Since the TV series "Heart Residence" was broadcast, the popularity has been high, and the discussion about the plot has set off round after round on the Internet.
With Gu Lei offline, online discussion has reached an unprecedented height.
As long as you have read the original work, you know that Gu Lei's accidental death is a climax of "Heart Residence".
His death drives the development of the story, and Feng Xiaoqin's fate is completely changed.
After the film and television Gu Lei's ending is still the same, the audience sighs and sighs at the same time, but also has further thinking about marriage relations, family relations, and human nature.
Who is to blame for Gu Lei's death?
"Who is to blame for Gu Lei's death" is a hot topic in the past few days, and I privately think that there are five people who can hardly blame it.
The first: Feng Xiaoqin.
Judging from the plot presentation, Feng Xiaoqin is not a good stubble.
There is nothing wrong with her bent on "changing her destiny", but she should not be pushed too quickly.
If you want to be fast, you can't reach it, and this is true of many things in life.
But Feng Xiaoqin forced her husband to take the accounting certificate while ignoring her own ability to buy a house.
All kinds of pressures come together to make her, who was already going to be strong, more irritable.
If she hadn't gone to Zhan Xiang to help persuade Gu Lei, if she had gone home after eating with Zhan Xiang, if she hadn't entered Boss Shi's foot-washing room, the rest of the incident wouldn't have happened.
Although the current society is open enough, as a married woman, you still have to pay attention to your words and deeds.
Through the quarrel between the two people, it can be seen that Feng Xiaoqin and Boss Shi have let Gu Lei misunderstand many times.
But in this case, she did not know how to converge.
Feng Xiaoqin's behavior, let alone the honest and nestled Gu Lei, will be misunderstood by any man and will be angry.
Originally, a few words of explanation of the virtual things had passed, but Feng Xiaoqin was endless, and she had to run away from home. Moreover, it was also a fuss twice.
Gu Qingyu's words are indeed inappropriate, but after all, life is a husband and wife, why should you sprinkle anger on your husband?
But if Feng Xiaoqin calms down, tragedy will not happen.
The second: Gu Qingyu
Like Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Qingyu is also a difficult master.
Originally, Gu Lei had already coaxed Feng Xiaoqin to do well, and a dark cloud had long since dissipated.
When Gu Qingyu entered the door, Feng Xiaoqin was like a person who had nothing to do, eating and drinking in Zhang Luo's family.
For Gu Lei, that is how good it is.
In this case, Gu Qingyu either acted as if nothing had happened or persuaded him to make peace.
But she was fine, and she had to drag her father and brother to run to "have a small meeting."
Knowing that Feng Xiaoqin might hear it, she also fanned the flames.
"I ask you, have you ever thought about growing old with her?" Now dad is still young, I live close, and we can both help you hold on. What about in a dozen years? What do you do? ”
"He's smarter than you and better than you can. And she is very good at planning for herself, she has a heart with you now, in case you have other hearts in the future, you will not be able to get her ten. ”
"She bought a house this time, but she also racked her brains, and when the time comes, your name must be on the real estate certificate, you know?"
Feng Xiaoqin's words seem to make sense in their analysis, but in fact they are arching fire.
Husband and wife quarrels, this is a normal thing, she had to give a height, and then first set Feng Xiaoqin as a bad person.
She seemed to forget one thing when she was passionate and talking, Feng Xiaoqin opened her mouth many times to borrow money, but she did not borrow it.
Without borrowing a penny, it is really not authentic to discuss whose name should be written on the house book.
No wonder Feng Xiaoqin was angry when she heard it.
It is safe to say that if Gu Qingyu had not returned home that morning, the tragedy would never have happened.
The third: Gu Shihong
People often say that "there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure", Gu Shihong can also be regarded as an upright person, but he is not clear about the marriage of his son.
Feng Xiaoqin took care of the family for eight years, how hard it was, Gu Qingyu did not know, Gu Shihong knew it.
