Xi Murong said: Not all people can know the meaning of time, and not all people know how to cherish.
There is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only a heart that is willing to love and unwilling to love.
This sentence is very applicable to Zhou Rong in the TV series "The World". Whether it is affection or love, she does not know how to love.
The truth behind the infidelity
I thought that Zhou Rong was assigned to the house, and the family of three was reunited, and a beautiful life began. After all, she has also been married to Feng Huacheng for 20 years.
Unexpectedly, Feng Huacheng eventually derailed. It seems unexpected, but it is also expected.
Feng Huacheng's derailment, if divided according to the proportion, he accounts for 40%, Zhou Rong accounts for 30%, and Xiao SanWang Zi accounts for 30%.
Little Third Wang Zi is young and beautiful, and it is simply a copy of "Little Zhou Rong". She is as active in love as Zhou Rong.
Freezing three feet is not a cold day. This is also the truest portrayal of the marriage of Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng. As a man, infidelity in marriage is definitely at fault.
Feng Huacheng, a great poet who was able to make 16-year-old Zhou Rong pursue for thousands of miles, is now just a middle-aged man full of fireworks.
In the eyes of Zhou Rong (played by Song Jia), Feng Huacheng has no value. Zhou Rong, who did not eat human fireworks, had become more and more disdainful of Feng Huacheng. She thinks that Feng Hua has lost the habit of a poet by becoming a house.
It is said that worship is the basis of love. Now that even this foundation is gone, there will inevitably be problems.
Before the infidelity, Feng Huacheng was also a good man, he was emotional, thoughtful, and had a high level of poetry, could cook, and hurt his wife.
Feng Huacheng has the bottom line and self-esteem of an intellectual, but he is punctured by Zhou Rong again and again. The moment Zhou Rong tore off Feng Huacheng's award certificate, it actually foreshadowed the breakdown of the marriage.
From the poem written by Feng Huacheng and the dialogue between him and Cai Xiaoguang (played by Wang Yang) drinking, it can be seen that he is full of disappointment in Zhou Rong and this marriage. Feng Huacheng also had no feelings for Zhou Rong.
If the premise of love is appreciation and respect, then Zhou Rong turned her worship of Feng Huacheng into contempt and contempt, and respect into disgust.
Their love has long since vanished, even dissolved long ago. Derailment is also a matter of sooner or later.
Feng Huacheng's derailment, Zhou Rong is also responsible. Zhou Rong is the beloved daughter of Zhou Zhigang (played by Ding Yongdai), who has been influenced by her father's integrity, selflessness and noble personality since she was a child, and has also been nourished by Chinese and foreign classic literary works, so she dares to love and hate, and her life is bumpy but she is constantly striving, and she has lived out the most arbitrary self.
Zhou Rong was a person who suffered from material hardships, living in a cave in the countryside of Guizhou, and when her daughter Yue Yue was born, she still took scissors to cut the umbilical cord herself.
Such a woman who can suffer hardships cannot bear the spiritual suffering. In those years in Guizhou, although materially bitter, spiritually, Zhou Rong was very happy, respected by the villagers, and spoiled by her husband.
The mountain is like a paradise, and it also keeps Zhou Rong's heart pure all the time. Her psychological age has not changed in all these years, and she has been stuck at 18 years old.
Back in the city, faced with real problems, because the house has to invite guests to give gifts, these chicken and dog things make Zhou Rong confused. A cultural person who was once indomitable, now wants to bow to fate and the house, and her heart is uncomfortable and disgusted.
There was also the scene where Zhou Rong still wanted to take back the gift that Cai Xiaoguang had sent.
In fact, from another perspective, isn't Zhou Rong's life trajectory what many young people pursue nowadays? 1. Come on a walk-and-go trip. 2, the world is very big, I want to see. 3. Live your best self.
Exquisite egoism, which is also the label of Zhou Rong. It's just that such a person must have brothers and sisters around her to carry the burden for her and take on the responsibility of taking care of the family.
Zhou Bingkun (played by Lei Jiayin) and Zheng Juan (played by Yin Tao) are her big rear.
