When my colleague was pregnant, shampoo, toothpaste, and toothbrush were replaced with pregnant women' special ones. I and others listened and thought it was too much of an exaggeration. But when I actually got pregnant with the child and became popular in the first trimester, I finally understood her.
Colleagues miscarried the first fetus when they were 5 months pregnant, and then they have not been pregnant, went to the hospital for examination, found that the fallopian tubes were blocked on the one hand, and there was inflammation on the other, so they first prescribed some traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning.
Fortunately, Chinese medicine worked on her, or she had good luck, and it wasn't long before she became pregnant.
3 months before she became pregnant, she took sick leave to rest at home. In April, she came to work, and the leaders and other colleagues still took care of her and assigned some relatively easy work to her.
She asked colleagues who had just given birth to advice on precautions during pregnancy, but everyone basically lived and worked normally, even if they were pregnant, there was not much difference, so there was no good advice and guidance for her.
She was a little surprised: "I changed the shower gel, facial cleanser, lotion, and toner to the special brand for pregnant women, even shampoo, toothpaste, and toothbrush, I changed to the special model for pregnant women." ”
People don't quite understand: "Not so exaggerated, right?" ”
She also did not understand: "Some of these daily chemicals are too high in lead, and some contain too much mercury. It doesn't matter to ordinary people, but pregnant women still try to use pure natural extracts to be better! ”
We just laughed and didn't say anything.
At that time, I didn't have children, and I couldn't understand her nervousness, only if she was in good condition at home, and she had money to squander!
But when I also experienced a difficult pregnancy preparation, after the test tubes pregnant with a pair of twins, I also changed the water, milk, oil at home to the pregnant women's special model, I asked her what brand is good, and has been using the "October Angel" maternity skin care kit recommended by her.
I chose the blue water lily basic moisturizing and hydrating model, no alcohol, no hormones, no mineral oil, no formaldehyde releaser, no salicylic acid, no nonylphenol, no triethanolamine, no fluorescent brightener, these eight additive-free let me feel good and comfortable, I really dare not take any risks, but I can't clean up and dress up at all, I can't do it.
In fact, mothers who have experienced difficult pregnancy preparation, biochemistry, miscarriage, and premature birth can understand the "glass heart" of some pregnant mothers, not that they are not brave enough, but they want to give the best protection to the baby in their stomachs.
Every pregnant mother is a great mother, it is worth being nice to yourself, don't be reluctant to buy yourself something good during pregnancy under the conditions of your family's economic permission.
And each of us, for this "sensitive" type of pregnant woman, also more tolerant!
Maybe she is afraid of radiation when she uses the microwave oven, so she asks you to help remove the lunch box;
Maybe she will make you feel exaggerated and nervous to cry and scream because of a little thing;
Maybe she said" I'm pregnant, I'm running late, let me get on the elevator first";
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Although we are not her husbands, we can help as much as we can! Because you may one day understand them as well as I do, or you may want someone to treat your pregnant wife kindly, even if the wife is not someone else's relative or friend.
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