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Love, let life be complete.
And, the thoughts after the disconnection make love more complete.
Once saw a person who disconnected from his girlfriend, he wrote: Delete your second hundred days, I logged on to your account again, and I did not log in for several months, but I still remember the number of passwords, because it was your birthday.
It's poignant to read.
Perhaps, in the present, the woman has a new person by her side, or perhaps, the woman is also waiting for his reunion, but no matter what their state is in the present, we can feel: this man misses her very much, misses her very much.
He flipped through her Weibo, saw her dynamics, who she saw, listened to whose songs, chased what dramas, watched what movies, where to play... Whether her days were monotonous or fulfilling, dull or brilliant, all poured into his eyes the moment he opened them.
People, always after losing, will know how to cherish, but also always after losing contact, only to know that they once loved that person so much.
Then, again and again, secretly look at her circle of friends, peek at her Weibo, look back and forth through the chat records of the two people, and inquire about her news from friends... Behind the seemingly expressionless face, there is sadness in the heart.
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I still remember that there was a couple in the classmates, and when it was close to graduation, the two people really walked together. But we all know that they like each other for a long time, the boy has not dared to confess, until graduation, facing the girl will soon return to his hometown, he can't help it, and finally told the other party how much he loves her.
However, after the two people were together for a few months, they separated, on the grounds that the girl could not stand the different place, it was too difficult to meet, and when she first entered the workplace, she longed for someone to accompany and someone to support her.
The boy once sent a message in the circle of friends: I came to the big tree that confessed to you, its branches and leaves are still very luxuriant, I can't find the "vows" that we tied to the branches at that time, but I really want to know, these days, have you ever thought of me?
After the deep love, the helplessness of separation makes people sad.
Later, I heard that he resigned, persuaded his parents, went to the girl's city, and a year later, the two of them got married and now live happily, fortunately: I did not give up when I met you.
It can be seen that after the disconnection, the love of men is very real.
If he really loves you, he will definitely go to you, will leave all kinds of "traces" where there are you, because he can't forget you; if he doesn't love you, then you leave, just leave, he will let go, he will think "the next one will be better".
Therefore, if after the disconnection, if a man always "does this" to you, then if you still love him, you may as well give him a chance.
Because everything he's doing right now is telling you: I really miss you.
There will always be his "footprint" on social software, and it is his lovesickness for you
Some people say that falling in love is a matter of one person and has nothing to do with others.
However, if the person who is loved does not know, it is enough, if he knows, it must be very embarrassing to be with you.
Just as after the disconnection, if a person will always like you in your circle of friends, leave you a message, and inadvertently send some memories of the time you once spent together, then most likely, he really misses you.
Under the night light, he stands at the window looking into the distance, the back of the pedestrian under the street lamp, very similar to you, he will immediately think of you, the heart is desolate, the thoughts grow wildly.
Pick up your phone, open your circle of friends, and see the messages you sent during the day: drink a cup of new flavored milk tea, it's delicious.
He will remember that when you were together, whenever he went to pick you up from work, he would bring two cups of milk tea and wait for you downstairs.
But now, love is difficult to open in his heart, he can only silently give you a thumbs up, and then open the songs that you used to listen quietly together when you were together, along with the lyrics, the heart fluttered, into the memory.
Or maybe he will send you some blessings, say something "ambiguous" to you, make you unable to understand his mind, you reply to him, you will find that his happiness has overflowed.
What I want to say to men is that emotional things sometimes need a little initiative, if you really can't put it down, you may wish to let yourself try again, at least, in retrospect, I will not think: I missed a girl I love very much.
The right person, sometimes, really needs a little twist and turn to meet.
Loved ones, sometimes, really need a little wind and waves to wake up.
He will always inquire about you in the mouths of friends and mention you in front of others, because he will never forget you
There is a lyric called Confirmation Eyes, I Met the Right Person.
Maybe you were once in love at first sight and loved each other, but after arguing again and again, you chose to separate.
But after you were separated, he never met a man who could make him as excited as you were. After you left, the pain in his heart and lungs never stopped.
He wants to know whether you are doing well in the moment, but he opens your circle of friends, blank as usual.
So, he will want to know your news from friends, and when he has a party, he will inadvertently mention you and want to know all your information; he will find an excuse to contact your girlfriends and friends, want to know, whether you will still worry about him, want to know whether you have the possibility of getting back together.
