There is a boy in Shanghai who is very special, he was born in 2000, but in 2014 he officially had a household registration, and the boy's name was Zhu Junlong.
In his growth process, there were never two parents, only the elderly grandparents took care of him growing up, and only the grandparents were busy with his life...
"In the beginning, there were always neighbors who said that he was a child secretly born to me or my daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law and foreigners, and did not dare to say it to the outside world, so they said that he was picked up by me..."
Because as she walked, she heard a faint voice coming from the grass, a somewhat faint voice, like the cries of kittens, and like the cries of babies.
Young Zhu Junlong
The baby was still very young, it looked like it had been a few days old, perhaps because of long crying, and the child looked very weak.
"I picked him up and saw a small note in the bamboo basket that said the child was born on August 1st."
Zhu Shuibao, who saw the small note, immediately understood that this child was abandoned, and she checked the child's body and found that there was no lack of arms and legs.
It is that the newborn child seems to be darker, and there are still a lot of prickly heat on the body, because the weather in Shanghai in August is too hot, and the prickly heat on the child's body is still broken, and some of them are oozing water.
Zhu Shuibao didn't think too much, quickly took the child home, and brought water to clean the child, but this has a child and a daughter, what should this child do?
Zhu Shuibao first thought of sending the child to the police station, hoping that the police could help the child find his parents, and he also inquired in many ways, wanting to ask if anyone had seen anyone carrying a basket like a basket, because this person was likely to be the child's relative.
While looking for parents for the child, Zhu Shuibao also found another strange thing:
"We have an old saying in Shanghai: the more a child washes, the whiter it becomes. But this baby, I bathed him every day, and after a week, his spirit was much better, but his skin color was still as dark as when he picked it up. ”
Finding that how the child washed it "can't be washed", Zhu Shuibao and his family are very worried - don't be a child with any skin diseases!
Zhu Apo embraced Zhu Junlong
Zhu Shuibao quickly took the child to the hospital for examination, but got the conclusion that the child was very healthy, as to why the child was black, it was because he was a mixed black man, and the skin was originally this color.
After checking the child's body, Zhu Shuibao was relieved, but the child's parents did not go missing for a long time, which made Zhu Shuibao feel more sorry for this abandoned child, not to mention that after a screening by the police, he could not find the person who abandoned the child, and finally only persuaded Zhu Shuibao to send the child to the welfare home.
How is the living standard of the welfare home Zhu Shuibao does not know, but thinking of a group of abandoned children in the welfare home, Zhu Shuibao is uncomfortable in his heart, he is also a person with children and daughters, just think of an aunt in the welfare home to take care of a group of children, how much care can the children get?
Not to mention that the child in his hand is still a black doll, if he is sent to a welfare home, he may not be able to do anything about it. Just like this, Zhu Shuibao returned home.
"Let's adopt this doll!"
Zhu Shuibao returned home, gathered her children, and told her decision, but her decision was rejected by the eldest son and daughter, on the grounds that her own living conditions were not good, which added another mouth, did not it make the family more stretched?
Not to mention, this child is still a black doll, unlike us, raising such a child, I don't know how much gossip from neighbors will be subjected to in the future.
Zhu Apo took a group photo with his wife and Zhu Junlong
Finally, Zhu Shuibao had children and daughters, and he did not meet the adoption conditions of the government at that time, and the procedures for adopting children could not be completed at all.
But Zhu Shuibao was unusually firm, and when the child picked it up, there was no reason to throw it away again!
Therefore, in the opposition of his children, Zhu Shuibao named the child Zhu Junlong, and little by little he was raised to be a healthy and lively child, and before long, Zhu Shuibao's own grandson was also born.
Just when others thought that the arrival of his grandson would escalate Zhu Shuibao's attention to Xiao Heiwa, who had become 'Zhu Apo', Zhu Shuibao still took good care of him.
Every night, he would wait for Zhu Junlong to go to sleep before resting, and every morning he went out early to buy vegetables, even if his life was embarrassing, he never treated Zhu Junlong badly in eating.
Slowly, the neighbors also accepted the lively Zhu Junlong, although they would occasionally ridicule his skin color, but they never said in front of him that he was the illegitimate son of Zhu Apo or the daughter of the Zhu family.
Later, Zhu Junlong should go to school, and Zhu Apo knew at this time that although there was no adoption procedure, she could raise her child herself.
But Zhu Junlong did not have a household registration, going to school became a problem, fortunately, the policy of the primary school is relatively generous, after finding various relationships and saying several good things about the basket, Zhu Junlong finally enrolled in school.
