Yu Liansha (Author focusing on the field of emotion)
The mountains and rivers are long, and the coming to Japan is long; the world loves, but it is pleasing to you. Thanks for the attention!
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Indifferent, not like, but knowing fate. It is not called brave to chase after it, and it is called brave to go away with your sleeves.
There is such a woman who is alone in the day. Things that can be solved by yourself will never trouble others. Benefits that come out of thin air will never be easily accepted.
They are independent and self-reliant, and never take advantage of others. They know that there is no such thing as a free lunch.
Treat feelings, be honest and serious, and prefer to be lacking rather than indiscriminate.
Truly rational women, it is generally difficult to get married!
1. They know that there are many people they like, and there are very few people who really love them
A man, if truly loves you. In his eyes, there is only pity for you.
If I don't love you, I only have desires and demands on you. Being with you, not because you're attractive. Nor is it because, how beautiful you look.
It's because you're free, clean, simple, diligent, coaxing, cheating, not spending money, and posting upside down.
Marriage is a practice of mutual devotion and mutual achievement, and many people have turned it into a kind of "transaction." ”
The men at the bottom, in order to continue the incense; the middle men; to find helpers, the men at the top, in order to find strong teammates. And the scumbag, purely want you to "help the poor""
Bad luck to meet a man who doesn't give his heart and only weighs the pros and cons. That's absolutely, pushing yourself into the fire pit.
The kind of man who talks for a few days and wants to plot against him. Full of words of love for you, but not even a circle of friends who took a picture with you, they are not willing to send it.
People nowadays are very impetuous and say things that love you; but they do things that are impatient with you.
If you try your best, why should you have no regrets, if you do your best, you can rest assured.
Marriage, find a person with good character and you will be stable. Otherwise, there is really no need to make it look like love.
Women, to marry a man with a mature mind, not to marry an older man.
A man's experience, sense of responsibility, and maturity have nothing to do with age, but with his experience.
Rational women have passed, the age of familiar love. It is no longer "ancient routines that have won people's hearts", but "only true feelings are precious"!
2. There are many suitors, but they never lose themselves
Over time, they will find that the man's appearance does not matter. The important thing is that there is wisdom in the brain and responsibility in the heart.
The handsomeness of a man is the wisdom and steadiness accumulated over the years. It doesn't matter what a man's sweet words say, what matters is whether the promise can be kept.
The so-called, sincerity falls on action. There are few men who can do what they say and do.
"The world flows, the clouds are light and the wind is light. If there is a reason, it will come, and if there is no reason, it will go. ”
Such a woman is inquisitive and constantly improves her self-awareness. One side of life, one side of holding up, wanting poetry and far away.
They will not take the initiative to run to anyone, just here, always here. Those who are willing to approach them, treat each other sincerely, cherish them.
Nor does it be demanded of those who have departed; the Word is different, and each has its own aspirations and the rest of its life.
They are in a chaotic red dust, but their hearts are pure and transparent. Although it has not been able to help the world, it is alone. Stick to the good heart and never go with the flow.
They don't argue, they win and lose. It is especially calm in the face of loss. It's not my going to go, it's not mine, how can it be kept? ”
3. Fear of being alone, but enjoy being alone
Although they are afraid of being alone, they enjoy being alone.
They are in the human world, where the road is far away, but they live with great affection.
They understand that no one will be with them forever; but there will still be someone to accompany them. Because of life, no one can always accompany themselves to the end.
Life goes from hard to easy, and it is impossible to do without a strong heart. No one can achieve anyone with one hand, truly powerful, in their own hearts. Only by working hard can you see the light.
The world can't see through them, only that they are cold and cold.
As everyone knows, the cool thin is fake, peeling off the shell of layer by layer. Hidden in it is the heart of the pure child who is the most true and the most good!
They are kind and harmless. All alienation is only for self-preservation.
Once you open your heart, you will take your life to love others!
"People can be affectionate, but don't be sentimental; don't cover your heart that is not hot, and don't want those who can't get it; don't be mean to yourself and make others laugh."
The person who has you in his heart will think of you without reminding him. People who don't have you in their hearts, no matter how many hints, can't get back a sincere response.
Life can be rough, years can be gentle. Willfulness can also be cold, but we can't not love ourselves!
Author: Yu Liansha (Practitioner of Chinese Culture)
The wisdom of life lies in knowing cause and effect, understanding trade-offs, and seeing through the essence of things!
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