He will uncontrollably mention you in front of his family and friends, he longs to share his joys and sorrows with you again, he longs to hold your hand again, walk side by side on the street, eager to see your smiling face again, to hear your exquisite laughter.
Some people say that the most feared thing in life is to meet people who want to cherish their lives at an age of powerlessness.
Relative to men, perhaps, life is difficult and bitter, but if you encounter it, just grab it. It is very likely that in your life, the only person, will make you miss it so much, and only this person, after she leaves you, will make you so regretful and sigh.
The best love should be mutual fulfillment, mutual support, rather than mutual dislike, mutual dislike, unaccustomed to each other, accept the lesson of this separation, and then know how to cherish it well.
You know, Qingfeng and Mingyue can't send your heart, and you can only have the opportunity to reconcile again if you tell her personally: "I miss you very much".
Always looking for you uncontrollably is his determination to continue to be with you
The man's heart is as deep as the sea.
Perhaps, he is also eager to break the connection, no longer meet, disappear, let you go free, let yourself go far.
However, he will fantasize about encountering you countless times in his heart, airports, supermarkets, restaurants, milk tea shops, shopping malls... But in the end, there is none; he will also fantasize countless times about the mood when he meets you again, joy, embarrassment, sadness, sadness... But in the end, they are all in love, they all want to reconcile with you and be together again.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", He Yichen finally couldn't control his thoughts about Zhao Mosheng and got on a plane to the United States. But at the same time, Zhao Mosheng returned to China.
In the supermarket, He Yichen and He Yimei were chatting while walking, but when they looked up, they saw Zhao Mosheng, who was panicked in the scattered cans, and the corners of his mouth couldn't help but move upwards.
Perhaps, from this moment on, he had already made up his mind that he could not let her go again in this life.
Although Mo Sheng carefully avoided him, he would still meet him unexpectedly in the situation he had set. He looked for her again and again, and then, fearing that she would break off the connection again, offered to marry her outright, even though he knew she had already been married once.
Perhaps, after the disconnection, men can't forget you, that's it: I don't want to be strangers with you, I don't want us to have no connection.
In "Those Years", at the end of the movie, Shen Jiayi said to Ke Jingteng: Thank you for liking me. Ke Jingteng responded with a smile: I also liked that I liked you at that time.
Unfortunately, the love of youth will always have a lot of uncertainty, and if you don't go to the end, you won't know who will spend your life with you at the end.
However, if after the disconnection is broken, two people can still pick up the love of youth, it will certainly be cherished. Because they all know: turn around again and miss it, it is likely that they will never meet again in this life. Therefore, they will be very grateful to God for this kind of favor.
Therefore, if a man frequently comes to you after breaking off the connection, his meaning is self-evident, he wants to reunite with you, if you are still interested in him, then you may as well give him a chance.
After all, love, if it reaches "later", can not go back to "once".
-03-
Someone once asked: Do you regret about your ex?
Most people's answer is silence.
How sweet it is to fall in love, how sad it is to be apart. That name, tossing and turning in the heart, in a certain moment of memory, makes you cry silently.
Therefore, life is very long, if you can't put it down, don't reluctantly forget, give yourself one more chance, chase her back, but also let your love have no regrets.
In fact, the separation between some couples is just a small dispute, a small complaint, a casual, you have to be clear, everyone in love, will encounter this situation. Most importantly, even if you are noisy and noisy, you still want to grasp the other party's hand and do not want to let go.
Therefore, I can't put it down, so I bravely chase after her, warm her heart, and circle her back into my arms.
Of course, if the other party really doesn't love you, there is no need to force it. After all, love is something that requires you to love me.
You have given everything and tried to save it, but the other party still ignores you, ignores you, and even orchestrates you everywhere and embarrasses you, so let it go.
It's not so hard to let go, don't blame others, and don't force yourself.
In this world, no one can do without anyone, only anyone who wants to let go of your hand, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never get a person who does not love you so much.
If you love, you love deeply, and if you forsake, you are thorough.
Finally, bless all couples in disconnection:
If you still love, don't let go of each other's hands, and accompany this love to the white head; if you don't love, you will be able to get along and disperse, and never disturb each other from now on, and each will look for the future.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!