The epic debut drama "The World of Man" finale. The story begins in 1969 when intellectual youth in a provincial capital city in the northeast went to the mountains and went to the countryside, and finally began urban transformation in 2016, involving the full picture of characters from all walks of life, which can be called the life epic of contemporary Chinese. Where there are ordinary people, there are fireworks, and where there is education.
In the past 50 years, the struggle of three generations of the Zhou family has allowed us to see the inextricable connection between personal development and the family from which we were born. I wondered, why only the children of the Zhou family can become the lucky ones of the times, and the children of the common people are also civilians? I summarized six causal laws about family education from the play, and the more I look at them, the more real they are.
The family style is positive, and the children and grandchildren are prosperous. In the whole light word film, most people are poor and humble, with the exception of the Zhou family. The Zhou family produced a mayor, a professor, a director, a director of obstetrics and gynecology, and four Qingbei scholars. Even Bingkun, who only has a primary school diploma, is also the core figure of the Six Little Gentlemen, and just came out of prison surrounded by friends to lead everyone to move the company. And the Zhou family's Righteous family style must have other tenacity. And the Zhou family style, a young man can find the Zhou family style outside, and in the zhou family construction, the Zhou family can have his tenacity. And the Zhou family style, the Zhou family can be outside, and the Zhou family can find his strong big family style. There are other people around.
On the other hand, other families: National Day families like to complain, so the family is uneasy, husbands and daughters-in-law are frozen to death in the cold winter, and grandchildren are not admitted to college. Chun Yan's family, heart, love to calculate, and finally despised by a group of old friends, and there is also a farce of running away from home after the child fails the exam. On the road to turning over, the family style is correct, and the children and grandchildren are prosperous; the family style is not correct, and disasters are bound to exist.
Therefore, we should pay attention to the impact of our words and deeds on our children and set a good example for our children. No matter how incorrect the family style is, no matter how much education is in vain.
A good mother can prosper for three generations. The Zhou family has two good mothers: Mother Zhou and daughter-in-law Zheng Juan. In the first half of the plot, Zhou's mother, who stays at home, can be called the soul of the Zhou family. The children's letters, telegrams, and Zhou's father's recent developments were all strung together through her. Her love and expectations were pinned in letters. Zhou Rong only mentioned once that she wanted a red sweater, and Zhou's mother would knit one for her every year. Although the family was different, deep family feelings always surrounded her heart. Zhou's siblings, husband and wife, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have almost no red faces. It was his mother who taught them love and warmth.
Mother's influence: A family, even if it is poor on all sides, as long as there is an honest, hardworking, kind, optimistic mother, such a family is the temple and source of spiritual growth. Mother Zhou is the best commentary on this passage. In her later years, Zhou's mother would be confused from time to time due to the sequelae of cerebral thrombosis. The mother-in-law was unconscious on the bed, and it was her meticulous care that made the Zhou family brothers and sisters work outside without distraction, and their hands were tired and deformed. The whole family eats and drinks Lasa, and the children's learning supervision is also made by herself, which can be called the co-mother of the third generation of the Zhou family.
Bingkun 8 years of prison disaster, the family suddenly lost the backbone, she once again provoked the beam, by selling popsicles, sweet potatoes, buns to support the family, to ensure that the sky does not collapse, the family is not scattered, the children are at ease to learn. Bingkun's spirit was weak after she was released from prison, and it was also her who brought supper and wine in the middle of the night to enlighten her little, giving her husband the courage to make a comeback. Mother is the most powerful name. Half of the glory of a family is attributed to those who work outside, and the other half is attributed to the mother who takes care of the old and the young at home. They do the most humble work, but they play the most powerful logistical support role.
It is said that a successful man has a great woman behind him, then a great woman is the glory of a family, and half of the credit is attributed to the people who work outside, and the other half is attributed to the parents at home. Even worse than the neighbors, the parents still take care of one or two when they are sick. Also promising is her daughter Zhou Rong, a talented woman from peking university's Chinese department and the youngest professor, but she not only did not take care of her parents, but also brought a lot of trouble to the whole family.
Excellent children, the bigger the world, the farther away, may not see their parents several times a year. On the other hand, the younger son, Bingkun, although he did not have any great achievements, he could fulfill his filial piety in front of his parents. Two years after their mother's cerebral thrombosis coma, Bingkun and Zheng Juan dressed and fed their mother, wiped the urine with their, and snatched their mother back from death. When his father was sick, Bingkun was also sent to the hospital for the first time, and when his father was thirsty, hungry, and wanted to smoke, he saddled up and waited. Even the mother who was confused from time to time knew that Bingkun was stronger than his brother and sister, and he was at home and had a solid heart.
Think of a principal's screen brush remarks ordinary children to repay the grace of their parents, they can often accompany their parents. Take your parents to eat beef noodles today, and seafood with your parents tomorrow, so that your parents can enjoy their old age in peace. Excellent children will study in the United States, the United Kingdom, and Canada in the future. So, please cherish ordinary children.! Although the children around them are ordinary, they can bring down-to-earth happiness to their parents.