Zhu Junlong rode to school
"Why am I different from them?"
Zhu Junlong, who has just entered the school, originally had great expectations for the school, after all, there are so many children in the school, it is definitely more interesting to play games, but because of his skin color problem, many children naturally do not like to play with him, thinking that he is "outlier", and at the same time will laugh and bully him.
Zhu Junlong doesn't like school anymore! So the active factor that was already buried in his veins was not bound, he was naughty and fighting, noisy in class, and even skipping class--so that although he felt very happy, he suffered from Zhu Apo.
When the child disobeys, the teacher will look for the parents, and when he sees Zhu Abo bending over the teacher again and again because of his naughty noise, and running around because of his own affairs again and again, the young Zhu Junlong is silently distressed.
So, under the enlightenment of Zhu Apo, he began to convince himself that the strange eyes of others were not a big deal, just like the neighbors would also use his skin color to ridicule him, not malicious, as long as he did not feel that he was an "outlier", then those words and eyes would not hurt him.
At the same time, he also began to restrain his "wildness", starting with sitting down in the classroom, slowly changing, and finally being able to absorb the knowledge taught by the teacher in the classroom.
Perhaps, his grades are still not high or low, but he will no longer be the "bad boy" who is noisy in class and disturbs the teachers and classmates.
Zhu Junlong was playing
In this change, Zhu Junlong's came to graduate from primary school, and when he graduated from primary school, he had to go to junior high school, and China's nine-year compulsory education required all school-age children to at least finish junior high school, and although Zhu Junlong was also a school-age child, he was still a black household, and he could not go to the hukou, so he could not become a reasonable and legal "school-age child".
This time, finding someone to support and intercede has not worked, so when all the primary school graduates who have spent a summer vacation carry their school bags again and become junior high school students, Zhu Junlong can't go to school.
"I heard that as long as you really raise him for more than five years, you can go through the adoption procedures, you go to the community and ask!"
The news that was inquired about gave Zhu Apo, who was distressed about Zhu Junlong's schooling problem, see hope, and she rushed to the community and the nearby police station to inquire about related matters, and after receiving a positive reply, Zhu Apo breathed a long sigh of relief.
Then he kept preparing materials and submitting proof of his adoption relationship with Zhu Junlong, hoping to get Zhu Junlong's hukou as soon as possible, and then receive normal school education.
After receiving the application submitted by Grandma Zhu, the community also attached great importance to it, after all, it was a child who was waiting to go to school, special affairs special office, after a period of visits, the community confirmed the actual adoption relationship between Grandma Zhu and Zhu Junlong, so it also helped Zhu Junlong to get the hukou down.
When he got the hukou, Zhu Junlong was already fourteen years old, and he finally legally had a family relationship with Zhu Abo, and finally broke away from the unpopular identity of "black household" and became a real Chinese.
Zhu Apo was looking at Zhu Junlong's household registration book
When choosing the nationality, Zhu Junlong did not hesitate to choose the Han nationality, because it was Grandma who raised him, then everything he had was naturally inherited from Zhu Apo, Who was a Han Chinese, and naturally he was also.
"We do not recommend private adoption of abandoned babies, China's current adoption policy is still relatively flexible, there are special reasons, we can deal with special cases, private adoption of abandoned babies caused by children becoming black households is not a good choice!"
Because there is no birth permit and birth certificate, it is difficult to register the household registration at the police station, and once it becomes a black household, it is even more difficult to apply for the household registration, which will not only increase the burden on the adopter, but also increase the workload of the local police station.
Therefore, although the local police have registered Zhu Junlong with all kinds of documents complete, and also respect Zhu Apo's kindness, they do not advocate citizens to learn from Zhu Apo's private adoption behavior.
In fact, the legal provisions of China on adoption are quite clear, which indicates that the adopter must first have full civil liability, that is, a normal and sound adult;
Secondly, you must be at least thirty-five years of age (the adoption of orphans and disabled children may not be subject to age restrictions, and the adopters may not be subject to this restriction for both husband and wife);
Third, if there is no child or only one child, and the child suffers from special circumstances such as mental or physical illness, a healthy child can be adopted;
Finally, the adopter should be in good health, free of infectious diseases and adopted for a legitimate purpose, so that the adoption relationship can be legally recognized.
Zhu Junlong was adopted attest
In fact, in addition to the adoption relationship between Zhu Abo and Zhu Junlong, it also involves the issue of nationality, and it is impossible to determine the nationality of Zhu Junlong's parents, which is the fundamental reason why Zhu Junlong is difficult to "go to the hukou".
