Since ancient times, yang en and sheng en have been frequently discussed and disputed in the educational category, and in most cases, yang en has gained a higher proportion with an overwhelming advantage. It is true that some biological parents can be said to have significant positive guidance significance in the cultivation of their children, but many children do not get a sense of happiness in family parenting, and even some children are abandoned at birth and suffer the harm that runs throughout life.
The next thing we want to mention is the growth of a mixed-race abandoned baby, but fortunately he met a gentle and kind grandmother who was able to bathe in light from then on.
Wonderful fate
On August 8, 2000, a Shanghai grandmother went to the wet market as usual, and what had been a waveless day was accidentally broken by the cries of children in the bushes.
This grandmother's name is Zhu Shuibao, although she had some doubts after hearing the voice, she still hurried to look close to the bushes, thanks to grandma's eyes, the babies who were placed in the bamboo basket in the bushes began a completely different life.
The abandoned little baby was just 7 days old, not only full of prickly heat, but also very weak, Zhu Abo said: "At that time, I really felt that my heart was almost up, and I felt that he and I must have a fate." "The little baby may have felt the kindness and heartache of Zhu Apo, and as soon as she was picked up by Zhu Apo, she gradually quieted down.
The little baby was obviously abandoned by her parents, and although Grandma Zhu was angry, it was imperative to take care of the little baby first, and under the circumstances at that time, if there was no Grandma Zhu, the little baby would probably be taken away in just a few days.
Zhu Apo immediately decided to bring the baby home, after a week of careful care by the whole family, the baby's health gradually improved, but the skin color was much darker than the usual child, after the hospital examination, Zhu Apo was told that the baby was a black man.
According to the conditions at that time, it was obviously unrealistic to find the parents of the little baby, and even if it was found, it would still not change the fact that the little baby became an abandoned baby.
And Zhu Apo's younger son and daughter-in-law just did not have children, and under the care of these days, the whole family had feelings for this little baby, and they could not bear to abandon the little baby again or send it to the welfare home, and the little baby stayed in Zhu Apo's home, as the adopted son of Zhu Apo's younger son, and obtained the Chinese name of "Zhu Junlong".
Twenty years of growth
Zhu Junlong gradually grew up, and in a related news in 2007, Zhu Abo, who was interviewed, admitted that she was very worried about Zhu Junlong's education. Since Zhu Junlong did not have a birth certificate in China, and Zhu Abo's family did not have the conditions to adopt a child, Zhu Junlong's hukou problem has not been solved, and then a series of problems such as enrollment have followed.
At that time, Zhu Junlong was already seven years old, and Zhu Apo had to retreat to the second place, running to various institutions, requesting that Zhu Junlong be allowed to go to school first, and then the hukou problem would be handled on behalf of him.
The result was a special affairs office: Zhu Junlong was arranged to enroll at Yuqiao Primary School in Pudong New Area. In the first days of school, he did not receive any preschool education and did not adapt to school life. Ignoring classroom discipline, learning to do as he pleases, and often running into trouble with children are his prominent problems, which are very headaches for teachers and Zhu Abo.
However, after a year of education by the teachers, Zhu Junlong grew up rapidly and even won the title of "Sunshine Boy". Along this trend, Zhu Junlong constantly made breakthroughs in learning and life, and also had his own like-minded friends.
At the same time, due to the color of his skin, he received more attention, and compared with his peers, his ideological growth was more mature, which was also a good feedback.
In the blink of an eye, the abandoned baby was about to enter the twenties, during which time Zhu Junlong also got the hukou certificate in Shanghai, China, as desired, and entered the university life step by step.
Growing up in Shanghai, China, although his appearance is different from the people around him, in his cognition, he is an authentic Chinese.
Forever family
With sincerity for sincerity, Zhu Abo's kindness and sense of responsibility gave the abandoned baby a home, 20 years of paying no return and affection poured in exchange for the now cheerful, confident and active life of Zhu Junlong, and Zhu Junlong also knows how to be grateful, from childhood has always said that when he grows up, he should take good care of his grandmother.
The emotional relationship between Zhu Apo and her grandson Zhu Junlong is not the so-called blood thicker than water, but long-term companionship and understanding, which is the wonderful fate between people, and they can be called family.
When Zhu Junlong was 18 years old, he met a black foreign teacher, who said that Zhu Junlong had half Chinese blood and half black blood, and now he was well taken care of in China, wondering if he could also have black people to help him.
Therefore, the foreign teacher began to teach Zhu Junlong to learn English free of charge. Although Zhu Junlong became an abandoned baby 20 years ago, he has always had well-meaning people to help him, which is really lucky. What about other abandoned children? Do they have this luck too? Apparently not.
It is understood that there are about 100,000 abandoned babies in China every year, mainly female babies and sick children, which reflects one of the still existing patriarchal phenomena, the second is the problem that the medical security of China's sick and disabled children has not yet been perfected, and the most important one is the lack of parental responsibility.
In the past two sessions, the proposal of "qualified parent induction certificate" has set off a wave of enthusiasm, in fact, this problem has attracted much attention in recent years, and the impact of family education on children has become more and more significant in social life, and it is urgent to improve.
For the problem of abandoned babies, it is also necessary to have the constraints of a parent's induction certificate, understand the needs of all aspects of the arrival of a child in advance, evaluate the parents who want to have children, and ensure that the birth of the child is the happiness of the family, rather than evolving into the tragedy of abandonment, so as to effectively alleviate the problem of abandoned babies.
If you are born without being raised, how can you be a parent? The incident of Zhu Junlong's abandonment entered the public eye because of the particularity of his mixed blood, so he received the greatest degree of subsidy, and also received hard-won affection in this kind family.
But the lucky ones are definitely only a minority, and what needs to be solved urgently is to eliminate the occurrence of such problems from the root causes and properly arrange the children who have been abandoned.
Zhu Apo, in the case of her own very difficult conditions, still adopted Zhu Junlong with kindness, and raised him as an adult for twenty years, which is really touching, Zhu Junlong sought the closest care from her family, and their increasingly deep affection is a warm light in contemporary society, softening the hearts of many people.