Zhu Zhiwen, the coat brother, used to be just an ordinary farmer, like most people in the village, working at sunrise and resting at sunset. But fate played tricks on people, and he was discovered his "talent", and overnight, from a nobody in the village, he became a high-profile Internet celebrity across the country. His fame is louder than the hammer of the blacksmith's shop, and more fragrant than the abundant harvest of the village.
However, although the value of coat brother Zhu Zhiwen has risen, he has never been able to let go of his concern for his children. Some people say that he is a typical "reluctant to let go" father, who dotes on his children and blindly wants to give them the best of everything. However, this seemingly loving act has put his children in a difficult situation.
Zhu Xiaowei's married life is like a TV series, but unfortunately, this is not a happy plot, but more like a tragedy. He has been divorced more times than he can count, and each time it ends like a farce, ridiculous and pathetic. His wives either disliked him for being unproductive, or thought he was too wooden, or a stupid son of a landlord. In short, the reasons are different, but the ending is the same: they go their separate ways and go their separate ways. However, with his current wife giving birth to a child for him, it will be interesting to see if this is his final destination.
And Zhu Xuemei, the daughter of Brother Dayi, was not spared the disaster. For her happiness, her father did not hesitate to spend 5 million as a dowry. But she was exposed by a blogger named "Lei Lei Good Things Selection", saying that she was cheated of a bride price of 5 million.
Whether it's true or not, it sounds like a cheating plot from a movie, but it's a real-life scene. In order to find a satisfactory partner, Zhu Xuemei tried her best to lose weight, but in exchange for nothing. Her repeated disappointments, if it is true, make people mourn for her.
These unfortunate encounters make people begin to doubt the education method of Zhu Zhiwen, the coat brother, whose excessive interference with his children seems to have made them lose the ability to think independently and cope with the difficulties of life. Perhaps, this is the reason why parents should not be exhaustive, they should let their children learn to be independent, rather than blindly solving problems for them.
The coat brother Zhu Zhiwen can be said to be a red-eyed father, and he always seems to want to give all the benefits to his children. His educational philosophy may be said to be "extravagant and wasteful", after all, in his eyes, as long as it is good for the child, it is worth doing, even if it is to put the family property on it.
However, this excessive love can have a negative impact on children. Brother Dayi's children, although they are very comfortable materially, may not be happy in their hearts. Because they have not learned how to face the difficulties of life since they were young, everything is arranged for them by their father, and they will not even make a simple decision, let alone face all kinds of trivial things in life.
Brother Zhu Zhiwen of the coat should probably stop and reflect on his behavior. His excessive focus on his children's marriage and life may bring them more pain than happiness. Perhaps he should realize that his children do not need him to arrange everything for them, but need him to give them a space to develop freely, a chance to grow independently. Whether he is educating in the right way, whether it is really for the happiness of the child, or just for his own peace of mind.
As parents, do we also have a tendency to interfere too much in our children's lives? Do we really want to see our children as little birds trapped in a golden cage, unable to have even a shred of freedom?
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