Pregnant mothers have to do a lot of large and small examinations during pregnancy, one of which is a special test that makes pregnant mothers feel frightened when they listen, that is, "yin super", in the eyes of pregnant mothers, the process of doing yin ultrasound itself is more frightening, even if it is a female doctor, it also makes people feel very helpless, not to mention the male doctor, which will make pregnant mothers feel uncomfortable.
Case: Male doctors should do "yin chao", pregnant women ask for substitutions, and the doctor's calm words are not only piercing
After Ms. Zhang became pregnant, she did not have a single examination, and she would go on time every time, afraid of what was wrong with the baby in her belly. Because Ms. Zhang had an ectopic pregnancy before, during this pregnancy, the doctor arranged for her to do a yin ultrasound, mainly to check whether the embryo had a successful pregnancy in the uterus.
When the appointment was successful, on the day of the examination, Ms. Zhang arrived at the hospital on time, and when she was able to queue herself, she found that it was a male doctor. Because the appointment timeout can not see the doctor's name, can only be made according to the time, so Ms. Zhang also arrived at the hospital to find that it is a male doctor, which makes Ms. Zhang feel very embarrassed.
After all, Yin Chao is also more special, let the male doctor to operate, Ms. Zhang really did not have the courage, so she said to the doctor, "Change a female doctor, can you?" The male doctor who was preparing did not even raise his head, and said calmly, "Today the doctor did not arrange other female doctors who do yin chao, if you feel more embarrassed, you can make an appointment next time." ”
Ms. Zhang heard this moment of heart like ashes, this time the yin chao she has been waiting for a week to wait, there are too many people to do the examination, if you have to re-make an appointment, I don't know when to wait, only to be able to harden the scalp.
But in fact, in the process of doing yin ultrasound, in addition to a little embarrassment at the beginning, ms. Zhang felt that there was nothing later, although she was a male doctor, but the whole process was very professional, and the role of the tool person was very in place, which made Ms. Zhang slowly relax, and the final examination results also made Ms. Zhang very satisfied, which also made Ms. Zhang's view of the male doctor of obstetrics and gynecology change.
01 How difficult is it for a male obstetrician and gynecologist?
More than once to see the obstetrics and gynecology of male doctors complain about their situation in obstetrics and gynecology, on the one hand is from the pregnant women's own rejection psychology, in the view of pregnant mothers, male doctors as the opposite sex, and obstetrics and gynecology is related to many more private aspects, and even some reproductive projects, may be directly related to privacy, so that pregnant mothers feel very embarrassed.
On the other hand, the sense of exclusion also comes from the family of pregnant women, especially the father-to-be, may feel more inappropriate, before in the news to see a lot of news about the contradiction between the mother's husband and the male doctor, and even the mother-in-law and the male doctor have a conflict, in fact, this kind of behavior is very inappropriate, will bring great inconvenience to the mother and the doctor.
It is enough to see that because of the "opposite sex" identity, the situation of male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology is embarrassing and embarrassing. Just like a male obstetrician-gynecologist sent me a private message earlier, saying, "I am just a male obstetrician-gynecologist, but pregnant women and their families treat me like a flood beast, I am just a tool man, it is too difficult." "There are many bitter histories like this, so I still hope that everyone can understand and support the male doctors in the obstetrics and gynecology department a little more."
It should be known that the positions in the hospital are through the competition system, and only those doctors who are professionally strong enough and capable can be hired. Therefore, the male doctors of obstetrics and gynecology that pregnant mothers usually face have strong skills and must have strong enough trust in them. In fact, the purpose of the doctor and the pregnant mother is the same, so that the baby in the pregnant mother's belly can be born safely and healthily.
Pregnant mothers themselves should calm their minds when facing male doctors, do not feel embarrassed or embarrassed, otherwise in the case of too much tension, it will also hinder the obstetric examination of pregnant mothers, and even affect the results of the examination.
Some pregnant mothers will also encounter the situation that the doctor responsible for delivery is a male doctor during childbirth, in this case, many pregnant mothers feel more nervous, and the process is accompanied by pain, which makes it more difficult for pregnant mothers to cope, in fact, this will increase the risk of childbirth. How to adjust their mentality, follow the rhythm of the doctor to exert strength and breathe, is the most important thing for pregnant mothers to pay attention to during childbirth, rather than tangling with the problem that the doctor who delivered me was a man.
Conclusion: Whether it is an ordinary obstetric examination or a delivery process, male doctors should not be regarded as "flood beasts" by pregnant mothers, but should be regarded as guardians to escort the birth of the fetus, so that the mentality of pregnant mothers can be more relaxed.