Gu Lei just died, Gu Qingyu began to analyze with his father how to deal with Feng Xiaoqin, the little tiger also asked his mother worriedly, "Are we going to be kicked out", the old lady of the Gu family even threatened to go to the mother to keep her children, the relatives also spoke harshly, and even the neighbors talked about it.
At the funeral feast on the day of Gu Lei's burial, the Gu family and relatives gathered together, and everyone was comforted, except for Feng Xiaoqin, who was excluded, and no one took care of this foreign daughter-in-law, only Ge Yue, who was also the daughter-in-law of the Gu family, came forward to comfort the widow's sister-in-law.
The Gu family all pushed Gu Lei's death down on Feng Xiaoqin's head, especially the old lady, who insisted that Feng Xiaoqin had killed her grandson, pushed Feng Xiaoqin down at the funeral, and then regarded Feng Xiaoqin as a nail in her eye, how to look at it was not pleasing to the eye, and often humiliated Feng Xiaoqin in front of the little tiger.
In order to support herself and her son, Feng Xiaoqin went outside to deliver takeaways, and suffered hardships and was injured, but the old lady thought that Feng Xiaoqin did not care about the family, did not cook food, did not clean up the house, and was idle outside and hated Feng Xiaoqin to the bone.
The old lady took a bunch of medicines in it to study how to eat, these are usually Feng Xiaoqin to help her divide well, but she is not grateful and not moved, while reading the instruction manual, while shouting loudly that Feng Xiaoqin's is not, and said with a straight face: The little tiger stays, let her go!
In the whole family, in order to reduce their responsibilities, everyone pushes their mistakes on others, but also in order to compete for interests, they do not hesitate to hurt each other, even the father-in-law, who has always been sensible, is also seeking benefits and avoiding harm, and Gu Lei's death has exposed everyone's humanity.
Who is responsible for Gu Lei's death?
The direct cause of Death of Gu Lei was to fall down the stairs, encounter the glass that the neighbor put in the aisle to occupy the public area cut to the aorta and lose too much blood and die, Feng Xiaoqin in order to get justice, the neighbor sued the court, Gu Qingyu ran home angrily to blame Feng Xiaoqin:
Xiaoqin, I would like to ask you, what is your purpose in fighting a lawsuit? Is it to get justice, or is it for compensation?! Maybe in your eyes, face, reputation, these things are not important, I know that you are worried about the future of the little tiger, I can assure you, all his future study expenses, living expenses, I am responsible for the end, if you do not believe, I can give you a document now!
When Gu Qingyu said this, she was on top of the world, looking like a charity, but what she didn't know was that Feng Xiaoqin's purpose in doing this was not because of the two reasons she said, but to reduce her own guilt and get rid of her relationship.
Because in her heart, Gu Lei's death is indeed related to her, and the neighbors are even more talking about it, this lawsuit is not for Gu Lei to get justice, but for herself to clear up the matter.
Although Gu Lei is dead, but the little tiger will continue to live here, she herself will also live a life, if you let the neighbors spread the word, saying that Feng Xiaoqin personally pushed her husband downstairs and killed him, it will have little impact on the Gu family in the future, but it will be very unfavorable to their mother and son.
Therefore, the bigger the trouble, the more favorable it is to Feng Xiaoqin, and the father-in-law has a good face, the eldest sister Qinggao, feels that there is no need for this, they want to calm things down, but they use the way of insulting Feng Xiaoqin's personality, Gu Qingyu's original intention is good, but it is too ugly to speak.
Feng Xiaoqin was completely angered by her, and even found an outlet for Gu Qingyu to vent her emotions on Gu Qingyu:
Sister, you are still like this, a look of being on top, ready to negotiate with people, as if in this world, as far as you are the most reasonable, the most clear thinking, the people next to you are fools, you see through, you really think I am a fool, can't hear the knife hidden in your words!
Gu Qingyu has been excellent since she was a child, going to a key high school, entering a prestigious university, being a female executive of a multinational company, she is full of shining aura, she looks down on her stupid brother, but also looks down on Feng Xiaoqin, who relies on marriage to "ascend", so Gu Qingyu always likes to make suggestions in Gu Lei's relationship with Feng Xiaoqin, and even more likes to provoke the relationship between husband and wife and family relations.
