When I was in college, Xiao Li was most envious of the campus couple.
How wonderful it is to go to school together, eat together, and hang out together on weekends!
But now because of the impact of the epidemic, campus couples have become long-distance relationships.
But even though they are in a different place, these people who miss each other will always try their best to make each other feel love: with words, with gifts, with sincerity.
"There is a distance in a different place, but love has not studied geography, and does not know the boundaries."
On Wednesday, Xiao Li launched a questionnaire on "Long-distance Love under the Epidemic" and received many responses from classmates.
Xiao Li carefully read the questionnaire and shared these loves and persistence with you
@Cloud's eyes
We've been together for 528 days.
During the off-site period, I think the sweetest moment is New Year's Day, we unknowingly, we prepared a surprise for each other, I bought him a cake dessert, he bought me a bouquet of flowers
During the off-site period, we will also have contradictions, but we will generally communicate in time and understand each other.
Although we can't see each other for a long time, we often make video calls, create surprises for each other from time to time, such as writing a letter, helping each other order takeaways, etc., and agree on what to do when we meet next time
When the wave was over, the first thing we did when we met was to fly a model airplane
@Jewelry
We've been together for 5 months, and the off-site is almost 2.5 months old.
Although it was different, every night the hugging classmates would tell me the story of the little fox and the little rabbit and accompany me to sleep, but I never listened to it, and every time I talked about the first three sentences, I fell asleep hahahahaha
During the off-site period, we occasionally have conflicts.
Because we do not meet for a long time, everyone cherishes the time of the phone call and will avoid talking about some unpleasant things, but after a long time, many problems cannot be solved in time, and contradictions will occur.
In fact, even the smallest problem must be spoken out and solved immediately. Only by saying everything and knowing what the other person really thinks is conducive to further consideration for each other.
A small way to keep a fresh in a long-distance relationship? Hahahahahaha
Hugging classmates always coax me to sleep at night, and then start to write a daily love reflection diary, so that we can understand each other's thoughts in time;
Hug students will also watch the love open class (Professor Shen Yifei, Professor Liang Yong'an) hahahahaha, learn the true meaning of love, and share ta's new insights with me every day.
I think that writing a love reflection diary together and watching a love open class are good ways to make two people think about how to get along better.
Offsite, not a problem!!!
After the end of this epidemic, the first thing we want to do is to go to Dushu Lake to walk hand in hand to watch the sunset!!!
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We've been together for 10 months
During the off-site period, we will video call, study with Mai, listen to songs together, send small gifts to each other...
Experienced a lot of little sweet moments! For example, the first online video conference after being off-site; on Valentine's Day, we quietly prepare gifts for each other, etc. (although the gifts have not yet been received when they are sent to school
During the off-site period, it is indeed more likely to produce contradictions. Our solution is not to let the contradiction stay overnight, and if you have an idea, just say it and solve it together!
When this wave of the epidemic is over, the first thing we will do when we meet is to give each other an oversized hug! Let's go to the observatory to see the stars together, and then go to the delicious food together!
@Jaguar
Today is our 301st day together.
During the long-distance period, I think the sweetest moment should be to write a handwritten letter or postcard to each other
Of course, we occasionally have conflicts. After the conflict occurs, we will find a time that is not busy to have a good chat.
I think the most important thing about long-distance relationships is to video every day! We write homework together at Tencent meetings every day
After the end of this wave of epidemics, the first thing we met was to pick up and go around twice, hug and hug
@Serendipity River
Today is the 90th day we are on our two-way journey.
We experienced a lot of sweet moments while offsite. I think the sweetest thing is that every time she says she misses me and can't help but say she loves me
During the off-site period, we also had a conflict. Then, starting with me dropping the little pearl first, the two people peacefully express their needs and ideas, and understand each other from each other's point of view, and finally end with "I love you" and "I love you too".
I think the little secret of long-distance love is: don't call if you can play video, don't type text if you can call, and it's very important to pay attention to each other's needs and ideas
When this wave of the epidemic is over, I will hug her fiercely, kiss her indulgently, and boldly express my love to her!!!!!
@Tweet!
When we chatted yesterday, we suddenly found out that there are 20 days left for us to be together for 999 days!
During the off-site period, in fact, as long as we do not have conflicts, it is very sweet hahahahaha
My favorite sweet moment recently was to share with him the video of the renovated cottage I saw on the Internet and talk to each other about what the ideal house looks like... Then he built a cabin in Minecraft! There are also cats and cats in there
During the period of different places, of course, we will also have contradictions, the feelings of yin and yang are normal, the most important thing is to say something, no one should hold back or hide anything, together to find out the reason for the problem, in order to find a way to solve it together
As a perennial long-distance lover, my little tips for keeping love fresh are:
1, must be honest with each other, there are unhappy or contradictory must also be said out. Even if you are not around, you must accompany each other to share your joys and sorrows
2, can create some small surprises, a bouquet of flowers a letter a song... These simple little things will make people feel super sweet~
After this wave of the epidemic is over, I want a long hug!!! I miss you so much!!!
@Bear Princess
We have been together for 1 year, 9 months and 14 days.
The sweetest moment in a different place is probably no matter what I post in which software during the day (because I often haunt various social software, circle of friends, Weibo, Douyin, Taobao... He always talks to me about these things when playing videos at night, mentions them when playing terriers, shares views with me seriously, and responds to everything.