Daughter-in-law Zhang Luo bought a house to borrow money, and her daughter asked him for his opinion, but he did not support it.
Later, he did take half a million, but it was also after Feng Xiaoqin had made trouble.
Active giving and passive taking have different meanings and completely different effects, and Gu Shihong did not do a good enough job.
Also, as a parent, everything should be valued by peace, pressing a little, but every time he encounters something, he will find his daughter to come over.
Not only did he find his daughter to come over, but he also "held a small meeting" with his son and daughter in front of his daughter-in-law every time.
Obviously, Gu Shihong did not regard Feng Xiaoqin as a family member.
Like his daughter, he thought that Feng Xiaoqin was gao pan when he married Gu Lei, and that Feng Xiaoqin was too shrewd and afraid that his son would suffer losses.
While enjoying Feng Xiaoqin's care, he did not recognize Feng Xiaoqin.
Even, be wary everywhere.
Gu Qingyu certainly did not stir up dissension for the first time, and if Gu Shihong could have disciplined and reprimanded him earlier, he would not have sent a white-haired person to a black-haired person.
The fourth: Gu Lei
Gu Lei's early death is indeed a tragedy, but he himself has an unshirkable responsibility.
He was snug, cowardly, wavering, and unmotivated.
Buying a house and borrowing money, Feng Xiaoqin had already discussed with him, but when he asked his sister Gu Qingyu about his attitude, he actually answered ambiguously.
Gu Qingyu, Zhan Xiang and others all thought that It was not his fault that Gu Lei could not pass the accounting certificate, and at first I thought so.
But when he saw that he was hiding from Feng Xiaoqin that he was going to class, in fact, he either went to the movie theater or went to the Internet café, he understood why Feng Xiaoqin was angry.
Worked hard, did not take the test, can be understood.
If you don't even try hard, you give up, this is a broken jar and a broken, unsupportable Ah Dou.
Moreover, as an adult, you should have the ability to deal with problems, especially marital problems.
Without figuring out the situation, Gu Lei wronged Feng Xiaoqin for having an affair with Boss Shi, and also said that he wanted to test his son's DNA and wear a green hat, which was really excessive.
What's more, he will turn to his father and sister for help every time he encounters a problem.
Combined with the original work, many people say that Gu Lei is honest and loves Feng Xiaoqin, but when he went into the room to "have a small meeting" with his father and sister, did he ever consider Feng Xiaoqin's feelings?
When Gu Qingyu stirs up dissension, should he interrupt in time?
Marriage is a matter of two people, it cannot be said that who takes a step earlier, who is right, relative to Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Lei himself also has problems.
Fifth: Dong Yue'e
Many people are influenced by the plot and the original work, and think that Feng Xiaoqin should not sue her neighbors.
Sorry, I can't agree with that.
"Who is responsible for who bears", this sentence Feng Xiaoqin is not wrong.
Gu Lei's rolling down the stairs was indeed an accident, but what caused his death was the glass stacked in the stair passage.
Feng Xiaoqin claimed one yuan because of gambling, which I think is less.
Everyone should abide by the laws and regulations, have a sense of public morality, and the things that pile up debris in the stair passages are not right, what is wrong with Feng Xiaoqin suing them?
Human feelings are human feelings, and legal principles are legal principles, and they cannot be confused.
The court's ability to support Feng Xiaoqin shows that the neighbors are responsible.
After some analysis, we can find that Gu Lei's death was caused by many factors coming together.
Everyone is unwilling to admit it, but everyone has a responsibility, and the funny thing is that after Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin became the target of everyone.
The Gu family's attitude towards Feng Xiaoqin is the true portrayal of human nature!
The old lady of the Gu family was the first to jump out and accuse Feng Xiaoqin of killing her grandson.
Gu Shihong temporarily moved away from home to avoid touching the scene.
The most heartfelt scene is that the old lady of the Gu family, Gu Shihong, Gu Qingyu, and the little tiger eat together, and Feng Xiaoqin lies sadly on the bed alone.