But Gu Qingyu has never realized her own problems, which is precisely because she is the most prominent child of the Gu family, Gu Qingyu was blinded by her own sense of superiority, until Feng Xiaoqin showdown, she did not feel that there was anything wrong with her, Feng Xiaoqin questioned Gu Qingyu:
You dare to touch your conscience and say that Gu Lei's death has nothing to do with you, if you hadn't come and said those words that day, would I have left? Can I go? Can I go? We were already reconciled, Gu Lei learned to call the little pig, it was you who came over, talked nonsense, provoked our husband and wife feelings, it was you who made this matter unmanageable.
What Gu Qingyu said that day, although it was reasonable and true, but as Zhou Bingkun said in "The World of Man", the truth, sometimes should not be said, from Gu Qingyu's point of view, she did not do wrong, that day Gu Lei failed to pass the financial and accounting certificate, Feng Xiaoqin began to scold Gu Lei again, which is a common thing for their husband and wife.
Gu Shihong immediately called Gu Qingyu, Gu Qingyu came to the house and pulled his father and brother to the house for a small meeting, teaching his brother how to guard against and deal with Feng Xiaoqin, Feng Xiaoqin married into the Gu family for eight years, eight years of hard work to take care of a large family, from morning to night, washing and cooking, but always can not integrate into this family.
To this end, Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house of her own, but because she has no money to borrow money from Gu Qingyu, and Gu Qingyu is not without money to lend them, she can earn seven or eight million in a single business, borrowing a million is not a matter for Gu Qingyu, but Gu Qingyu wants to tie Feng Xiaoqin and continue to be a free nanny for the Gu family.
Feng Xiaoqin's purchase of a house once again made Gu Qingyu more defensive of her, when Feng Xiaoqin did not marry Gu Lei because of love, and now she wants to buy a house, Gu Qingyu did not see Feng Xiaoqin's efforts over the years, only saw Feng Xiaoqin's desire and small abacus, between her and Feng Xiaoqin, there was never a sense of family, and the boundaries have always been clear.
Gu Qingyu did not say a word when he entered the door, nor did he respect Feng Xiaoqin, so he pulled his father and brother into the house and began to help Gu Lei analyze:
Have you ever wondered what you're going to do in the future? Do you want to talk to her white head to old age, now Dad is still young, I also live close, we can still help you hold a little, and in a dozen years or so, what do you do? She is smarter than you and can do it better than you, and she is very good at planning for herself, she is now with you, serving you comfortably, she is in case there is something else in the future, you can't get her.
But she bought a house this time is also a racking of brains, then the real estate deed must have your name to know, can not only Feng Xiaoqin's name, anyway, I don't care, this is a matter of principle, how much money do you have in the family after you move out, you must have a number in your heart, she now has a sister to live on you, and then take her brother over in the future, you can stand it!
The implication is to let Gu Lei divorce Feng Xiaoqin or guard against her, Gu Qingyu's words are not wrong, but too rational, her first half of the words, no half of the emotion, is completely To Feng Xiaoqin as a tool to use, Feng Xiaoqin's eight years of pay, in Gu Qingyu's view, can be discarded at any time, this chess piece is available, just keep it, if you can't control it, you choose to give up.
This was a complete insult to Feng Xiaoqin, she dragged her luggage to leave, Gu Lei blocked but was accidentally pushed down the steps, just like this, Gu Qingyu and Feng Xiaoqin began to shirk responsibility from each other, and neither of them was willing to face Gu Lei's death.
In fact, Gu Lei's death is related to Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu, first of all, the biggest responsibility is Feng Xiaoqin, she knew what kind of person Gu Lei was before marriage, that is, Tu Gulei was a shanghai native to marry him, and it is precisely because Gu Lei is mediocre that he can see Feng Xiaoqin, and after achieving the goal, he is not satisfied, forcing Gu Lei to become a talent, which seems to be somewhat inverted and contradictory.
