01.
The most intuitive way to express "love" is language.
If one of you is deeply in love with you, then he must be full of expressive desire for you.
Just like your mother loves you, she will talk to you all the time, although you are already annoyed, but she has enjoyed it.
The desire to express one's beloved cannot be concealed.
When you find a man, you lose the desire to express it.
Then very directly illustrates that he has no interest in you, no longer love the performance.
Even a deceptive lie, unwilling to try to compile it, is the most direct evidence.
Yang Dai once said: "The happiest thing in the world is to be accompanied by someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense."
If you find yourself talking nonsense to the man you love.
He shows that the expression of impatience, so back to your message, it is better to break the link.
To love a man who no longer loves himself, it is better to liberate himself as soon as possible and not disturb his purity.
In the days to come, there will be better men waiting for you.
02.
Perfunctory words such as "Oh, well", show impatience.
The most helpless irritability in love is to say a long paragraph to the man he loves deeply.
He simply replied with an "oh" or "um" to perfunctorily share with you.
There are no interactive words between the two, only one-sided nonsense.
You should understand that you have disturbed his silence.
In life, there are always some people who often choose to be perfunctory about topics that they are not interested in.
This can also better interrupt the other party's words and return to their own silence.
For the rest of your life, you have to understand that when you talk very warmly and excitedly.
Men simply "um, oh" to perfunctory you, you damn it.
03.
"Got it", showing impatience.
Love or no love, in fact, you can feel it.
A man who truly loves you will be willing to accept your nonsense and not be irritable.
Lin Huiyin often stood by and told various stories when Liang Sicheng was working.
Liang Sicheng, who loves Lin Huiyin deeply, will always listen carefully and sometimes respond.
While sorting out the architectural drawings while listening to the nagging of his lover, Liang Sicheng was not only not annoyed, but took pleasure in it.
Conversely, a man who doesn't love you, when he listens to you say topics he's not interested in.
Always reply with a "got it" and cope with things.
This does not want to pay much attention to your attitude, and the feeling that he gives you that he does not value you shows impatience.
In fact, this is all you can feel.
There are so many men in this world, you will always meet a man who loves you deeply.
When you meet a man who is perfunctory, you may as well be bold and let go, and don't contact again.
04.
"I'm busy first" shows a lack of attention.
It seems that all men, when they don't want to deal with women, often call for excuses to avoid talking to women.
Such men often put excuses such as "I am busy first" or "I am busy" on their lips.
After interrupting the chat with you, there was no news for the next period of time.
If he is really busy, then when he is free, he will definitely reply to you in time.
Little Flower, who is in a long-distance relationship, often calls him because she misses her boyfriend.
However, the voice on the other side of the phone always said that he was busy with work, busy traveling, etc. as an excuse, and hung up Xiaohua's phone.
And there was no follow-up call, which caused Xiaohua to be very sad.
Later, I learned that Xiaohua's boyfriend had already had another new love.
Long-distance relationships are often the biggest test in love for couples.
Women in long-distance relationships must understand that people who like you will not refuse to talk nonsense with you.
When you find out, the other person is always perfunctory to pull away from the topic, or refuse to talk.
You should understand that he no longer loves you, and you must learn to make up your mind to break with him.
05.
In love, when men often perfunctory you, you should understand that it is time to leave.
If a man responds to your message like this, don't come to the touch.
"Oh, well" and other perfunctory replies
"Got it", replied impatiently
"I'll be busy first" and don't pay attention to your reply
Some people are always passers-by, and they should always let go.
On the train of life, there will always be a person who bought a ticket for the whole journey of your train.
For the rest of your life, I hope that you can find the other party's perfunctory in time, and then break the connection to prevent yourself from falling into excessive emotion.
You have to believe that one day you will meet a girl with your eyes full of you.
END.
Author: Luo Han Emotion, a writer of words with temperature, may you gain something in my words.