Flattering affection
Flattery, this is the affection that fills the gap between Zhou Rong and her daughter Feng Yue.
When her daughter Yue Yue was 2 years old, she always put her daughter in Zhou Bingkun's house, which caused her daughter and Zhou Rong to be very estranged, without any mother-daughter love.
Zhou Bingkun moved back to the old house, and Zhou Rong went to mobilize Hao Dongmei (played by Sui Junbo) to let her daughter live in her parents' home temporarily.
Zhou Rong only wants her daughter to live a good life, but ignores her daughter's physical and mental changes. As Mrs. Jin said: It is difficult to go from luxury to frugality. Living in such a favorable environment as the Jin family for a while broadened her horizons, she was already a little bit poor and loved to be rich.
When he learned that Zhou Nan was not his own cousin, Feng Yue completely fell in love with this "cousin" who had been a young man since he was a child.
The scene that just "hugged" was seen by the great uncle Hao Dongmei.
Hao Dongmei was a very positive and realistic person with three views, and she immediately called Zhou Rong to oppose Feng Yue and Zhou Nan being together.
The reason is Zheng Juan. If Feng Yue and Zhou Nan are together, then Zheng Juan will be pointed out.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Rong's first reaction was not to care about Zheng Juan's situation, but her own daughter.
Selfish genes are indeed inherited. Hao Dongmei also said what everyone said: You are as selfish as your mother.
When Feng Yue learned of Zhou Nan's origins, she burst into tears, not for the difficult situation of her sister-in-law Zheng Juan, but because her love was blocked.
Zhou Rong did not have the same position as her sister-in-law Hao Dongmei, she chose to stand in the same position as her daughter. In order to please her daughter, she actually agreed to her daughter Feng Yue and Zhou Nan's early love.
Zhou Rong also made a special call to her brother Zhou Bingkun.
Zheng Juan is not an ordinary sister-in-law. All people can not care about Zheng Juan's thoughts, just Zhou Rong is not OK. If zheng juan did not take care of her mother-in-law and take care of Feng Yue at home without return, Zhou Rong would not be admitted to Peking University.
Zhou Rong did not care about Zheng Juan's feelings at all, and only cared about herself. Neither mother nor daughter took Zheng Juan to heart.
In order to please her daughter, she actually supported her daughter and her brother's "child" early love.
Zhou Rong also taught her love experience to her daughter.
Because her support became a bridge between the understanding of their mother and daughter. Isn't such a family affection more than irony?
Did you do it wrong?
In order to please her daughter and support her daughter's early love, what did Zhou Rong do wrong?
Logically, Zhou Rong did it wrong. Zhou Rong was originally a fairy who did not eat fireworks in the world, her spiritual world was very dashing, and in real life, she did too little and too little.
When she went to her parents' house, she never worked or fulfilled her duty as her own daughter. I don't do housework at home, and I like to blame my husband.
Wife, daughter, mother, these three identities, she is not qualified. Zhou Rong obviously knew that her daughter was very much like her own when she was young, she did not educate and guide, but also supported and encouraged.
As a mother, when the daughter's love sinus first opens, you can have avant-garde thoughts. It is better to block than to unblock, and such a view is also correct.
But what is special is that the daughter's love object is the son born of her sister-in-law's rape. She could not ignore the feelings of her sister-in-law and the situation of her mother-in-law's family.
The idea that the mother and daughter are in love is bigger than heaven is that it will hurt the people of 2 families at the same time, and they have no concern at all.
Zhou Rong's bones are still very "innocent and pure", living in her own paradise. Taking Zheng Juan's pain as a condition for mother-daughter reconciliation, there is no empathy at all.
People like Zhou Rong are extremely selfish and cold.
In the play, many people like the gentle, powerful, kind Zheng Juan. Outside the play, many people are reluctant to live as Zheng Juan. On the contrary, a woman like Zhou Rong lives the happiest.
To end with Xi Murong's words: Really, there are many things that can only be done by being a little crazy.