No one cared whether Feng Xiaoqin was dead or alive.
They felt sorry for Gu Lei, only knowing that they had lost their grandson, lost their son, and lost their brother, but they did not think that Feng Xiaoqin had also lost her husband.
She'll be sad too, and she'll be sad too.
In the face of Feng Xiaoqin's desire to sue the downstairs neighbors, Gu Shihong was concerned about his face and the neighborly relationship.
Gu Qingyu came up and asked Feng Xiaoqin directly what the purpose of the lawsuit was, whether it was to compensate or to say.
Thinking about it is also helpless, Gu Lei is already dead, Gu Qingyu has not forgotten to hit Feng Xiaoqin's self-esteem.
This time, Feng Xiaoqin completely showdown, pointing out that Gu Qingyu was the "murderer" who killed Gu Lei.
After hearing this, Gu Shihong immediately angrily rebuked Feng Xiaoqin for "nonsense."
Gu Qingyu asked directly, "Is it true that Gu Lei only rolled down in order to chase me?" ”
The implication is that Gu Lei's death is feng Xiaoqin's responsibility alone.
But, next, Feng Xiaoqin's words made the Gu family shut up.
She said, "If you hadn't come that day and said those words, would I have been able to leave?" We were all reconciled, that is, you came over, nonsense, stirred up the feelings between our husband and wife, it was you who made this matter unmanageable. ”
At this time, Gu Qingyu began to avoid the heavy and light, she questioned why Feng Xiaoqin married Gu Lei, and said that Gu Lei was Feng Xiaoqin's tool.
Feng Xiaoqin replied directly: "The matter between me and Gu Lei is a matter between our husband and wife, do you want you to point fingers here?" ”
Gu Shihong's intolerance of his daughter unveiled the cruel side of marriage
I believe that before Gu Qingyu and Feng Xiaoqin argued, the Gu family must have thought that if it were not for Gu Qingyu, perhaps the tragedy would not have happened.
But they just want to think about it, and they don't want to break through this layer of window paper.
Because in their view, Gu Lei's death, blame Feng Xiaoqin alone, she is an "outsider" after all.
But Feng Xiaoqin's words made everyone unable to escape anymore.
Therefore, when Gu Qingyu told his father that Gu Lei had died and that there were some things to consider in advance, Gu Shihong would be angry.
He knew in his heart that his son's dead daughter was also responsible, but he had been reluctant to admit it.
What makes people sigh is that Gu Shihong regretted it after he finished his anger, and turned his head to comfort his daughter.
In the end, he still couldn't bear to blame his daughter.
You see, that's the difference between a daughter and a daughter-in-law.
Gu Lei's death is obviously responsible for everyone, but Gu Shihong has to blame Feng Xiaoqin alone, for no reason other than him, only because she is an "outsider".
His intolerance of his daughter revealed the cruel side of marriage.
Some in-laws, fathers-in-law and mother-in-law, even if you give more and do a good job, you can't get their approval.
Like Feng Xiaoqin, she is always an outsider in the eyes of the Gu family, so they will "hold a small meeting" without scruples.
Ignore her feelings, ignore her efforts.
He would be full of resentment towards her after Gu Lei's death, and he would not pay attention to her.
Seeing Gu Shihong's completely different attitude towards her daughter and daughter-in-law, she really felt worthless for Feng Xiaoqin, and after eight years of marriage, she finally paid by mistake.
Putting aside the original work, Feng Xiaoqin in the play has feelings for Gu Lei, otherwise he would not have stayed up until the early morning to celebrate his birthday.
But so what, she has never been able to win the hearts of gu family members, Gu Lei was like this before he was alive, let alone after Gu Lei's death.
Fortunately, no matter how deep the pain will become the past, as far as the plot is presented, Feng Xiaoqin has decided to start over, and what kind of encounter she will have next, let us wait and see.