With the progress of society, the thinking of most parents is also progressing. Most people agree that it is necessary to pay attention to making children understand gender differences from an early age, and the earlier the education of children, the more conducive to the healthy growth of children. However, there will still be some parents who do not think so, think that children are still young, they do not understand and do not need any "gender differences".
So, in public, these parents leading their children may do something unacceptable.
Bao Mom took her 6-year-old son into the women's locker room, and the post-90s girls were mad on the spot
Ms. Lin is the mother of a six-year-old child whose child is a boy. The husband is busy working in the field, the son can be said to be pulled by her hand, no one helps her with the child, naturally wherever she goes, she will take her baby son.
However, as the children grew older, Ms. Lin did not realize that she should give her children universal sex education and understand that "there is a difference between men and women". Once, when Ms. Lin took her child to the water park to play, when she went to the locker room to change her swimsuit before going into the water, Ms. Lin ignored the words on the sign at the entrance of the locker room: Please do not bring the opposite sex over three years old into the women's locker room.
She felt that her son was still young, did not understand the difference between men and women, and it was okay to bring her in, saving her from changing clothes and getting lost at this time. It's a public dressing room with no cubicles.
When the children came in, they were curious to look around, and the female tourists who were changing clothes next to them accelerated their speed to change out, and one of the post-90s girls was furious on the spot: "This mother, are you illiterate?" Still didn't see the words on the door? "
Ms. Lin said frankly: "I see, but my child is only six years old, I can't see you or anything, just a child, what does it matter..." Bao Ma's speech made everyone choke...
Children have developed sexual consciousness from the age of three, and it is not advisable for mothers to do it.
Whether it is bringing female dolls into the men's locker room or male dolls into the women's locker room, if the doll is more than three years old, it is a very inappropriate practice. Otherwise, there will be no "warm tips" posted on the door of the locker room.
However, there are still many stubborn parents who disagree, which is a very wrong idea. "The child is still young, where do you understand something" is not a grand reason to bring a child of the opposite sex into the locker room.
This practice is not only not conducive to the cultivation of children's sexual consciousness, but also disrespectful to others. Ask, who wants to be seen by a member of the opposite sex in the locker room, even if the other person is just a child.
Therefore, from the age of three, parents should no longer take them to areas such as public toilets and public locker rooms of the opposite sex, because children already have a certain sexual awareness, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children and disrespect for others.
So, what do parents do when they're out with their kids and want to try on clothes or go to the bathroom?
Ask the clerk to help look after the children. In large shopping malls, the safety factor is always relatively high. At this time, when Bao Mom wants to go to the public fitting room to try on clothes, she can ask the clerk to help take care of the child. The staff in the big shopping mall will not be traffickers after all, so that the mother can not only try on clothes, but also avoid taking her son into the women's locker room to be "scolded".
Seek help from friends of the opposite sex. If the mother wants to go to the toilet when she takes her son out, the mother can ask a male friend to take him in. Bao Mom waits at the door of the toilet waiting for her son to come out, which not only avoids the embarrassment of taking the child into the women's toilet, but also sets an example for the child to have a certain gender awareness.
"Children are still young and don't understand anything" should not be an obstacle for parents to educate their children's "gender awareness". Gender awareness should be cultivated from an early age, it is related to the healthy growth of children in the future, parents should put away the mentality of disapproval and pay attention to this time.
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