The prologue was revealed: Less than a year after the marriage, the daughter-in-law Chen Meng was deeply troubled and angrily accused her husband Zhu Danwei of gnawing at the old and incompetent! The prospects for marriage are bleak
In the middle of the night, the room was silent, except for the loud cry of a newborn born that pierced the silence of the night sky from time to time. Chen Meng hugged the twin daughters in her arms tightly, and gently whispered to help her sleep peacefully.
Although there was a deep tiredness in her eyes, there was still a helplessness and anxiety that could not be concealed.
Staring at the innocent sleeping faces of the children, Chen Meng had mixed feelings in his heart. She picked up her phone and posted a long, emotional post on social media: "Your sentence 'Seeing this food has no appetite, will you cook at all?'" 'Leave me speechless.
Chen Meng sighed, and then wrote: "Although I have a worry-free life after marrying into the Zhu family, Zhu Danwei has nothing to do all day long, and he is always critical of my hard work, which is really disappointing.
This sincere outpouring of feelings made people deeply worried about the marriage prospects of Chen Meng and her husband Zhu Danwei. After less than a year of marriage, there seems to be an irreparable rift between the two.
Will Zhu Danwei repeat the mistakes of the past and divorce again and become a lonely bachelor? Chen Meng's anxiety makes us full of worries about the future of the newlyweds.
Chapter 2: Exploring the Roots of Zhu Danwei's Gnawing on Old Age
If you want to understand Zhu Danwei's idleness now, you must go back to his growth process. Zhu Danwei, as the only son of a farmer-born coat brother, should study hard under the ardent expectations of his parents.
However, fate opened another door to the unknown for him when he was 14 years old. Zhu Zhiwen became a sensation with his unique voice, and his family's wealth skyrocketed instantly.
As an only son, Zhu Danwei has a stable source of income since then, and he no longer has to work hard for his livelihood.
At a young and ignorant age, he quickly saw the shortcut to life: relying on his father's wealth, he could live a carefree and hedonistic life. Therefore, Zhu Danwei resolutely gave up his studies and spent his days idle, indulging in eating, drinking and having fun.
In this way, Zhu Danwei has developed a lingering vice since he was 14 years old. Having lost the shackles of learning, he spends his days doing nothing, eating, drinking, and having fun, but he knows nothing about future survival skills.
Inadvertently, his figure increased suddenly like a balloon, and even his basic self-care ability quietly deteriorated, as if he had become a "gnawing old man" who relied on his parents to live.
3. The cause of the divorce of his first wife, Chen Yanan.
Zhu Danwei's tragic marriage experience is inextricably linked to his long-term lifestyle of gnawing at the elderly. In 2021, his divorce from his first wife, Chen Yanan, aroused widespread attention from all walks of life and caused an uproar.
Chen Yanan was originally just an ordinary nurse, and her original intention of marrying the Zhu family is still an unsolved mystery. Some people speculate that she is out of utilitarianism, trying to use Brother Dayi's reputation to hype herself, so as to achieve financial freedom; Some people also think that she is sincerely in love with Zhu Danwei.
However, whatever the motives, the reality of life after marriage ruthlessly shattered her beautiful dreams.
Zhu Danwei is idle all day long, and he doesn't know anything about housework. As a working woman, Chen Yanan needs to go out to work every day to support her family; When she dragged her tired body home, she was greeted by a chaotic scene.
Zhu Danwei not only did not take on any housework responsibilities, but even relied on Chen Yanan's care for his daily diet.
What makes Chen Yanan feel most distressed is Zhu Danwei's lack of sense of responsibility and responsibility as a father. In the divorce live broadcast, she mercilessly accused: "Zhu Danwei has no survival skills at all, and he is not qualified to play the role of husband and father at all!" In the face of his wife's resolute attitude, Zhu Danwei was indifferent, and he had no intention of retaining her departure.
