When babies are breastfeeding, it is the best time for mother and child to communicate their feelings.
After the baby is born, looking for milk to eat, sucking is an instinctive act, and there is no need for anyone to teach them. It is also with these two survival skills that they can ensure that they do not go hungry.
And, don't underestimate the baby's feeding behavior, not only to fill the stomach, but also to communicate emotionally with the mother. After all, at this stage, the baby's visual distance can only be as far as the mother's eyes.
Smart moms choose to breastfeed
Breastfeeding can help you get back in shape quickly
When the baby sucks on the mother's nipple, it will stimulate the mother's body to secrete nootropic hormone, a hormone that will not make the mother feel physically and mentally happy, and will also help the uterus to recover.
After all, for a long time after childbirth, it is difficult to restore the mother's figure immediately by relying on the recovery ability of the uterus itself. And this nootropic hormone will increase the efficiency of uterine contractions.
Moreover, while the mother transmits nutrition to the baby through milk, it will also secrete too much fat in the body. Thus achieving the effect of slimming.
Breastfed children feel more secure
When the baby is just born, it breaks its comfort zone, and everything in the outside world is very strange to them, even if the temperature of the environment is similar to that of amniotic fluid, it cannot achieve the same effect. Only the mother's embrace can make them feel safe quickly.
Every time the mother feeds the baby, she is initially held in her arms, and the mother's body temperature, taste, voice and gaze are all liked by the baby, resulting in the illusion that it is still in the mother's stomach and feeling safe.
Although when the child is slightly older, the mother may be lazy to choose the lateral position to breastfeed, or perhaps because the child is too heavy to hold the child, but the impact on the child at this time is very small.
Why can't babies stay idle while feeding? The hidden "careful machine" is only understood by bao moms!
In the process of breastfeeding, many careful mothers find that babies often use their hands and feet together, do some movements, turn their wrists, kick their legs, busy in their mouths, and their hands and feet are not honest. Is such behavior normal?
Heart mechanism one: indicate that the baby is self-soothing
When the baby's brain begins to develop, it is clear what his needs are at the moment, and this need is not always found and met by the mother, just like the simple little things that the baby suddenly straightens out. There's also some psychological need, suddenly wanting to listen to music, wanting to laugh.
When these needs can not be met by the mother for the first time, the baby will self-soothe, anyway, it is not difficult, they can complete it without having to endure passive waiting for the mother.
Do not underestimate the baby's self-consolation behavior, which is very large with the continuous development of the baby, of which when sleeping alone, the need for self-soothing is the greatest!
Heart machine two: convey the baby's happiness at this moment
When people are in a good mood, the most common manifestation is to dance with their hands, which is colloquially known as hiss. It was as if his hands and feet were out of his control, and he couldn't be quiet.
In the same way, it is also true that babies dance when they drink milk, perhaps because they think of something happy, or maybe they are satisfied after drinking milk.
Wait until the next time the mother sees this performance, do not interfere with the baby, do not interrupt the baby, give them full freedom to enjoy the happiness of the moment.
Heart Machine Three: I am sending out a game invitation to my mother
When the baby drinks milk, it is inevitable that there will be a feeling of boredom, they know that the mother at this time belongs to herself, the mother will not do anything, will only quietly look at herself.
In this way, this time period is the best time for parent-child interaction. And switch in their own hands, as long as they have nipples, their mother will be at their mercy.
They will constantly wave their hands and feet to attract the attention of their mothers, although there is no complicated activity, but for children at this stage, it is already very satisfying.
However, mothers still have to try to avoid this behavior, which is not good for cultivating children's concentration, drinking milk is to eat for them, half-hearted when eating, and has a negative impact on physical absorption.
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Does your baby like to dance when he drinks milk? What kind of mental behavior do you think he belongs to? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!