One parent shared with me a problem:
No matter what his son does, he is like a "turtle crawling", very slow. For example, when doing homework, he always looks east and west, and it takes him more than an hour to complete the homework that could be completed in half an hour. brushing his teeth and washing his face in the morning, he could do it in 10 minutes, but he had to grind for 20 minutes, making the bathroom full of water and delaying breakfast. Every time he goes to school, he is slow, and he will hurry up unless I urge him loudly. I'm worried, if he goes on like this, what will he do when he grows up?
Indeed, there are really a lot of such "little friction" boys in life. Not only do they annoy themselves and their parents, but they also often interfere with normal learning and life. Why are they so slow to do things? In fact, the main reason is that they are young, and they have not felt the urgency of time, and they feel that time will never run out, so they don't care about wasting it.
In the family, we often see such a scene: the boy is doing things slowly, and the parents are constantly shouting "hurry, hurry!" in the back. But no matter how much you shout, it's useless, the boy is still slow, which makes his parents have a headache. So what should parents do in the face of this situation? Here are a few suggestions:
Tips for young parents
Method 1: Teach children to recognize time and cultivate the concept of time
Dongdong is 7 years old, and his parents found out that he was slow to do anything. Brush his teeth and call him 5 times, he is still playing with the toothpaste cover, wash his feet in 5 minutes, he can wash for half an hour, he can squat for a long time when he goes to the toilet, let alone take a bath, he won't come out when he shouts him. As a result, homework is always delayed until bedtime before it is completed in a hurry.
In fact, Dongdong is like this because he is still young and does not understand the preciousness of time. We can tell him some stories about scientists cherishing time, so that he can understand the meaning of time. You can also write time-related aphorisms on paper and stick them on the wall to remind him at all times.
Method 2: Make a schedule and learn to manage your time
Qi Qi is also a child who loves to grind, and is often criticized by parents and teachers for being late. Actually, it's because he has no concept of time. We can work with him to make a schedule of what to do during the day, when to get up, eat, wash, play, etc. In this way, he will be able to do things according to the schedule and slowly get rid of the habit of grinding.
Method 3: Find a competition opponent and develop a sense of competition
Zhuang Zhuang is always slow to write his homework, and he has to write for a long time every night. To get him fast, I started a game at home. For example, I compete with him to see who can write faster, and he and his friends compete to see who can dress faster and brush their teeth faster. In this way, he is more interested in doing things and faster.
In fact, the friction of children is related to personality. We can take our children to participate in more competitions or timed activities, such as timed reading, timed answering, etc. This will not only get rid of the habit of grinding, but also exercise the child's mind and improve his sensitivity.
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