And Gu Qingyu also has a responsibility that cannot be shirked, as a big sister-in-law, always put his hand between his brother and sister-in-law, always persuade and not persuade him, and he began to "analyze" Gu Lei at every turn, she is very rational and very smart, but between people, it is not a arithmetic problem, all the time is calculating, many times more like language, each has its own answer, there is no absolute right or wrong, more about emotion.
Gu Lei's indisputability, his father's peace and thin mud, Feng Xiaoqin's calculations, and Gu Qingyu's defenses finally destroyed a home that should have been very beautiful, and Gu Lei's death also gave the living people a chance to reflect.
After Gu Lei's death, the Gu family wanted to "go to the mother and keep the child"!
Although Gu Shihong favored his daughter Gu Qingyu, it was not right and wrong, when Gu Lei was alive, Gu Qingyu always taught his father and brother how to guard against Feng Xiaoqin, but Gu Shihong was a generous person.
Feng Xiaoqin bought a house, her daughter did not let her take the money, he also carried Gu Qingyu to take half a million to Feng Xiaoqin, Feng Xiqian has no residence, but also has been living in the Gu family, if there is no Gu Shihong, this home may be more chaotic.
Gu Lei just died, Gu Qingyu began to "analyze" Feng Xiaoqin again, the father was still immersed in the pain of losing his son, Gu Qingyu began to show that rational and intelligent look, to Gu Shihong analysis:
Dad, I think there are some things that you have to consider in advance, Gu Lei is gone, how will you face Feng Xiaoqin in the future? I know you haven't come out yet, but there are some things that want to be in front of you, so as not to be passive, I will give you an analysis, you see Feng Xiaoqin, she is so young, she may still marry in the future, maybe she will propose to you, to live alone or split the family, and then take the little tiger away...
Gu Qingyu's analysis is headed by Dao, not at all like a sister who just died of her brother, but like a defense lawyer who fights lawsuits for others, she always thinks longer than others.
When Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin had a good relationship, she thought that Feng Xiaoqin would change her mind one day, and when Feng Xiaoqin was still struggling for life, she thought that Feng Xiaoqin wanted to remarry.
Even her own life is the same, not yet married, I thought that marriage is not interesting, this may be the reason why Gu Qingyu is not happy, everything does not talk about feelings, only about plans. Only after his father's words did Gu Qingyu realize his mistake:
These words you said, just like the night your brother died, you are like this, analyzing for Gu Lei one by one, the head is the Tao, but in the end? What about Gu Lei?
Gu Lei's death, the father has never blamed anyone, he has always known Feng Xiaoqin's small calculation, but he did not calculate too much, and when he was sad, he said such words to his daughter, very fair, indicating that Gu Qingyu did manage too much, no matter what, it was a matter between other people's husband and wife, Feng Xiaoqin no matter how calculated, he also had sincerity for the Gu family, but from beginning to end, only Gu Xiaoqin was the only one who really accepted this foreign daughter-in-law, and everyone else looked down on her and had to calculate her.
Gu Lei's death made Feng Xiaoqin thoroughly realize her mistake, she said that as long as Gu Lei could live back and laugh silly around her, she could not do anything, and she also knew that it was she who forced Gu Lei too tightly to happen like that, as a woman who had died of her husband, she was more helpless than anyone.
His only dependence on the Gu family is gone, there is also a son who spends money everywhere, Feng Xiaoqin's situation is very difficult, although Gu Qingyu will also supplement the family, but everything about the little tiger is Gu Lei's responsibility, with Feng Xiaoqin's good strength, he will not accept Gu Qingyu's lofty charity.
Feng Xiaoqin has to face more than everyone in the Gu family, in order to live, Feng Xiaoqin has no time to heal, she has to make a meal every day to send her children to school, and then go to deliver takeaway, hurriedly eat some lunch, and then continue to send, and at night she also runs to the supermarket to buy vegetables and come back to cook for the two old people to eat.
During the meal, the old lady complained in her mouth, saying that Feng Xiaoqin knew that she had a cold and wanted to make toon because she wanted to salt her, and after eating the dish, she found that Feng Xiaoqin made the taste very light and could not say anything wrong.
