Breathing together determines that we must share a common destiny!

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In the last lesson, we shared with you the "Disciple Rules" into the filial piety section of "Dear Me, Why Is Filial Piety Difficult?" Dear hate me, filial piety. We take Qi Yongbing of Desheng Village in "Remember Homesickness" as an example, and Take Dayun as an example, and talk about the difficult life realm of "repaying grievances with virtue". We see that Da Shun, as our ancestor, set an example for us and made a model of "repaying grievances with virtue", so Yao passed the throne to him, and he became a figure admired by Confucius throughout his life, becoming a figure of "virtue as a saint, rich in the world, the temple of the ancestors, and the protection of descendants", making a brilliant example for our Chinese nation.

From Shun's body, we can see that when a person wants to do harm to me by the other party, or even to put me to death, he can not afford to take revenge, but on the contrary, he is more filial to the old man and loves his brother more. How did he do that? He must have seen through the truth of life. According to the "Zero Limit", Da Shun must know that if such a trapped tragedy, a harmful tragedy, and a jealous tragedy are not repeated, it must be solved in this life cycle. In other words, replace the negatives. Otherwise, there will be a similar tragedy waiting for him in the next life cycle. How can I replace the negatives? Put it away, because the ancients said that they have suffered it, and once they have suffered it, they can't stand it, and this is the truth.

The "Disciple Rules" makes a logical turn here, from "the body is injured, the relatives are worried; the virtue is injured, and the relatives are ashamed" to the "Dear love me, why is filial piety difficult?" Dear hate me, filial piety." If people could grasp the intent of this sentence, our divorce rate would not be so high. I don't care if my wife is good to me, I am 100% good to my wife. Whether sir treats me well or not, I am 100% good to you. Then the stability of the family will be improved, and the harmony will be improved. As an old man, you can get a safe upbringing, and as a child, you have a healthy growth environment. Why is the divorce rate so high now? Because I love him when I "love me", I don't love him when I "love me", and I use to return the double hatred to the other party, and the double hatred to the other party. In this way, we are in a vicious circle, and there is no time to come out.

We now look at the foreign policy proposed by General Secretary Xi Jinping, which is in fact such an ancient logical modernization. That is to say, for international disputes, we should use the concept of understanding, inclusiveness, peace and sharing to resolve, rather than by means of retaliatory wars, and peace can never be won with retaliation and war. Why? I hit you today, I have planted the seed that you will hit me tomorrow, and this vicious circle will never come out. Today I have destroyed his ancestors, which means that in the future his descendants will come to avenge him.

We have seen that the Chinese nation's five-thousand-year-old basic attitude toward mankind is peace, that is, seeking common ground and respecting differences, and sharing peace, which is laid down by our concept of great unity. Under such a logic, we examine Chinese culture, and at the beginning we say that Chinese culture is a holistic culture, and since it is a holistic culture, we know that as long as one of the elements is injured, then the whole is injured. If one molecule is polluted, the whole is polluted. Over the years, there are many friends on the traditional culture front who are using enzymes, and when he drinks water, he mixes a certain enzyme into the 45-degree water, and you will find that it does have an effect on health. I used to do experiments, you look at that toilet, if there is dirt on it, you drop a little bit of enzyme on it, and you find that it really has a good purifying function. That is to say, you give a whole water inside, drop a drop of water, and its whole water is enzymeized.

The ancients had long recognized this, so Confucius, in his later years, gave his disciples a lecture on "My Way Is Consistent." What have I been talking about in my life? I've spoken one word in my life. Which word? "One". What does "one" mean? "One" is holographic, "one" is holographic, "one" is systematic, "one" is dialectics, and "one" means that it is not "two". If it is "two", there are struggles and contradictions, while "one" is to rise to the whole to look at the problem. Because it is a whole, I have to love others. Because it is a whole, I must not only be "pro-benevolent", not only "filial piety when entering, filial piety when going out, but also being sincere and faithful", but also "loving the people" and "being kind", because we are a whole.

As we said earlier, from a psychological point of view, our subconscious mind is shared by the universe. In fact, we just make an association in life. Each of us exhales, can you do it to keep each other from inhaling into the lungs? Can't do it. Breathing together determines that we must share a common destiny. Even breathing this thing, we are constantly separated, we can't do you are yours, I am mine. We put some fruit in the room, why do we smell fruit right away? Because this universe is whole. We can't do fruity tastes that don't get into our nostrils, so the whole universe is one. According to the stream, this universe is a stream of voice, it is a whole, it cannot be cut. We use a knife to cut off the water and the water flows more, that's what it means.

When we realize this, we will be able to deal with all the hatred and resentment that comes from our lives, and we will be able to deal with it calmly. What should I do? The "Disciple Rules" echoes in the later parts, that is, "enmity to repay, resentment to forget, complaining short, repaying kindness long". Here it is specifically about our filial piety to the elderly, that is, "Dear me, why is filial piety difficult?" Dear hate me, filial piety." The old man is not good for us, we are good to the old man, and it can show our realm even more.

In "Dear Me, Why Is Filial Piety Difficult?" Kiss and hate me, filial piety", the "Disciple Rules" went one step further, saying that "relatives have been, advice is more, Yi Wu color, soft Wu sound". What does that mean? If a loved one has made a mistake, we must exhort him to change it. Over the years, some people have said that the Disciple Rules are the logic of power, a kind of powerful rule between elders and juniors. Not really. You see in the "Disciple Rules" that "relatives have had", as a junior, you must persuade him and let him change. So what is the method? "Yi Wu Color, Soft Wu Sound", that is to say, when we give advice to our parents and mothers, we must pay attention to the ways and methods, and we must speak in harmony. For example, I often advised my father to let go of some preconceptions about others and change his worldview, cosmology, and outlook on life. Usually, I can't talk about it, so I grope, when will he listen to it? When you bathe him, when you give him a bath, when you touch his body, you will find that he listens. Otherwise, as soon as he heard it, he flatly refused, and he objected. When you wash his feet, when you talk about it, you will find that he is a gesture of acceptance. Methods matter. "Relatives have been, counselors have been more."

This article is excerpted from "Guo Wenbin's Interpretation"

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