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The TV series "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing was released, and this drama was very hot and highly discussed.
In the play, she plays a very ordinary housewife Feng Xiaoqin, who married from a small place in Shanghai, and then quit her job to take care of the family at home, living with her husband's father, grandmother, children, and her sister's family of six.
The show begins with her wanting to buy a house, just like in "Snail House" she played many years ago, and she also struggled to buy a house.
Her obsession is very deep, that is, she must have a house, obviously she does not have that ability at all, her husband's work is also very ordinary, not enough to support her to buy a house in a place like Shanghai, but she wants to do everything she can to borrow money to buy a house, borrow money from her eldest sister, borrow money from her father-in-law,
About her to buy a house, netizens' evaluations are mixed, some people are very supportive of her to buy a house, think it is not easy for her to live, a family of several people crowded in such a crowded house, every day living in chickens and dogs jumping, have their own house can move out, can be regarded as a good life.
Some people think that she is fishing, want to take a sum from her husband's family, achieve goals that she cannot achieve by herself, and think that she is very selfish, single-mindedly taking care of herself and ignoring others.
But if you dig deeper into her life, her situation, you may be able to understand why she must have a house of her own.
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First of all, she belongs to the high marriage, it seems that she has broken through her own class, but in fact she is very insecure.
It seems that she has become a Shanghainese, living in a big city like Shanghai, and has also achieved a class jump, but in fact she does not really have anything.
The house she lives in now is not hers, there is no half-cent relationship with her, she only has the right to live, there is no right to own, to say it is ugly, if one day divorced from her husband, she will have nowhere to go, she will have to go back to her hometown.
And in order to be able to enjoy the right to live here, she has to give up her right to work and take care of her family at home, how many years she has been married to her husband, how many years she has been a nanny in his home, taking care of two elderly people, and it is free.
She made a great sacrifice in exchange for such a life, such a sacrifice is very unworthy for her, if you put this ten years into work, she has income and ability to work, and at home there is no income, not recognized. It will only be taken for granted.
Her eldest sister is not very attached to her, which also makes her realize that she does not really cross the class, she does not have her own property, there will be no dignity, there will be no sense of security, only with her own house, there will be a real sense of security.
Second, she was too tired to live, and she wanted to change the status quo.
At the beginning of the play, she made a comparison with the life of her eldest sister, the same morning, also in Shanghai, but they lived a completely different life. The eldest sister woke up in the morning to bathe in the warm sunshine, and after getting up, she listened to music while practicing yoga.
She didn't need to clean up, she didn't need to tidy up, she didn't need to prepare breakfast, because she had an aunt to take care of her and take care of everything in her life, and she didn't have to worry about anything.
And Feng Xiaoqin began to be busy as soon as she opened her eyes, she was the first in the family, she had to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and then buy breakfast, no one got up when she got home, she also had to be busy making breakfast, waiting for her grandmother and father-in-law, taking care of the children to eat breakfast.
The reason why she lives so tired is because she has to take care of the family of five, just like the nanny of the whole family, how can she not be tired, she is eager to change the status quo, want to have her own house, and then move out with her husband and children, so that the family of three can live a harmonious and beautiful life, and will not be so tired.
She only has one way to change the status quo, as long as she does not move out one day, she will not have a day of leisure, taking care of the elderly is such a laborious thing, she has taken care of so many years, it has long been enough.
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That's why she must have a house of her own in Shanghai, she just wants to have a house, and she feels that only a house with her name written on it can really be considered a Shanghainese and can really gain a foothold in Shanghai.
The house is the source of her sense of security, is her strength to live in Shanghai, she does not have to look at the face of the eldest sister, do not have to work so hard to take care of the two old people, she can live a happy life that truly belongs to her.
She has such a thought can not be regarded as selfish, to say selfish, I think her husband and sister are really selfish.
For the eldest sister, she lives a leisurely life alone, does not have to take care of two old people, as long as the sister-in-law has been living at home, there is no need to worry about the old man being unattended.
And her husband actually has the same idea, in his opinion, they already have a place to live, why toss, so hard to buy a house, but also hard to repay the mortgage, how tired.
They are the most selfish people, do not support buying a house, is worried that she will not care about the elderly after she goes out to live, is to treat her as a free nanny at home, how good.
Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy her own house, which is really not excessive at all, nor selfish.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"