The closer a person is, the better they speak. The most striking scene in the world is Bingkun arguing with his father. This is because my brothers and sisters were admitted to Peking University and went home together to celebrate the New Year. Two of their college students showed up across the area, so my father was very proud and went out with his three children to celebrate the New Year with the villagers. By the way, he showed off a bit. How smart the older brothers and sisters were, how depressed the ordinary Bingkun was. Not only did his own father not take care of his emotions, but he also gave him an explosive admonition at the station where people came and went: Your brother and sister have learned well since childhood, what about you? Your grades are always counting down and there is no housework dragging you down, can you be admitted? At this moment, Bingkun's dignity was completely torn apart. His face was filled with shock, anger, grievance, disappointment and disbelief! Not going to college was a fact, but it was sad to have no father's wounds to pour salt. He was so angry that he ignored his father for many years, and he didn't even tell his father about the move.
Years later, after the heartbroken old father found out the reason, he cried and scolded and apologized to Bingkun. You love your child, but you seem to blame your child. That's how many parents speak, and many viewers call it too real. To be fair, Father Zhou was already a father with a pattern in that era. He also repeatedly praised Bingkun as the most satisfied of the three children, which is a completely avoidable misunderstanding. Seeing Bingkun's emotions, he was angry, and he was angry when he quarreled. In any case, the closer people are, the more they understand your pain points, so the easier it is to say the most stinging words, say what is ugly, and poke what hurts.
Home is a haven of love, and the best emotions should be reserved for those closest to us, such as parents, such as children. The closer people are, the easier it is to have something to say. No matter how hard you are, you should take your child with you. The Zhou family is probably the least pleasing descendant. The family is a harbor of love, and the best emotions should be left to relatives, such as parents, such as children. She is capricious, selfish, kind, rebellious, and never thinks about herself. Many viewers could not help but sigh, how did the loyal and benevolent Zhou family give birth to such a strange fetus? Looking back at her upbringing, you'll see that she was actually a poor child too. When she was a child, her parents were inconvenient to take care of her. She grew up with her uncle and aunt until she was 16 until her uncle could no longer live at home.
She vowed that she would have a child in the future, and no matter how difficult it was, she would bring the child with her. Although her own uncle and aunt had never treated her badly, her parents were not around, and she always had a feeling of inferiority. She always felt that she was just the nominal child of her parents and had no family feelings. So she didn't care what her mother said and didn't accept the constraints. So later, when she was a man in her 50s, she didn't care if her parents were hurt or not.
Educator Charlotte Mason says: "Many parents are always busy all day and never have time to take care of their children. When they finally want to take good care of their children one day, they find that they can't communicate with their children and their parents have become insignificant to their children. Parents are just having children, and it is dereliction of duty to raise them or raise them. Psychologists believe that if a child has a significant period of separation from his parents, it will cause trauma between parents and children, resulting in low self-esteem, no sense of belonging, emotional vulnerability, and difficulty in establishing trusting relationships with others.
Before the age of 7 is a critical period for children's character development and emotional development, which almost forms the basis of children's mental health. Parents who are absent from their children's growth not only lose their children's childhood, but also lose their children's intimate relationship with you, their children's mental health and personality health. So, no matter how hard it is, please take your child with you. Because the companionship of parents has a validity period, missing this period is difficult to make up for later.
The price of not reading should be paid for a lifetime. The most embarrassing character in the world is Bing Kun and his friend Six Gentlemen. The starting point of the six gentlemen is the same, they are all ordinary workers. The only difference is that Lü Chuan and Xiangyang love to learn and were admitted to the university after the policy was improved. After graduation, Lü Chuan entered his official career and rose all the way to the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection. Xiangyang has become an engineer with an annual income of hundreds of thousands of yuan. At this point, their views and patterns are different from those of the four old friends, but they also have their own different social circles. They either did not attend the gathering of the six gentlemen or were reluctant to join, but there was no common language.
The diploma is just a thin piece of paper, but it can draw a deep gap, open the gap between people, this is the power of knowledge, which is the power to catch up with the era of half a lifetime that is not easy to eliminate. So you have to tell your child not to suffer the effects of education. So change your destiny. The fate of this life.
At the beginning, we mentioned, why only the Zhou family stands out in the poor light character film? Everything has a causal relationship, and the answer is obvious: it lies in the simple and kind family style of the Zhou family; in the warm and tenacious love of the mother; in the concern of parents and siblings for the family; in the reading and enterprising of a lifetime.
Writer Deborattana says a good family should not only create his world for the children, but also tell them how to interpret it warmly. The world's 50-year history of life changes tells us that the fate of life stems from the family from which we were born; the future of children is hidden in the words and deeds of parents. What we have to do is the right family style, respect for parents, love for children, and pass on the virtues of warmth, kindness, and positivity from generation to generation. We want our children to become heroes in ordinary life, affectionate, righteous, responsible, and responsible.