyable.
If the elders do not do children's dishes, you can refer to some professional recipe books to make complementary foods to eat, and you can choose any pattern of food supplements in the study, and you can learn the practice of flower food supplements at a glance. It is a recipe specially designed for small children. Adults do not have to worry about cooking, as long as they prepare ingredients according to the method of recipes, cook according to the steps introduced in the book, they will naturally make fragrant children's dishes, children will take the initiative to ask what to eat, have the desire to eat, and naturally will take the initiative to eat, which is much better than bothering to feed children.