The Chinese Nationality Law stipulates that if the parents are stateless or have unknown nationality, but settle in China and the child is born in China, then the child can have Chinese nationality.
However, Zhu Junlong's situation is special, he does have unknown parents' nationality, because he can't find his parents at all, so it is impossible to determine whether his parents are "foreign friends" settled in China, so Zhu Junlong lost the first opportunity to legally join Chinese nationality when he was abandoned by his biological parents.
Therefore, Zhu Junlong could only act in accordance with Article 7 of the Nationality Law, that is, if he was a foreign or stateless person, willing to abide by Chinese laws and settle in China or had other legitimate reasons, he could become a Chinese national.
Zhu Junlong was adopted by Zhu Apo from birth to the actual household registration, a total of nearly fifteen years, these fifteen years he belonged to the state of settlement in China, in addition, he was a minor, and was in an actual adoption relationship with Zhu Abo.
Therefore, he also had a legitimate reason for becoming a Chinese national, so under the special office of the local special affairs in Shanghai, he finally had a household registration in Shanghai, China.
Zhu Junlong and Zhu Apo
"We can try to help you find your own birth parents, and you want to find them and ask, why did you abandon you?"
"No, I have relatives."
People say that it is better to be born than to raise grace, this sentence is probably only understood by those who have experienced it, no doubt, Zhu Junlong understands, in his eyes, it is Zhu Apo who raised him, it is Also Zhu Apo who takes care of him with all her might, and it is Zhu Apo who worries and runs for herself every day and night.
Then his relatives are naturally Zhu Apo, and as for the biological parents who gave birth to him but abandoned him on the side of the road, it is no longer important, because the moment they decided to abandon him a few days after their birth, the bond between them had been cut off by the so-called parents.
As for whether they were bitter or had no compulsions, it had nothing to do with the young man, because if there was no Zhu Apo, it was still unknown whether he would have survived the hot August of 2000.
Zhu Junlong was unfortunate because he could not choose his biological parents, so he became an abandoned baby, and even became a small black family who had lived in Shanghai for fourteen years.
But he was also lucky, because he met Zhu Abo, although, for the first fourteen years, he could only live as a black household, but Zhu Apo gave him a home, and never forgot to love him.
"The community gave us a lot of help, gave Zhu Junlong a waiver of tuition fees, and also sent some oil every year to comfort us."
After applying for a hukou, Zhu Junlong was finally able to go to school normally, and the community was also touched by the fact that Zhu Abo herself had a difficult life but firmly raised Zhu Junlong for more than ten years.
Zhu Junlong
As a result, the community also took the initiative to bring Zhu Apo and his wife a lot of preferential policies that met the regulations, and these policies to benefit the people did make the Zhu Apo family a little better.
But what makes Zhu Apo happiest is that the neighbors have also corrected Zhu Junlong's identity, and will no longer say some specious words to Zhu Junlong, but instead come to visit from time to time, so that Zhu Junlong can see more of the beauty of the world.
After settling down, Zhu Junlong got a better growth environment, and he also cherished it, which was reflected in learning, on June 6, 2018, Zhu Junlong and many Chinese children took the college entrance examination together, and his results were not good, but they were not bad.
After the college entrance examination, in order to be closer to the elderly Zhu Abo, he chose Shanghai Jianqiao College, instead of choosing a farther and better school like many children who yearn for freedom from the outside world, if the score allows.
But on this day, which should have been happy, the children of Zhu Apo made another moth.
"After you die, things should have been inherited by us, but we just don't want you to post things to outsiders and use the money in advance!"
This is what Zhu Apo's son and daughter said to Grandma when they embezzled more than two million yuan that Zhu Apo had originally planned to use for the purchase of a house, and this righteous attitude made Zhu Apo angry and at the same time helpless.
Zhu Abo smiled happily
It turned out that Zhu Apo's old house was compensated for expropriation, and there were six houses in the compensation, and after the house was allocated, Zhu Apo had already divided four houses to two of her own sons, and the other two sets, one set to Zhu Junlong (one said that this house was given to Zhu Junlong by the government), and the last set of small houses was kept for herself.
But probably because of its disrepair, this small house will always leak rain on rainy days, so after Zhu Junlong was admitted to college, Zhu Abo sold this small house, and because she was too old to take such a large amount of money, it was not safe to take such a large amount of money, so she put the house money on her daughter's account.
However, just because of this "deposit" decision, Zhu Apo's hope of buying a house next to Zhu Junlong University was shattered Zhu Apo's eldest son was addicted to gambling and owed a large amount of foreign debt outside, and when he knew that the old mother sold more than two million yuan in the hands of his sister, the eldest son of the Zhu family consulted with his sister and embezzled the money for debt repayment without Zhu Apo's knowledge.