This farcical divorce turmoil undoubtedly hit Chen Yanan's soul hard. She defined Zhu Danwei as: "Except for gnawing at the old, nothing can be accomplished!" This is perhaps the truest feeling in her heart.
Fourth, the ideals and struggles of the second wife Chen Meng.
Chen Yanan's departure does not seem to have given Zhu Danwei enough vigilance. Soon after, Chen Meng became his second wife. is very different from her ex-wife, Chen Meng is a gentle and virtuous woman.
As a primary school teacher, Chen Meng has a calm and down-to-earth personality. Her feelings for Zhu Danwei are not a whim, but she has deep expectations, hoping to rely on her ingenuity and perseverance to reshape this "waste wood" into a man who stands up to the sky.
On the occasion of the wedding, Chen Meng poured 100% effort and enthusiasm. She not only went all out to take care of housework, but also treated Zhu Danwei's parents with thoughtful care, showing an outstanding virtuous and virtuous lady.
In order to help her husband regain her self-reliance, Chen Meng carefully formulated a highly targeted transformation plan.
The first is fitness and weight loss. Due to his long-term dependence on his parents, Zhu Danwei's weight has climbed to an astonishing 200 pounds, and his body is wrapped in layers of greasy fat. In order to change this situation, Chen Meng decisively applied for a membership card for him at the gym, and even hired a professional personal trainer for guidance.
Recalling Zhu Danwei's flushed face and engrossed figure in that video, people can't help but look forward to his rebirth.
The second is career planning. Chen Meng successfully helped Zhu Danwei find a job as a security guard at the local power supply bureau, and although the position was insignificant, he could still get a stable income of 3,000 yuan per month, which was undoubtedly a new start for him who had nothing to do all day long.
In addition, Chen Meng also carefully taught Zhu Danwei to master driving skills. When he was by Chen Yanan's side, Zhu Danwei didn't even get a driver's license, so he could only rely on electric bicycles to wander around.
Now, at least he can drive to and from work independently.
After Chen Meng's unremitting efforts, Zhu Danwei's life seems to be gradually returning to the right track. However, the good times were short-lived, and old habits were hard to break, and he soon fell back into the lazy state of his past.
Fifth, Chen Meng's disappointment and helplessness in the current situation
Just when Chen Meng confidently thought that Zhu Danwei was about to open a new chapter in her life, the reality hit her hard. Old habits are difficult to change, and Zhu Danwei quickly returned to his old habits.
At work, Zhu Danwei behaved listlessly, satisfied with the meager security salary, and even with two lovely twin babies added to the family, he had no intention of creating more wealth for the family.
The day-to-day work is perfunctory, and he doesn't care about whether he can do his duty.
In daily life, Zhu Danwei still doesn't know anything. Chen Meng worked hard to cook a table of delicious dishes, but he scoffed at them and mocked: "It seems that you have no appetite, do you know how to cook?" As an adult, it is really sad to despise his wife's hard work so much.
The deplorable fact is that whenever night falls, Zhu Danwei's resounding snoring echoes in the room like thunder. Although Chen Meng had tirelessly reminded him many times, expecting him to develop some basic hygiene habits, he had little effect.
In desperation, Chen Meng had no choice but to endure the pain alone, and resolutely chose to sleep separately from Zhu Danwei to ensure that he and his children could be protected from it.
The happiness index of a family often depends to a large extent on the sense of responsibility and commitment of the male members. However, in addition to being able to speak well, Zhu Danwei's performance in all other aspects is really suffocating.
Not only did he know nothing about housework, but he also seemed to be unable to take care of his children, and almost all the responsibilities and pressures were thrown to Chen Meng alone.
Whenever he saw Zhu Danwei wasting his time, Chen Meng would always feel an indescribable chill in his heart. She once regarded Zhu Danwei as her future dependence with great expectations, expecting him to truly grow into a responsible husband and father, but the cruel reality ruthlessly shattered her dreams.
Sometimes, Chen Meng can't help but reflect on what reason she chose to marry such a "unproductive" man in the first place.