When Gu Qingyu climbed the Great Wall in Beijing, Feng Xiaoqin was badly evaluated for delivering takeaways late, and when the father-in-law was nosy to recover the legitimate rights and interests of the residents, Feng Xiaoqin was hit on his bicycle.
And at this time, no one helped her, everyone blamed her, and they were also thinking about how to deal with her in their hearts, Feng Xiaoqin dragged her injured body home, except for the little tiger's sentence "Mother, why didn't you come to pick me up today", no one cared about her injury, the old lady scolded angrily:
Do you still know to come back? Running outside every day, the family food is not burned, the health is not done, even the son does not care, this day has seen people's hearts, this Gu Lei has only been gone for a few days, I see her careful thinking, and she is alive again!
The old lady means that Feng Xiaoqin went out not to work, but to find a man, which is also the result of Gu Qingyu's small report, Feng Xiaoqin at this time, the most needed is comfort, not pointing, but as a foreign daughter-in-law, who to comfort it, the family regards her as a nail in the eye, can not see her well, go home even to eat, no one shouted.
The old lady carried a bunch of medicines into the house, and her mouth kept complaining, once Feng Xiaoqin was good, she couldn't remember at all, she meant to figure out, is to drive Feng Xiaoqin away, just like Feng Xiaoqin took care of them for eight years, gave birth to a child, and now she doesn't listen to the call, she wants to go out to work, there is no use value for his family, she wants to drive her away.
Gu Shihong told his mother not to say those words in front of the little tiger, it was not interesting, the old lady was righteous, she felt that she was not wrong, nor was she afraid of embarrassment, she was so old, she was not afraid of anything, she was going to scold Feng Xiaoqin, the father-in-law said a fair word for Feng Xiaoqin, and the old lady did not want to understand.
The little tiger stayed, Feng Xiaoqin left, went to the mother to keep the son, the little tiger could not turn the Gu family, as long as his mother was there, the custody was Feng Xiaoqin's, but the meaning of Gu Old Lady and Gu Qingyu was that they wanted to compete with Feng Xiaoqin for custody, and they did not miss their feelings at all.
And Feng Xiaoqin, although the original intention of marriage is not simple, but these years have already had feelings for Gu Lei, she said that she promised Gu Lei to take care of a large family, so she has no intention of leaving, and there is no hostility towards the Gu family, but she is a little more distant.
She has no money, she borrowed from her sister, the vegetable money given by her father-in-law is still given according to the week as before, but Feng Xiaoqin is also unwilling to have more daughters, 693 yuan of vegetable money, Feng Xiaoqin WeChat returned 7 yuan to her father-in-law, compared to Feng Xiaoqin, who wanted to borrow money from her sister-in-law to buy a house, Gu Lei's death, let her have a breakthrough growth.
epilogue
Gu Lei's death completely exposed the lives of Feng Xiaoqin and the Gu family, there are no completely evil people, there are no full good people, everyone does things on their own standpoint, they are not aware of their own problems, and the first reaction to encountering problems is to push the responsibility to others.
But people finally have to learn to grow, just like Gu Qingyu was woken up by his father's words, he began to constantly blame himself, thinking that Gu Lei was killed by himself, watching Feng Xiaoqin work so hard for life, she also learned to understand, but in the end she still couldn't put down her face to help him.
And Feng Xiaoqin is even more persistent, Gu Lei's death made her realize that life can not rely on others, she worked with spirit, wanted to rely on her own efforts to feed the little tiger, in the face of the help of her father-in-law, she appeared tough, this time not in disguise, but did not want the Gu family to look down on her.
In the whole family, everyone is very selfish, but everyone is not bad, in order to pursue what they want, they use the means they should not use, in order to maintain the people they care about, they use the wrong method, and gradually forget the true nature of people, that is, emotions.
The problem between Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei, on the surface, is a problem of desire, but in the end it is still a problem of marriage, and the reason why Feng Xiaoqin has tried her best not to integrate into the Gu family is because it is not the same class, and the Gu family does not accept Feng Xiaoqin, but also to guard against Feng Xiaoqin's ambitions.
The best marriage is a door-to-door, like-minded, only if everyone is on the same level, will not expose ugly humanity for the sake of profit.