Dale Carnegie said in "The Weakness of Human Nature" that it is human nature to be ungrateful.
Indeed, most people will feel that gratitude is actually a waste of their time and energy, their thoughts and money.
Therefore, instead of being grateful, it is better to be ungrateful, but to be able to make one's life more comfortable and easier.
But you have to know that a really powerful person, a really strong person, is always doing difficult things.
Only in this way can we improve our cognition, open our minds, support our life pattern, take out more and more visions, and live this life well.
Writer Yuan Wenkui said:
There is a powerful energy in the world that is "gratitude", and there are as many "blessings" as there is in a person's heart.
Learn to be grateful, practice hard, and sooner or later you will find yourself living a more down-to-earth life, with a clear conscience, and calm.
Favor is maintained by gratitude
Some people say: people get along with others, and when there is kindness, there is connection.
Human feelings are sophisticated, and they need to maintain all kinds of relationships.
You will find that people who know how to be grateful will be simpler, more crisp, and more clear of conscience for themselves when maintaining relationships.
In terms of human feelings, once you have a clear conscience, in fact, your living state will become more relaxed, which will reduce the pressure on your superfluous life and the influence of human feelings.
Therefore, smart people will use the best way, the most common way, and the most beneficial way to deal with some problems and some relationships.
Choosing gratitude to maintain human affection is to let yourself learn not to always doubt this and deny that.
Instead, it is to be able to show a grateful attitude, understand others, tolerate others, and in fact, in the end, it is to let go of yourself and be kind to yourself.
Because a person with a grateful heart must have a warm heart and be pure.
Such a person, no matter where he goes, is frank, chic, and casual.
Moreover, no matter what you do, you are worthy of your conscience and yourself.
It can even be said that people who can show their own conscience and show their own grateful attitude to treat people with sophisticated feelings will definitely win the love and respect of more and more people.
Be grateful, raise awareness
Gratitude is a kind of cognition, but also a kind of moral cultivation.
In other words, when a person's cognition is very poor, it is impossible for him to choose to treat life with a grateful attitude.
In other words, gratitude is a choice, a choice in moral cultivation, and a choice in cognitive ability.
Because many people will think that choosing to be grateful is to let themselves do more good deeds, or even to be a good person, a nosy person, and a thankless person.
But in fact, the greatest gain of true gratitude is not what you give, but what you gain.
When you know how to be grateful to your work, life, and relatives, friends and colleagues around you.
You will find that even if you see some opinions and questions in the other person that you find difficult to understand, or even disagree with.
However, I will not be angry, let alone condescending to explain anything or change anything.
It's about knowing how to calm yourself down, telling yourself that everyone has their own ideas and opinions, and that everyone can be together is a kind of fate.
Then, for this kind of fate, we must learn to be grateful and learn to cherish.
It is also at this time, when you have this cognitive choice and understanding, then the problem is not a problem.
In other words, the same thing is a problem in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of oneself, it is a kind of fate, or even a kind of practice.
"Positive Psychology" says: Gratitude is a positive psychological energy.
Therefore, when a person has such psychological energy, isn't it a person's cognitive ability rising? In metamorphosis?
It can be seen that people know how to be grateful, and the biggest gain is not others, but themselves.
The more grateful, the stronger
In a sense, people who know how to be grateful are giving and exporting on the surface, but in fact they are also absorbing and growing.
Many people will never understand such a truth, only when a person goes out first, his life can be transformed.
Because there are too many people, they always feel that they have paid, they are being used, and they are stupid ways to live.
So for these people, gratitude, can be said to be a joke.
Writer Jin Weichun said: Gratitude is the most important element of happiness in life, and it is also the greatest energy in the universe.
In life, you should never underestimate the energy of things you don't understand, and you should always maintain a sense of awe.
Only when you know more and more about being grateful and giving, you will find that you can get faster and greater growth.
In the end, in fact, I can become more and more independent because of this, and no matter when, my cognition and strength can be sublimated and transformed.