Recently, I thought that I could still update my tweets, it was not easy...
Why? Is there only Shenzhen left in the country, and school has not yet started?
Originally, the school was about to start on Monday, because of the repeated epidemics, as soon as the notice of the Education Bureau "temporarily not returning to school" was issued last week, my circle of friends exploded in an instant.
While wanting to cry, while looking at these pictures and can't help but laugh, talented, too talented:
Especially the Shenzhen Health Commission, this one, can no longer be imaged... I want to give it to the school, people - don't take it
Not only is the heart congested, it is not easy to wait for this week husband to have a holiday, we have long been planning, just the children also started school, we went out to play for a few days, I just had activities to go to Xiamen on the weekend, you can go all the way to that side to eat and eat...
Then not only can the children not open school, we have to do nucleic acid every day not to let go out of Shenzhen casually, even the weather comes to join in the fun, the whole Of Guangdong ushered in the coldest winter;
Looking at the country, there is almost no bright sunshine, and this really can only be squatted at home.
From the beginning of school to the inability to open school, from being able to go out to playing to not being able to go out, the greater the gap between reality and ideals, the more depressed the mood.
Then rest assured to be a good parent, Xiaoyezi's teacher sent a weekly home suggestion schedule, every morning, afternoon, evening, Chinese, mathematics, English, sports, the arrangement is particularly rich.
It's not particularly full, but if it's all done, it's obvious that the family has to be accompanied, reminded, corrected, grandparents generally don't undertake this function, I was thinking, fortunately, we are both at home this week, if this is a "double worker", how difficult it is.
I really have friends who have to take two children to work... alas......
Xiaoyezi's class also deliberately held an online communication meeting, parents and children participated together, and teachers from all subjects came to give the children more efforts and remind some precautions.
I didn't expect the highlight of the night to be at the psychology teacher...
She was smiling, dignified, and calmly saying, "The epidemic is repeated, children can't go to school, parents are inevitably anxious and irritable..." Only to see her baby (visually going to kindergarten) pounce on her, "Mom, Mom" called.
The teacher's expression instantly changed from smiling to not calm, why did the child come in? At first, she also tried to gently push the child away, trying to make a look at him with a mouth shape to tell him to leave, but the child screamed even louder...
Then – the teacher was forced to go offline.
Hahahahaha, it's so realistic, I don't laugh rudely...
Compared with the previous pure "don't worry", this is more real and more powerful.
The psychology teacher is also a mother, and will also be disturbed by the child while working, if we are annoyed by the child and angry, how normal, haha.
The courage to be and present a true and complete person requires more courage and strength than becoming a good and perfect "dummy". Achievements are admirable, but fragility creates connections :)
The weather is not good, the next few days, our family of 6 almost every day tired of together, I did not go to the studio, it is another Spring Festival feeling.
I am reminded of an article written by my good friend Xiao Bottle in Hong Kong, where thousands of people have been diagnosed every day recently, and she, her family and children are confined to their homes.
Faced with the overwhelming uncertainty, she connected to the story prototype Chris when happiness came knocking. Ghana had a conversation with her at an event.
"He said that when he was young, he wandered around with his children, and when the children grew up, I asked the children, but he didn't think those years were bitter, because I was always with him."
Yes, children do not go to school, I can be at home, my husband just happens to be on vacation, think about it, so many people in our family can get tired of being together, in addition to the Spring Festival, long holidays, there are really not many.
At best, this is also a "stolen holiday". Isn't this kind of happiness when children can be greasy and crooked?
Moreover, we can also be more "flexible":
Usually considering the child's vision, the family is not how to open the TV, these years, the TV seems to be more of a decoration, grandparents have what is used to looking at their mobile phones, the whole family almost did not get together for a long time to watch a drama or something.
But in the past few days, we have brushed together - "The World of Man", followed by crying, followed by laughter.
The family is a northeasterner, watching this drama I keep counting which year I am negative, how old am I, and the in-laws discuss the years they experienced, remembering the individual fate of relatives in the family under the times, and the husband also interjected a few mouths from time to time ——
The children, just in the living room running and jumping, occasionally glancing at a few eyes, when we need us, my husband and I tacitly, the priority of the elderly can always watch the drama, we take turns to accompany the school, or stretch an arm they will automatically play with the gopher
- It's also a connection.
As Zheng Juan said, "A child's life is a lifetime, so our life is not a lifetime?" ”
Although there are many things that can't be done in school during the epidemic, it is not necessarily the only choice to go around the child.
What matters is one moment after another.
Trying to take care of yourself is the premise that the whole family can "connect" together, with the connection, the work is nothing to delay, the work progress is not nothing, it is not a catastrophic consequence, and there is energy to make up for it.
Don't we also expand our skills? At the time when all the children in the country are starting school, Shenzhen mothers, you are very good!
Let's cheer together! I also hope that the mountains and rivers will be unharmed, the epidemic will pass as soon as possible, and everyone will be safe and secure.
Without further ado, I went to stab my throat
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Author: Gigi. Co-founder of WeChat public account "Slow Growth", Erbao Mama, a registered positive correctional parent/school lecturer in the United States, a former senior media person in Hong Kong, currently lives in Shenzhen. The pursuit of fine water and long flow, but also love to be brave and hardworking, love to sing, love life, love self-management, and are willing to grow up slowly with the baby.
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