Brother Coat, a few years ago in CCTV's "Walk of Fame", with his high-pitched voice and simple appearance, won the love of the audience, and thus completed the counterattack of grassroots life.
He also achieved a gorgeous transformation from an annual income of 5,000 yuan to an annual income of 16 million yuan, becoming a remarkable grassroots star.
However, the rapid income of money did not change the fate of his sons and daughters, but instead took a sharp turn.
1. How much has the education of Brother Coat failed?
Brother Coat, borrowing a rolling Song of the Yangtze River, has spread red all over the country and become an inspirational example for all of China to follow. However, compared with his own experience, his education style is often used as a negative teaching material.
After becoming famous, the coat brother never forgot his original intention, donated funds to build roads for the village, and did a lot of good things. However, it is such an "old good man", netizens can not imagine that he has raised a pair of children into "waste wood".
In the Zhu family, what is poor is not education itself, but the education of children's thoughts; what is rich is not the child itself, but money that loses the child's self-motivation.
Brother Coat's daughter, from a skinny little girl when she was a child, grew to more than 200 pounds, and after junior high school, she did not continue to study.
Shangwei School is troublesome, work is too little money, so at a young age at home as a "nibbling old man": every day online shopping, overeating, in addition, is to shoot the father, to get a certain amount of traffic, but also by the way to make some money, the name of the job.
The good youth, which she used to squander, was like "nibbling on the old", and treated her father as a cash cow, how sad.
Zhu Danwei, the son of Brother Coat, has been addicted to online games for many years and has completely lost interest in learning, so he dropped out of school early.
As he grew older, Zhu Danwei was not able to stand alone, and eating and drinking Lasa was all paid for by his father.
This "giant baby" who did not grow up also got a "beautiful" family affair because of his father's "fame", and his wife was a beautiful, capable, and shrewd Chen Yanan.
Therefore, at the age of 19, he entered the palace of marriage early. But throughout, he failed to understand what marriage meant.
With the prosperity of his wife Chen Yanan's live streaming business, the Zhu family can only become a silent man behind his wife, and it is difficult to even say a smooth word in the live broadcast room.
And Obviously, his wife Chen Yanan is only two years older than him, married for a year, one is growing rapidly, and the other seems to be staying in place.
Eventually, the marriage lit up with a red light. As a result, the follow-up estimate still needs brother Coat to come forward to cover for his son.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them.
Don't let too much coddling and everything, let the child become delicious and lazy, sit back and enjoy it, become an emotional "parasite", a "giant baby" in life!
2, parents know how to let go, is the best love for children In the book "Gardener and Carpenter", it is said that loving children is not to give them a destination, but to provide for their journey.
Every child is an independent individual, and for children, the parents' letting go is actually a kind of fulfillment and respect.
So parents who truly love their children are not tied to their own side, but at the right stage, let go and withdraw from their lives in a decent way.
And most importantly, before that, let the child really grow up. Only the right education can shape outstanding children.
Whether they are poor or not, parents should attach importance to the "richness" of their children's spiritual world, and pay attention to the guidance and education of their hearts.
Read thousands of books, travel thousands of miles. During the period of children's schooling age, do your best to provide children with learning opportunities, opportunities to broaden their horizons, and opportunities to improve themselves, so that children know what is the dream they will pursue and what is the way to realize their self-worth.
Teaching children what to "do" is the most "affluent" way of education than to provide them with something, rather than unlimited bottoming and coddling.
Appropriate children to suffer hardships can not only make them understand the hardships of life and the hardships of parents, but also exercise their ability to resist setbacks, so that the child's personality will be more complete and the heart will be stronger.
Loving children is not to plan a good life route for them, but to love and accompany them again, to give children enough nourishment when they grow up, and carefully care for them to grow up.
Every child has a flowering period. What we have to do is to wait for the flowers to bloom, so that the children can grow up independently and be better themselves.