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There is a saying in "Wild": Everyone is eager to get, but not everyone can wait for that part. Deeply believed, especially in the world of emotions, many women in real life often have such a misunderstanding, in the face of a relationship, in the face of the men they like, they can't help but want to pay for men, but also feel that as long as they pay men, they will get gains, and even foolishly feel that the more they pay for men, the more they will eventually get more love and care for themselves.
However, women like this kind of psychology usually only let men accept their own love, and have gradually become accustomed to their own good, and often eventually evolve into a man's heart, taking their love and kindness to men as a matter of course. Even over time, whenever you want to relax the relationship and want to get some care and love from the person you like, you not only can't get the man's care and love, but also find that your previous dedication to the man is a natural thing in the eyes of the man, and it is not the performance of the man's love that the man thinks he loves.
However, there are some female friends who are more intelligent and have higher emotional intelligence, they will know how to manage your relationship, how to maintain your relationship, and they will not take "love" too seriously, but just take it as a part of their lives, and the most important thing is to live their own lives well and live their lives well.
Of course, there will also be some female friends, not only do not know how to manage a relationship, but also do not know how to always grasp the heart of men, then women in the final life of feelings is difficult to get the happiness they want, will only live more and more painful.
In fact, you don't look at love is a very complicated thing, but as long as you learn how to manage a relationship, it may become very simple, the most important thing is of course in the relationship, women should know how to learn to snub men, because occasionally snubbing men, will make men find the importance of women, but also will make men pay more attention to the feelings of the two of you, more will make men's feelings for women more specific. In the end, get along with the opposite sex, learn to "snub" a man like this, so that he will never forget you!
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Learn to snub men like this, and give them moderate freedom in their feelings;
In fact, in the relationship, when a woman falls in love with a man and wants to be with each other for a long time, she must learn to snub men, how to say it is to know how to give men moderate freedom, don't care about too many men, but will make men more comfortable;
However, you female friends should know that in the feelings to learn to give men freedom, to know how to grasp the measure and scale, the so-called to give men a certain degree of freedom, of course, is a moderate freedom, not wanton indulgence, nor to make men lawless, but to learn to grasp the scale, men themselves also know how to pay attention to good measures, to ensure that they will not be out of line and deviant.
Similarly, when men get the freedom and comfort they want, they will also know how to cherish women, cherish women's kindness to themselves, know how to give feedback to women more care, and give women more love. In the end, this is a kind of mutual love between each other, and only when the two of you know how to empathize, then you can get along more comfortably in your feelings.
This just right way of getting along will not only make male friends feel no feeling of being bound, but also do not feel the loss of freedom, and the love that women give to men is the love that men want the most, and it will also make men cherish women more, and have more yearning and cherishing for love.
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Learn to snub men like this, and what you can't get will be more attentive;
Books on gender psychology have mentioned that human nature is a very strange thing, especially for male friends with "desire to conquer", often for things that they can easily obtain, they will not cherish at all, let alone pay attention to, on the contrary, for those things that they have not been able to get, they will pay more attention to and be more attentive, and they will not forget.
Just like before a fan friend told me the love story between her and her boyfriend, it may not only be this fan friend, but many female friends in real life will have a similar experience, that is, when the two of you start to fall in love, women have been facing men with a warm attitude, and have been overly concerned about men's feelings, which will make men accustomed to women's enthusiasm in the long run, and will make them inflate themselves.
Once men are accustomed to women's enthusiasm for themselves, accustomed to women's concern and care for themselves, then men will feel accustomed to it, and they will no longer feel women's love for themselves so easily, and they will not cherish women's love and concern for themselves, and will only regard women's love for themselves as a very natural thing, as if women should love themselves and be good to themselves.
Of course, libras like this love have lost their balance of feelings, and the final result is that once men are tired of women, they will decisively propose to women to break up; or men will directly kick away women when they meet better objects, anyway, no matter which one, men will not cherish women, nor will they be obsessed with women.
Only once a woman learns to snub men, learn not to let men so easy to get their own love, do not let men so easy to get their own good, men will always be concerned about women, but also will find that women were good to themselves before, more will cherish women, cherish the hard-won love of the two of you, this is the so-called too easy to get things, often in the end will not cherish, will not be put in the heart, but things that are not easy to obtain, will be treated as a baby, After getting it, it will be more and more cherished.
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Learn to snub a man like this and make him feel a sense of crisis for you;
Some people say that in the process of intersex communication, women should learn to snub men, which will make men have a sense of crisis for women, and will also make men feel the importance of women, and they will be more afraid of women suddenly leaving themselves, so that men will cherish and value women more and more, desperately want to be good to women, want to give women more care and love, and are afraid of other men to rob women with themselves.
Especially when in love, women occasionally have to learn to snub men, and suddenly men will have a sense of crisis for women, men may not guess women's minds at the beginning, and will reflect on whether they have done something wrong, that feeling is like the calm before the storm, just like our ancestors have a famous saying, there must be a demon when things go wrong, and if people are abnormal, there must be a knife. Whenever women snub men, it is the origin of this "sense of crisis" that makes men have this "sense of crisis" about themselves.
And this will make men vigilant to see, the woman will suddenly have a sense of crisis, of course, normal male friends will first reflect on themselves, will immediately want to make up for the death, do not let the relationship between the two of you deteriorate, so it will be very good to the woman, good enough to care about your mood, will want to give women considerate care, want to give women care and warmth, because in the eyes of men, once women snubbed themselves, it is very likely that they want to break up with themselves, or want to leave their signs Then men will definitely desperately be nice to women, afraid that women will leave themselves.
Eason Chan has a song that is sung like this: what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and the favored have no fear;
All in all, I have to say that many men in real life are such a psychology, "what you can't get is always in turmoil, and you are favored without fear", once you chase a woman, once you feel that a woman loves herself miserably, once you are sure that a woman will never leave herself, she will begin to show her original form, and she will begin to want to want to be reckless and willful of her own problems, not only will it ignore women's feelings, but also will not care about women's thoughts.
Therefore, female friends in the feelings, to learn some skills to manage love, to learn to snub a male friend, in fact, is equivalent to telling themselves, let themselves learn how to manage love, learn to stay calm and calm in front of love, do not take love too seriously, do not take feelings as the whole of their lives, and do not take men as the center of their lives.
Otherwise, when a male friend becomes the center of gravity of his life, he has always been around the man, and over time, when the man becomes his own world, once he loses the man, or is abandoned by the man at that moment, then it means that his whole world has collapsed, and he will only be more sad and sad.
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