In the face of Zhu Apo's questioning, he directly threw it out
"What you die should have been mine!"
Such a sentence, at the same time, the brothers and sisters did not have the intention of providing for the elderly mother, so that Zhu Abo not only had no money to buy a house, but also had no place to return.
That is more than two million, if Zhu Apo really wants to take the legal route to investigate, it may be able to come back, but once they take the road of law, then the three children will inevitably not have a family.
And the last trace of mother-child love between herself and the children could not be retained, and after repeated hesitations, Zhu Apo finally did not have the heart to force the children to the road of death.
Fortunately, Zhu Junlong is a grateful, although his house is small, but a few people squeezed a squeeze, not unable to live, not to mention that they also have to go to college, go to college can live on campus, so that you can also make more space for Zhu Apo and the old two activities.
Zhu Junlong's acceptance letter
"Grandma, I'll buy you a big villa later!"
This is Zhu Junlong's promise to Zhu Apo, the old man listened to the words of this adopted son who is not related by blood, turned his head and wiped his tears, his own child pit himself to nothing, Zhu Junlong promised his old two old people to send the future to the end.
In fact, if a child who is willing to give birth to a pension and send him to the end of his life is not ten million times better than those biological unfilial sons?
Zhu Junlong, who is crowded in the small suite with Zhu Apo and Zhu Apo, has no complaints, and is even afraid that the old man will not keep up with the development of the times, will not use smart phones, life will be boring, and he will patiently teach Zhu Apo to use mobile phones after studying, and take the old lady to feel the changes of the times.
Flowers that Zhu Junlong gave to Zhu Apo
He will also worry that the teeth of the old two mouths are getting worse and worse, so he will buy some of the soft and digestible food on the street and bring it back to the old man to taste, if the old man likes this bite, he will buy a little from time to time, just to make the old man happy.
Of course, when getting along, this "grandchild" will also have friction, for example, the elderly always feel that the child is not good to eat breakfast, so they will prepare breakfast for Zhu Junlong early in the morning and accompany Zhu Junlong to eat.
But after breakfast, it was the morning rush hour, and Zhu Junlong had to waste almost an hour at the station if he wanted to go out.
"It would be nice if I didn't have breakfast!"
"How about not eating breakfast! Not good for the body! ”
The friction between grandchildren is nothing more than daily triviality, one says, I am for your own good, one says, this can not be crossed... As a result, the daily routine of mixing mouths began again, but no matter how to mix mouths, Zhu Junlong would not really provoke Zhu Apo to be angry.
For example, it is said that if I don't eat breakfast, I can save more than an hour, but whenever Zhu Abo makes breakfast and brings it to the table, Zhu Junlong will honestly accompany the old man to eat breakfast before going out.
Zhu Junlong and Zhu Apo were eating
For example, the elderly get up at six o'clock in the morning and go to bed at eight o'clock at night, which is actually nothing, but the old man feels that it is good to go to bed early and get up early, and will also urge Zhu Junlong to go to bed early when he sleeps.
Shout out to Zhu Junlong to get up in the morning, but isn't the life of a young man sleeping until he wakes up naturally in the morning and playing until half past midnight at night?
Zhu Junlong is actually very unsuitable for the old man's work and rest time, and there will be impatience of young people, but he also understands that he can not spend too much time with the old man, so although he will complain to Grandma Zhu, he will still try to listen to Grandma Zhu if he can do it.
Because Zhu Junlong, who has been subjected to human warmth since childhood, knows better how time passes, as a student, he still has weekends, as well as winter and summer vacations, and when he enters the society, he only has weekends and holidays, and his life begins to shine.
But Grandma is old, human life is very fragile, often in a casual, the last holiday still talked and laughed together may become a black and white photo in the next holiday.
Zhu Junlong will also worry, worry that the time is too slow, he will not grow fast enough, worry that he will not be able to buy a large villa, let Grandpa and Grandpa have been squeezed into a small suite with himself, and worry that time is too fast, so fast that Grandma and Grandpa can't wait to live in the big villa they promised to buy for them...
"Grandma rest assured, I will definitely make a lot of money in the future and let you live a good life!"
This is Zhu Junlong's promise to Zhu Apo when he was young, and he has been working hard to achieve this promise, and we said that Zhu Junlong was unfortunate and lucky.
In fact, Zhu Abo is not the same, she is unfortunate, because she has raised three filial children, she is lucky, because she firmly adopted Zhu Junlong, so when she is old, she has dependence on her.