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Men and women who are deeply in love are eager for two people to be together all the time, at that time, they only think about how to get closer to each other, and they have never thought of keeping a distance, otherwise it is easy to become tired and annoyed.
Especially for women, once they fall in love with a person, they will completely put their minds on each other, be willing to change themselves for the sake of each other, completely become the other half who fits him, and even forget themselves.
When you are immersed in love, you do not realize the arrival of a crisis. I have to wait until the man reveals his intention to dislike, until he feels annoyed with himself and can't help but want to distance himself, only to understand that he really can't love someone too full.
Love is like a spring, the greater the strength you use, the greater the harm brought to you by the final rebound, love a person, do not have to spend too much effort, the more you invest, the greater the final harm, the more you take love seriously, in the end the more people will be more painful, too close, the more will accelerate the demise of feelings.
Silly women will be 24 hours a day tired of each other, will be desperate to invest in it, only care about selfless pay, completely do not consider the skills and scale of love, smart women in addition to the heart to love, but also know how to properly integrate skills, the true heart and skills of the fusion, in order to make love more smooth and lasting.
"Broken connection" is an indispensable love skill for high-ranking women, of course, it is not used arbitrarily, and it is not to alienate each other regardless of the occasion and stage, the disconnection is the essence, learn to break the connection in this way, men will care more about you.
At the peak of your relationship, keep your distance appropriately and let the man be obsessed with you
Love in the beginning, often reached its peak, at that time to see the other person's eyes in the stars, think that he is good everywhere, even the biggest shortcomings will be ignored, the eyes see is completely perfect the other half.
At that time, they were still relatively unfamiliar with each other, there was a hazy sense of beauty, and the two people stayed together all the time, even if they did not speak, they would feel very beautiful.
When you first start to pursue a person, you still have to take the initiative, but also to maintain the density of high frequencies, if it is hot and cold to him or the connection between three and five, then it will only make the other party feel that you are not sincere.
At the beginning of love, disconnection is not advisable, two people need enough contact strength, need to free up their free time to give each other, in order to understand each other more, so that the heart is closer.
Only when the two of you have established a relationship and love you and me, at this time, you must properly withdraw from it, and you must not let yourself fall too much, even if you want to see him very much, you want to be tired of being with him, but also force yourself to keep a certain distance from him, allocate time reasonably, give your circle, to your family, rather than staying with him completely. The more you show a look that must be him, he will not care, only distance can produce beauty, but also can make him care about you.
Break up after a fight, make your position clear, and make the man aware of your attitude
No one stipulates that after the quarrel, a man must be coaxed, some girls will feel that no matter whether it is right or wrong, every time two people have an argument, they need a man to take the initiative to bow his head, in fact, this is a bit unreasonable.
In the relationship between men and women equal, but all of them are more concerned about this relationship, both men and women, should properly expose their weaknesses, if you always look high, every time you sit and wait for each other to humble and seek peace, it will only make the other party feel that you don't care about him, and it is easy for him to feel disgusted after a long time.
Adhering to the principle of who is wrong and who takes the initiative, many times the dispute in love is obviously right and wrong, and it is obvious that one party provoking an incident must know how to show weakness and take the initiative to bow down, in order to make each other's love last longer.
But if you meet a more macho man, if you encounter some problems that touch the principle, even if you care about each other, you must show your attitude, make your position clear, do not look weak and deceitful, and do not distinguish between black and white, it is easy to choose to forgive, that will only make others ignore your feelings.
This is a common disease of many women in love with brains, whether right or wrong, throwing themselves in a brain, putting themselves in a humble position, wagging their tails and begging for pity, looking like deep love, in the eyes of the other party is a existence that can be violated at will.
After the quarrel, it is time to break off the link, it is time to make a position clear, it is not ambiguous, it is better to miss than humble, this is the bottom line.
There is a trade-off between career and love, know which is more important, and men will appreciate you
They have all passed the age when love is bigger than the sky, and women must not live more and more backwards.
Sometimes I feel that maturity has nothing to do with age, some girls are around 20 years old and they are very clear about what they want, and some girls are still in their 30s, they are still a love brain, and they regard love as very important, a hundred times more important than anything.
Unable to distinguish the primary and secondary in life, mistakenly basing their lives on illusory love, and ignoring the fundamentals of living in the world, giving up their careers to pursue love, such people are undoubtedly too stupid and naïve.
When you are young, you will carefully consider the choice between love and bread, and after maturity, there is no such option at all, because love and bread will not be equated at all, no love can be, with bread can better survive, in order to meet better love.
Love and bread are not either/or, but a relationship that perfects each other, and must be a career better than love, a woman who values love more seriously, men will abandon you sooner or later, and a woman who can weigh up love and career, understand the importance of career, and shine in the professional field, men will appreciate you more,
Once the career is needed, let go of love and plunge into the career wholeheartedly, such a disconnection, men are very useful.
The disconnection should be stopped in moderation, and the initiative should also be taken when it is time to take the initiative
Women should value the importance of breaking the link, but also understand that it is appropriate to stop, the broken link is by no means to kick the nose on the face, and it should not become a chip to frequently test love, but to learn to break it, and to take the initiative, so that it can be regarded as mastering the highest point of the broken link.
Broken connection, definitely not hot and cold, not to say hello to disappear, but also absolutely not excessive use, at every turn to use the broken connection to test each other, really will make the man annoyed, even if he loves you again, he can not withstand such a temptation.
There is no ambiguity when it is time to pay, and it knows how to keep a distance for love, but the premise must be to give the other party absolute trust. Disconnection on the basis of trust is truly effective.