In Zhu Zhiwen's family, there is a kind of wisdom: "Seven points of wisdom, three points of blankness". This is not only a proverb, but also an attitude towards his children's education. He understands that parents should not give all their wisdom and resources to each other, but should give their children enough space to explore and grow.
Zhu Zhiwen, a singer who came out of the countryside, has become a nationally famous "coat brother" with his talent and hard work. However, as his fame grew, he realized that fame and fortune also had a potential impact on his children's upbringing.
His son Zhu Xiaowei, under his father's fame, started the journey of "blind date" early. His marriage seems to have become a deal of anticipation and pressure rather than a union based on true love. And her daughter Zhu Xuemei, although she lives under the protection of her father, her life is not as carefree as the outside world imagines.
Zhu Zhiwen knows that true happiness does not come from the praise and material conditions of the outside world, but from inner satisfaction and growth. As a result, he began to reflect on his role and responsibilities as a father. He understood that instead of paving all the paths for his children, it was better to teach them how to walk on their own.
As a result, he began to pay more attention to the education and growth of his children. He encouraged Zhu Xiaowei to pursue his dreams rather than just settle for the status quo. He supports Zhu Xuemei to pursue her interests and hobbies, not just to cater to the expectations of the outside world.
Under the guidance of Zhu Zhiwen, Zhu Xiaowei and Zhu Xuemei gradually found their own direction and goal. They begin to face life more independently and confidently. And Zhu Zhiwen also understood a truth: as parents, true love is not to give everything, but to teach them how to become a better version of themselves.
"Seven points of wisdom, three points of blankness". This proverb applies not only to Zhu Zhiwen's family education, but also to each and every one of us. On the road of life, we all need to learn to leave enough space for ourselves and others to explore and grow. Because only in this way can we become a better version of ourselves.