After the breakup, there are people who are unwilling, not only women, but also men.
When the unmarried Xiaoyu fell in love with Liu Rui, he confessed after confirming the relationship that he was divorcing his wife and asked her to give him half a year, he must divorce the marriage and then marry her.
In Xiaoyu's eyes, Liu Rui is a successful man, with an annual income of hundreds of thousands, a house and a car in a first-tier city, the key is very good to her, willing to spend money for her.
With the promise of divorce, she waited for half a year, and later found that he was not divorced, and his wife also found her, saying that he would rely on her mother's family to climb up, and it was impossible to divorce.
Xiao Yu woke up and broke up with him, and then moved away to find a new job, but Liu Rui always turned back to her, saying that the person he loved most was her, but he just met and hated late, so she must give him time, don't be cruel to him and so on.
Listening to the man's words, she softened her heart again, and felt that the man still loved her, but there was a tigress at home. After forgiving him, the two reconciled for a while, his wife came to make trouble again, Xiaoyu found out that he had cheated on him again, and broke up again, but he still stirred her up like the last time in the breakup, letting her come back to him.
She asked, does this man really love her?
If he talks about love, he makes her a disgraceful third party, and uses deception. Saying that you don't love her, and pestering and not letting go, is really good for her when you are together.
I said, if this man didn't treat you well when he wanted to get you, would you choose to be with him?
Still asking love or not? What right does a married man have to say love to you, he is simply basing his pleasure on the pain of two women, and the person he loves most is himself.
In fact, after the breakup, the man turns back to you because he knows one thing:
Men know that women will be soft-hearted and may give him another chance.
Unmarried women are routinely tricked by married men, offering to break up after knowing they have been cheated on, but liking a person is not adulterated, and the bits and pieces of two people together will become a woman's experience and past, which is an undeniable fact.
The married man certainly knows this, and he feels that the time two people have together is happy, even if the woman has left him, but it does not prevent him from longing to have her again.
After the breakup, the man's plucking is like throwing a stone on the woman's heart lake, stirring up ripples, and the woman's heart is easy to mess up.
Liu Rui picked up Xiaoyu again after the breakup, Xiaoyu has not yet come out of the fact that the two people broke up, and as soon as he said that he still loved her deeply, she softened her heart.
Because after the breakup, many women are very entangled in their hearts, one moment they feel that it is good to be separated, the next moment they will miss the good of being together, and the alternation of pain and sweetness is also a kind of ideological struggle.
When a man turns back to stir up a woman, it undoubtedly accelerates the tilt of the woman's inner balance, she will determine that the man still loves himself, plus mistakenly thinks that he still loves himself, he will choose to compound, give the man a chance, but also give himself a chance.
As for whether it is the right choice, it will be left behind by women who have lost their minds.
The man knows that the woman has not put it down yet, and he has a chance.
Whether a woman is emotionally heavy, married men can easily see that even if they break up, women will not forget it all at once.
Coupled with the fact that "the spirited woman is afraid of the stalker", he does not care whether the woman wants to start a new life, but pays attention to his own desires.
Even if the woman already has a new boyfriend, as long as this kind of man wants to stir, he will use the woman and his past as capital, as long as the woman takes care of him, he realizes that the woman has not yet let go.
If the woman knows that two people can't go back to the past, and bravely rejects him when he stirs himself up, he will give up after a few tentative attempts without responding.
It's just that when many women see men turning back to stir themselves, they mistakenly think that men still love themselves, can't let go of old feelings, and add drama to themselves, resulting in unclear understanding of men's most real faces.
The married man turns back to the woman, who doesn't love her at all, just thinks he can satisfy his own desires with low investment.
Men are familiar with a woman's dependence on men with feelings, not to mention that two people have had intimate relationships, it is not easy for women to let go, as long as he dares to pry, women will still rely on him and achieve his goals.
Men know that with low-cost investment, they can get what they want.
In a relationship, it is clear that some men are very bad, and women will still choose to be with him after being hurt, so that the people around them look very angry, but they can't wake up women.
Many women in the relationship is good scars forget the pain, especially in the case of men proposing to break up, women will feel unwilling, they pay so much, he said to break up on the breakup, think he will regret it one day.
In a woman's heart, it is looking forward to the day when a man will turn back, when a man really turns back to stir, the inner unwillingness will be awakened, and he thinks that the man still loves himself, which is the best performance of his own...
However, the man turned back to pluck, but he was lonely, and within his own ability, you just happened to be his easiest target.
Having had feelings or relationships, knowing everything about each other, not having to reinvest too much time and energy, as long as the woman is willing to give him a chance, he can control the relationship and disguise himself with the cloak of love, and the woman will be deceived by him again.
After the breakup, in the face of the problem of men turning back to pry, women should not preconceived it as a resurgence of old feelings.
If you are easily messed up, it is easy to be led by a man.
Understand that a man's prodding is nothing more than he knows that you will be soft-hearted or not let go of him, and is likely to give him another chance, and he can get you again with the least cost.
It must be clear that those who cannot go back to the past, and the feelings that cannot go back, must be broken, otherwise they will be chaotic.
There is a sentence in Spirited Away: "What has come to an end, rebirth is only another demise." ”
Since two people have chosen to break up, it shows that there is an irreconcilable contradiction between them.
Even if love is too easy for people to repeat the same mistakes, some problems do not exist if they are not ignored, it will be like a rock between each other, so that each other will break up again, but this time it will be more painful.
Although a man's plucking can easily break a woman's already calm mood, it is also a kind of consumption for women, and falling down again in the same place is undoubtedly irresponsible to herself.
Leaving a relationship and the wrong person, the woman's pace should be resolute, dare to reject the man and turn back to stir up his own behavior, let him be bored with himself, he will not continue.
A relationship is over, and it is the new beginning to let go completely!
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