Aetna:
The brother of a capitalist.
An "outlier" who desperately wants to join the ranks of the masses of the people, but is ostracized everywhere.
A brother who wanted his sister Anjie to marry a soldier so that the whole family would have shelter.
A man who lived a depressed life in the second half of his life and has always been cautious.
When he first watched "Parental Love", Domino looked down on Antai the most, believing that he was selfish, snobbish, timid and cowardly, and even betrayed his own sister.
But when I looked at it nine years later, I found that Aetna was the one who had great wisdom in the face of adversity.
Aetna knows how to succumb to the big picture.
Anjie was arranged by the secretary to attend the ball party of the artillery school, and An xin was very disgusted.
An Xin thought it was a great insult to his sister Anjie. How could the jade-like Anjie let these newly literate officers pick and choose?
Antai does not see it this way, he thinks that the officer can pick Anjie, and anjie can also find good officers from it, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Anjie was a capitalist lady, and this status was very discriminated against in those days.
Domino had thought that Antai's argument was a sign of weakness, but if you think about it, isn't this the wisdom of his survival?
Otherwise, in that kind of environment, just complaining about the unfairness of the environment can suffocate Aetna.
Inferiority and Transcendence:
"Life will exist as you think it is."
The wisdom to see opportunities in difficulties and find hope in adversity. This is what Aetna's life looks like.
It is precisely because of Antai's calm wisdom that the three sisters of the An family have safely survived the difficult years.
Antai encouraged Anjie to choose Jiang Defu through comprehensive consideration.
Antai actively promoted the marriage between Anjie and Jiang Defu for his own consideration, which is undeniable.
As Anjie's sister-in-law said, they enjoyed the feeling of being respected for climbing up to the rank of officer.
But letting Anjie marry Jiang Defu was also a well-thought-out decision made by Antai.
First of all, Antai did not rush to get Anjie to agree to this affair as soon as possible, like his wife, but always observed in detail.
It wasn't until he listened to Jiang Defu's call to Anjie that Antai talked to his sister and said what was in his heart.
Antai told Anjie that he judged the regimental commander to be a good person by sound. This is not false.
During the call, although Antai, who was sitting next to him, did not know what Jiang Defu was talking about, he heard the unfriendliness in Anjie's tone. However, Jiang Defu did not hang up the phone, but kept cooperating with the chat. It is enough to see that Jiang Defu is very concerned about Anjie.
It is precisely because of this that Antai advised Anjie to say, "People are the leaders of a group." Moreover, he is now studying at a high-level artillery school, indicating that he will definitely be reused above. "This is considered from the perspective of Jiang Defu's future.
In response to Anjie's dislike of Jiang Defu as illiterate, the big old man's concern also said: "There are many Caokou emperors without culture in Chinese history, and without culture, they are not necessarily talented. ”
"The fact that an illiterate old man can become the head of the regiment is enough to prove that he is very cultured and talented."
"Even if he is an illiterate old man, such a comrade will take off the hat of illiteracy, and the future is unlimited!"
It can be seen that Antai really thinks through comprehensive consideration in all aspects, and truly feels that marrying Jiang Defu is the best destination for Anjie.
If An Jia is still a well-off capitalist, Jiang Defu will definitely not be able to enter Antai's eyes. But at this moment, Antai asked Anjie to choose Jiang Defu as the wisest suggestion.
In the face of family conflicts, Aetna has always been deaf and dumb.
Not only that, when Anjie thought he had been wronged and ran back to his mother's house, Antai also always asked Anjie to return to Jiang Defu's side quickly.
Antai did this not because he did not feel sorry for the little sister, nor because he was afraid of Jiang Defu's "official prestige", but because he truly considered the happiness of the little sister.
Especially when he saw Jiang Defu come to his home to pick up Anjie, Antai said bluntly that Anjie had steps to go down, and he couldn't stay in his mother's house all the time.
When An Xin and An Jie had different views, and Lao Ou and Jiang Defu had friction, Antai always pretended to be confused and did not express any opinions.
When Anjie did not agree to leave the city and Jiang Defu went to the island to join the army, it was also Antai who had been advising Anjie to leave this place of right and wrong as soon as possible.
In the end, it was Antai who said to Anjie: "There is a soldier's family member in their unit who has been beaten into a rightist, and Jiang Defu is not around, and he cannot protect you." Only then did Anjie make up his mind to go to the island with the army.
Antai didn't go to see Anxin, it wasn't really cold.
Because of Ouyang Yi's relationship, An Xin was directly sent to Little Black Mountain Island.
Anjie went to see An Xin at the urging of Jiang Defu.
And Antai has not been to the island once.
Anjie is really worried that his actions will affect Jiang Defu's future.
Antai is also really worried that his identity will make Anxin's situation worse.
When Anjie returned to Qingdao to visit his relatives, we could see that in fact, Antai had already been driven to live in a small house. It is conceivable that Aetna's situation in recent years has also been very bad.
In this case, Antai does not contact Anjie, nor does he care about Anxin, not ruthless, but the best protection for them.
We came into this world to have to come, and we left this world to have to go. Many things in the world do not allow us to choose too much.
In the face of the affection of siblings and the safety of their sisters, Aetna can only choose the latter.
For the happiness of his loved ones, Aetna never cared about his own face.
In order to let her daughter successfully become a soldier, she has a good future.
Antai traveled thousands of miles to the island where Anjie lived to ask For Jiang Defu.
During this period, Antai also paid great attention to details, such as telling her daughter not to sleep early, otherwise Anjie would be unhappy and would not be able to become a soldier.
Just like in order for the whole family to have a dependence, Antai was respectful to Jiang Defu.
Today's Antai, in order to achieve his own goals, has always been smiling with his sister and brother-in-law.
Recall that for Anjie's arrogance after marrying Jiang Defu, An Xin also had a positive conflict with his sister, but Antai never questioned it.
Putting down your face is the greatest decency of adults.
For the happiness of his family, Aetna has never put his face in his heart.
Antai, who has arranged his sister and children clearly, his sobriety is admirable.
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