From the time we were together to the present, from what we ate at noon today, to international current affairs, there have been no differences or contradictions.
npy knows very well what my bottom line is, where the minefield is, he is very measured, I usually do not like to be angry, he occasionally indulges in games to make me feel ignored, he will light him at the time of the video, he will quickly admit his mistake and immediately coax
In fact, whether it is a girl or a boy, they need a sense of security. We have to be honest with each other and try to love each other. Whether it is across the screen or across the mountains and seas, I believe that true love will always come for you
I can't eat a late-night snack when I get home, so after this wave of epidemics, the first thing we met was to fish together in the middle of the night!
@Dumb goose
We've been together for 1329 days!
One of the things I think was sweetest during my time offsite was in high school. He was a freshman in college at the time, I was still in my junior year of high school, and one night I received a text message for self-study: Garden Dessert - Your custom carousel cake has been made and will be delivered at ten o'clock ** Attached to the back door.
I didn't think much about it, thinking it was my boyfriend who ordered it and was ready to get it. When I left the school gate, my boyfriend called me and kept talking to me, saying that the cake was across the school door and asked me to go get it quickly.
I didn't notice anything wrong, until I saw a figure dangling in front of me, only to find that he had sneaked back to find me. (I'm ashamed to say that he lost a lot of weight in physical training, but I didn't recognize him.)
During the off-site period, we also have conflicts, and always for some trivial, ordinary couples to hug a good little thing.
The last time was because he delayed my sleep... When I think about it now, I feel speechless, but I was just not happy at the time, so I pretended to be okay and didn't want to pay attention to him.
Fortunately, he likes to solve problems in time, and he will always urge me to speak every time this happens. I think he did a really good job.
The most feared thing about long-distance relationships is not to communicate! Even if you scold the other party, it is better than not saying it yourself.
We've been in different places since we were together, and I think the most useful preservation secret is to keep the desire to share.
You have a bunch of endless things you want to say to the other person to prove that you really care about him. So boys don't think their girlfriends talk too much! Don't be born in the midst of the blessings and not know the blessings!
After this wave of the epidemic is over, I have a lot of things to do! I want to go to the beach with him, I want to go to his graduation ceremony, I want him to accompany him...
Alas, I was actually quite satisfied that we could eat and walk together
@cczi's ffer
Today is our third month together!!
In the past two days, some things have caused me to be in a bad mood, and he has also become ill. But he knew that I was very distressed after secretly crying, and he chatted with me during the day for fear of my wild thoughts, and at night he also talked with me until late.
He always put me first, and at night he kept telling me to call him for something to do. This man I can fall in love with many times
During the off-site period, we will also have conflicts. However, as soon as we have a contradiction, we will resolve it in time, and we can't bear to say harsh words or shout at each other.
Usually we will face the problem openly and honestly, talk to each other about their thoughts, although at first they will be angry, but in this atmosphere of good communication, every small fight is perfectly solved, and even the feelings are getting better and better
The little secret of long-distance love preservation is to be able to play video without playing voice! Chat as much as you can every day and meet more! You can listen to songs together! Play chess online! Play mini-games!
When this wave of epidemics is over, the first thing we will see must be a big hug!!! Then Mimi goes to ci delicious ~
@ Don't see the old acquaintance offstage
We've been together for 409 days.
During my time in a different place, I think the sweetest moment is to pay attention (yes!). Eye-catching), he borrowed remote control to help me solve some small problems with the computer
When we are in a different place, we do not have conflicts, but we feel anxious because we have not seen each other for a long time. In general, playing a super super super long video, or learning together, keeping yourself busy can divert some emotions.
I think the way to keep a long-distance relationship fresh is to give each other space and trust, make phone calls and videos at the right time, buy small items for each other, and give each other a surprise.
Probably the first thing we saw after the pandemic was over was to hug each other
@ Pinch deep shock
We've been together for 1732 days.
During the off-site period, I think the sweetest thing is that we play together you draw me guess.
There were 6 people in a room, six of us were the champions and runners-up, and everyone else said that we opened and hung up to say the answer to each other, but only we knew that the secret was ---- clever
To be honest, there are very few contradictions when we are off-site. Probably we can do our own thing well, live our own lives wonderfully, and at the same time, we are willing to share it
After the end of this wave of epidemics, the first thing we met was to see the spring, and we always wanted to go to Yangzhou to eat, drink and have fun.
(This is a couple I saw a few days ago when I went to the beach of Chongming Island, and I hope that we can also walk to this day together in the future)
@Patrick
Today is our 158th day together.
During our off-site period, it was also quite sweet hahahahaha. For example, when she made a video call to me this morning, I happened to walk to a rapeseed field, and in the foggy morning, she and a rapeseed flower field with sleepy eyes made me feel very beautiful and sweet, in a fairyland
We just don't know why, during the off-site period, we have no contradiction at all
The tip of long-distance love preservation, of course, is to treat each other sincerely! Because it was really happy and joyful to be with her, every day was fresh!
After sorting out these stories, Xiao Li was like eating a very sweet candy.
Long-distance love is like a magnifying glass, which makes people endure the thoughts at the same time, but also makes people cherish the sweet moments that belong to each other more.
Timely communication, serious management, mutual trust, these love preservatives, so that their feelings become more long-lasting and real.
"The mountains and seas you love are flat."
I wish you and your loved ones a long and long life
What are your sweet stories about experiencing a long-distance relationship?
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