The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
Time, for anyone, is fair, and its most direct embodiment is that the hands on the clock pass by second by second.
The changes brought by time to people cannot be ignored, a person's outlook on life, values and love, will undergo some changes with the passage of time, of course, the change, far more than this.
40 years old, whether for men or women, is a hurdle, after the age of 40, if you can not get on the right track, did not start a family, marry and have children, unless there is a special opportunity in the future, otherwise this life, it will be so over.
Even a 40-year-old man with a happy family often falls into a state of sullenness because of the triviality of his family.
It can be said that 40-year-old people are not easy.
However, after a man turns 40, special attention needs to be paid to staying away from these three kinds of women, whether married or unmarried, otherwise they will become extremely unhappy in their later years.
1. A woman who cheats in marriage
A 40-year-old man, married or unmarried, has ever met a woman who has offered you affection and she already has a family, the best way is not to get entangled with her.
Not all women's marriages come from their original intentions, and in the beginning, they may be forced to marry men for many reasons, but with the subsequent interactions with her husbands, she gradually found that this marriage had no value for her. Of course, this is only a situation, and there is another situation, the woman herself does not have such a lofty sense of identification with love, cheating, for them, is a very common thing.
But whatever the reason, it's not right for a married woman to choose to cheat in marriage.
There has never been a free lunch in the world, choose to associate with this kind of woman, even if the man thinks that he has a future with her, but how can a man guarantee that in the future life, she will not betray herself like this betrayal of her husband? This is something that no one can predict.
2, love vanity of the woman
It is undeniable that for the vast majority of women, they have a certain vanity, but these vanities are big and small, some women can control, between reality and vanity, she knows how to choose.
However, in today's life, there are some women who are vanity addicted, and their monthly income is not enough to support her consumption level, but she is willing to overdraft all her credit cards to live the life she wants, and she will also care about the views of people around her, for the so-called face, the so-called scenery for a while, willing to overdraft all of her own.
If a man is willing to be with a woman who loves vanity, almost all the costs of interacting with her in the future will fall on men, because she is accustomed to a life of extravagance, it is difficult for her to change her attitude towards life, the only result is that in the long run, men are not enough to afford the high costs of vanity women, not only so long to pay this, even the minimum love, can not be retained.
3. Three women with different views
Love is dependent on fate, but the key to its longevity lies in whether the three views of the two people coincide.
In the past experience of life, everyone will form their own unique three views, for a certain thing, have their own special views, if the two people in the usual time together, found that for some things, have the same opinion or the same way to deal with, and even have a tacit understanding in it.
We can say that the three views between these two people are very similar, and it is also conducive to subsequent exchanges.
In this world, it is not easy to find a person who is in line with his three views and has a very tacit understanding, and when he encounters it, he should cherish it.
However, if the other party and their own three views are not so consistent, or even have diametrically opposed views, then, if you do not violate the three views according to common sense, and reluctantly put them together with the pair, the result will inevitably be in the future getting along, encounter great setbacks and tribulations, especially for 40-year-old men, it is difficult to be happy in their old age!
Conclusion: Men are no longer young at 40 years old, and there is almost no spare time for themselves to squander, so after meeting these three types of women, the best way is to be willing, never to entangle with them, otherwise in old age, you will not be happy.